kay my question is, think of past relationships and current ones. what is your girlfriend doing that is driving you nuts, or annoys you, or plain pisses you off. then think about what it is in those relationships that you loved about her. then list as many of these qualities down as possible. good and bad. also think about things that woman are clueless about and that you wished that they would do things in a certain way. list these also. what makes you attracted to a woman and what keeps you interested.i feel that this is your chance to say what youve been wanting to say for so long. so bear your soul to me and you will be surprised how many girls will read this. and you never know. what one person reads gets relayed to another and maybe youll affect the life of someone ment for you. so i appreciate long detailed answers.
2006-12-13 16:07:01 · 10 answers · asked by solas lethe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You would be much more attractive if you would shut up a little.
2006-12-13 16:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The one thing I find most annoying is how a woman will have a problem or think she has a problem with the guy, but instead of going to the guy with it she will ask all of her friends (and even strangers) about it. Then she'll concoct some scenario(s) about what the solution is or how the guy thinks or some such BS. She'll already have decided everything in her mind before she even speaks to the guy.
The other thing I don't like is her having different rules of behaviour for me than she has for herself. She shouldn't expect more from me than she gives.
What attracts me is if she has a brain that she uses, she has a sense of humour, if she is sweet but not sickenly so, if she genuinely cares for me and shows it, and if she is at least pleasant looking (she doesn't have to be gorgeous or anything like that).
2006-12-13 16:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Problems will always arise no matter how compatible you think two people are. After the initial high reality sets in and the things you once thought were cute can now be annoying. Both must constantly work on the relationship and learn how to give and take. Expect problems and don't believer in the fairy tale. Tend to each others needs and it might just last through your golden years.
2006-12-13 16:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm . . . this is kind of interesting. Normally I wouldn't put so much effort into a question like this for two points, but I guess this time I'll make an exception.
To the first part:
Good qualities:
Personality: Kindness, optimism, faithfulness, and honesty are very important. Also, she should be very much in love with me. I'm all about action, not just words. So if she's going to be kind and loving, she has to show it.
Looks (ideal): Shorter than me, cute, lean, moderate-sized breasts and behind.
Bad qualities:
Personality: Nagging, disrespect, unappreciativeness, selfishness, lack of consideration for others' feelings, and stuck-up attitudes.
Looks: Obesity, being too boyish looking (not talking about the way they dress, but the way their body looks), being too tall or muscular, and any major deformity.
Other: Must not smoke. I really don't like drinking either (it isn't healthy), so I don't like women who do that extensively either. Children from other relationships are a big turn-off. (I saved myself, why couldn't they? And I'm not going to pay for anyone else's mistakes like that. Some women don't understand that.)
Things I wish women knew:
* Guys have feelings too. We aren't machines. Even though we seem distant sometimes, we get hurt feelings too.
* Men hate women who hate men. It seems like some women (and most of society, for that matter) are stuck on the idea that women are somehow better or more valuable than men. They won't come right out and say it (at least not often), but it's plain to see on TV, in movies, and even in Yahoo! Answers. It just isn't true.
* Nagging is one of the most irritating things you can do. It is so unloving.
* Guys are very often shy. If you think one likes you, go talk to him. It seems like I've been answering about 10 questions like this each day in Answers.
* Save yourself for marriage. It may be difficult, but it's worth it. And if you're going to lose your virginity before marriage anyway, please do not have children. Seriously, there are WAY too many single mothers out there, even at my age (I'm only 21, and it looks like a lot of the dating pool consists of single mothers). Not many guys want to date them either. I certainly would not consider it before I turn about 30 or 35. And then it would be a tough decision.
I hope this answers your question. Good night!
2006-12-13 16:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okey I'll b honest w/ you
-to be apperciated
-be nice, honest, faithful
-dont take evrything for granted
-dont think all I want sex
-dont ask for money all the time
-cook some food
-dont nag/*****
-talk with sweetness that I can lick :)
-dont be rude
-dont make row out in public
-share opinions
-make love not just sex
-make me want you
-make me happy, proud
-love me for who am I
-be happy with my both good and bad
-dont compair between genders
-be staright up
-no games or drama
-dont abuse
Hope that might help....for you...lol :)
If I left anything just add it...haha
2006-12-13 16:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by DON 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-05 07:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you question is EXACTLY what pisses men off. They don't want to give a LONG DETAILED anwser. They want to grunt and get laid and for that to be the end of it.
2006-12-13 16:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well dear I could give you a list of thousands of dos and don'ts but I'm not gonna do it you know why ? cuz ppl just don't learn from other's mistakes
2006-12-13 18:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mr.Who 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would answer this but she just got home and I can't deal with anymore of her nagging and fussing at me. God please kill me. She's standing in the kitchen yelling at me right now.
2006-12-13 16:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by jbsim75 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
THIS TAKES TOO LONG , HOW ABOUT STOP ANNOYING US WITH QUESTIONS , I'M A GUY ALL WE NEED IS SOME GOOD FOOD GOOD SEX AND NO ANNOYING QUESTIONS DEEP ROOTED STUFF PLEASE
2006-12-13 16:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by freeby1011 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋