I want to be a social person and have fun, but I never feel like talking to anyone. I always have the tendency to just keep to myself, but I want to make some new friends. Please help!?
2006-12-13 16:12:44 · 12 answers · asked by Sonya 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have the same problem well I used too, then when I got my job I became more open...your not always going to get along with everyone and most times you won't get along with any one...but times change people change and situations change you just have to find the right moment to start making friends, because you also don't want to make friends with people who you can't share interests with, all kinds of relationships take time in order for you to form a good solid relationship with a friends you need to give it time
2006-12-13 16:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by Gordita de Oro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is no magical solution for that . Just start out slow. Maybe at a gathering instead of sitting on the side lines, try saying hello to the nicest looking person there or even a smile. Sklowly as time goes by you will fine yourself being more social. In other words baby steps. Take it slow
2006-12-13 16:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by eca1094 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kind of like that too! Well, if you're in a group of peeps you know, try to find a topic that's broad enough for everyone...like music! Or just say something random like, "Hey, did you guys know there was this guy who lived in a fishtank?" Just off the top of your head, and they'll just start talking to you. I hope I helped you! :)
2006-12-13 16:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your gonna have to talk sometime to break this habbit so i suggest for looking for those who share a comon intrest and talk about that and build outward from there remember if you can make someone laugh they drop thier gaurd and bond with you more easily do that and you got it made or if your eating make sure to make small chit chat because the act of dining makes people bond if they talk while they do it it goes back to our primal erges so start out with a hello and ask them questions about themselfs thats what i do and it works just fine
2006-12-13 16:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by armient 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start exploring some activities. This gives you ample topics of conversation, gives you opportunities to meet new people, and makes you a more interesting person.
2006-12-13 16:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by something 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going out with a friend thats a little more outgoing and follow her lead when talking to people. I think you may feel more comfortable that way then eventually you can do it on your own
2006-12-13 16:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by BrooklynQT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you noticed, but you're being more social now. But if you really want someone to talk to, I could be your friend.
2006-12-13 16:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by shai brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a conversation by relating to people and they might have something in common with you.
2006-12-13 16:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by mojo2093@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to meet a lot of people..however you can!! The more people you know the more talkative people tend to be!
2006-12-13 16:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by Love Always, Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off the computer!
2006-12-13 16:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋