Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

My boyfriend and I habe been having problems lately and resently it seemed to me like things were getting alittle bit better gradually,but then....! I was walking to his house last night and I saw him closing the gate door to were he parks so I surprised him and as I was walking towards him he got kind of nervous and he tried closing the door as fast as he couldbut , I am pretty fast so I ran inside the parking lot to see who and why was inside his car...........It was an other man .......And the thing about it is that {no offence to any one please} He looked gay, he acted gay and my boyfriend was very very nervous ,I asked him to take his friend home and he told me to stop acting like a weirdo and to go home ,so then him and his gay ,I mean " guy friend took off and left .Well some thing told me to go around the corner {our favorite drinking and kicking back spot for the week ends}and guess wha!!!! there they were booth of them ,drnking and talking.What the hell is going on here??????

2006-12-13 16:34:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 16:33:44 · 12 answers · asked by krikri625 2 in Singles & Dating

I really don't want to have one of those roommate horror stories to tell in a couple of years from now. I'm moving in w/ a girl I became friends with from nursing school this summer. I've always been the worried type...and also, I've had a bad experience last time I moved out. Now, I'm back w/ my parents but I'm ready to move out again for good (I'm a little bit older and wiser and willing to learn more). Well, any advice to keep it cool w/ my roommate. There will be three of us altogether. I'll have my own room/restroom. The two girls will share a room/restroom. I guess that will make it a little more easier for me, privacy! Well, see my last roommate said I didn't know the pleasantries when sharing a room w/ someone (I shared a room w/ her). See, I've never had to share a room ever in my whole life. I was fortunate to have my own room in every house my parents owned. So, that is why I'm having my own room/restroom this time. But I know roommate stuff is sensitive.

2006-12-13 16:33:39 · 6 answers · asked by bettyboop 2 in Friends

Looking for a old friend I used to work with at a doctors office in BHC, she was from Needles...her name is Sandra Weekly (I hope I spelled the last name correct..) she also had a son named Trevor. Any help is greatly appreciated! Thanks:)

2006-12-13 16:33:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If it is what would you suggest?

2006-12-13 16:31:58 · 10 answers · asked by Mysterious 2 in Friends

My dad was very mean to Mom in her last days, to the point of rejecting her and asking her to die - which she did.

I now live with him and my brother. I try not to forget what he did, because she died in pain - both physical and emotional.

A year down the line, I'm confused - should I forgive him, and he be happy that he got rid of her to win our (the kids') love? This would mean a win for him.

Should I forgive him for the sake of happiness of what remains of the family?

Or should I continue to 'punish' him for what he did, a villain is always a villain. Or it's up to God to punish him for what happened, which could be a mere perception of mine?

2006-12-13 16:30:26 · 28 answers · asked by just me.. 3 in Family

belongings or take her to court.................and she did.I am so sad,because she f_cked up my holiday....again

2006-12-13 16:30:05 · 8 answers · asked by lil hippie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was feeling elated because a good friend seemed to like me. We decided to remain friends a while back, but she had gotten closer to me since. She touched me a TON!!! She calls other girls competition and joked once that I was her boyfriend. She also spends all her time with me now. But tonight she says that she is sorry for hugging me because she broke my comfort zone. She apologized profusely and said she hugs lots of guys and she does not mean anything by it. WHAT ABOUT HER OTHER ACTIONS??? What does she really want? She also constantly asks why I give her weird stares after she does something flirty. Why does she ask?

2006-12-13 16:29:47 · 14 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

Do girls like to change my diapers?

2006-12-13 16:29:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 16:29:03 · 5 answers · asked by kzmvictor 1 in Friends

Do guys like it when a woman is brutally honest? I mean to the point of telling you exactly what I want when I want it, telling him what I think when he screws up, and not caring if I hurt your feelings (Not gonna lie to you just to spare your feelings) My guys says he loves it that I am this way but what do you think/

2006-12-13 16:28:57 · 7 answers · asked by ricksgrl2005 3 in Singles & Dating

I found out a couple years ago that my brother molested me when we were younger. He still hasn't sincerely apologized and I don't have any contact with him anymore. I don't want to cause problems in my family, but I think he should pay the consequences for what he did to me. I certainly am. I checked out the statute of limitations and I can legally still charge him. Is it worth the problems it could cause?

2006-12-13 16:27:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im 21, with two kids. I got married at 20. I love my husband and i dont want to lose him, but i have a problem with nagging all the time, and its ruining our relationship. but i dont realize when i do it. How can you stop doing something when you dont realize your even doing it. Im confused, i dont know how to stop. What should I do?

2006-12-13 16:26:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My Mom died unexpectedly October 24th; she was 79. We were incredibly close, and her loss has been a devistating blow. I was on route there when we lost her, and spent two weeks with my Dad arranging everything for the funeral and supporting my Dad (76). I came back home, tried to get back to work on my dissertation (Graduate student) but got sick. Then I hosted Dad for a week here over Thanksgiving. After he left I continued to be sick and have only just been feeling better over the last day or two.

My problem? Dad calls every day, (my fault, we live in different states, and I did tell him to call if and whenever he needed). I am an older student who has come back to school (39). I have not "reported" to my parents on my life in years. I know that all Dad needs is someone to talk to, and there are days that is fine. But sometimes, increasingly I keep getting resentful, -- I just want to be left alone to greive in my own way. And I want my life private again. I need space so that I can find my own rhythm again and eventually get back to work. I havent even engaged with anybody in my circle here either. While I was sick, I kept having to tell him "no, I'm not better" which made me feel that I wasnt getting well fast enough. Now that I am a little better, it's conversation what I do each day. (Part of my guilt, I havent gotten back to working on my stuff yet.) So, talking to him just makes me feel worse about that too. I have tried explaining this to him, but he still calls.

I want to be supportive to my Dad, but I also want to do what I need for myself. I am stuck. Dad also needs to engage more with his community of people. And it hurts to think how lonely he is -- I know. I am an only child, and the only relatives Dad has are an older Sister also in another state.

I turn to you because all of you seem to be going through similar things. Bless you for taking the time for me...(and my Dad). Help! How do I do the right thing for us both?

2006-12-13 16:26:33 · 16 answers · asked by Clear thinker 3 in Family

who i gave a second chance cheated on me. i never suspected him cheating when we were married, now after he begged for years i find out today that he has cheated more than once in hotels and asking a past flame for her new number in the grocery store and i was with him at the store with our children. we had been back together for a year and he told this past flame that he had to bring us to the store because my car was broken down. LIE LIE i don't even know how to explain the way i feel. i feel numb almost. i can't believe that i have done this to myself again. i don't need any sarcasim please. do you think it could work?

2006-12-13 16:25:18 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was a tutor for a girl. One time she admitted herself that she is an virgin even though I had never asked her. Why would she say so?

2006-12-13 16:24:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for almost 2 yrs now....this is my 2nd marriage...At first things where good as always how things are when u first get married..Shortly after getting married things where diff,,,he started to ignore me and push me to the side...pretty much spends most of his time alone and not with me or talking to me...we have never been very passionate with each other it was just never there really....i dont know why it just wasnt i guess i thought it was come in time but it still hasnt...just recently i started to see my ex bf again...we have the passion in between us we have more in common still after all these yrs...being with him im alive and i can feel he cares for me ...i feel speical.....what do you do? advice anyone

2006-12-13 16:23:48 · 9 answers · asked by carebearsweetheart06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey once again I'm going through some rough times right now and I need someone to "sort them out" and I was hoping you can be that someone. I might have brought this topic up before but now its really getting bad. The first time I e-mailed it it was about my "significant other" and how well she writes. After being in school for another 4 months I have also learned that she is the captain of the girls basketball team, has received straight A's, got a 209 on the PSAT, and has such a deep understanding of Islamic Fiqh and Seerah. What I'm getting at is that I feel inferior in every aspect of my life when in comparison to her. I also found out that her aspiration is to be a doctor. In Islam, the man is the one who should earn a profit for the family. If, and that is one big if, I do somehow in God's mercy that I marry her, she would essentially have a higher payroll than I. So in every aspect, whether deen or dunya, she has the "upper hand". What I'm asking is,"Is she really out of my reach?" I'm serious and I would expect a serious answer (honesty included). I might be going through a mild depression, but I highly doubt it. Most of the advise I ask you is based upon the moment. So as I always say, "The SUNNAH the better." I hope that you answer to this question ASAP.

2006-12-13 16:22:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy that I've known for a while...I have called him a few times & he's always really glad to talk with me. He's also came by my house once. WHY doesn't he ask me out? I do the calling. I don't understand because I think he likes me.

2006-12-13 16:22:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats a virggin? virgin?

2006-12-13 16:22:04 · 3 answers · asked by Shannon 2 in Singles & Dating

ok for far too long ive been a coddler and to sweet for my own good. im an anything you say dear kind of girl but inside i know that this is the wrong way to be. im too hard on myself and this i also know is wrong. i never say the right thing because my words lack confidence. i refuse to be this way any longer and i need your help. mold me. tell me the right things to do or say.i wont change who i am. just how i hold myself and react to situations. example, ive been with this guy for ten years now. we both struggle with issues. we are so close to our goal of connecting but i feel that there is this barrier. maybe on his side but yes on mine. he tends to get down and when he does he kind of goes into gotta rip on me mode. now i know its just his insecurities and hes like any other guy, he wants me to bite back. i think if i can do that, it actually could lighten the mood. i need to show him that i am an awsome woman and show him that in a way that makes him stop picking at me.

2006-12-13 16:21:20 · 9 answers · asked by solas lethe 3 in Singles & Dating

is that generally a good thing?

2006-12-13 16:20:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

exact phrase: You can be a devil in bed, but you should be in angel in all the rest. Please write me your first reaction or thought

2006-12-13 16:18:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean why is it that women even reject the most buff guys?Is it a personality thing?Perhaps the guy is too arrogant or doesn't respect her?

2006-12-13 16:17:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 16:16:43 · 13 answers · asked by Nicky71 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure if u get it on the right side it means your gay or something. n e who, thanks:)

2006-12-13 16:16:27 · 10 answers · asked by Betty B 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 16:16:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 16:16:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I had rough year we have two kids 2 1/2 and almost 5 yr old girls been together about 4 yrs out of work for about 6months but just started this week a new job actually new carreer that is $10 k more a year plus commisons, it's second shift and 3rd day look like they want me to move up quick .. i just don't feel comfortable at home with my wife she said our problems start getting fixed one one of us works now that I have i have not felt difference what is it to soon????help

2006-12-13 16:15:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-13 16:13:30 · 17 answers · asked by nodumgys 7 in Singles & Dating