I was feeling elated because a good friend seemed to like me. We decided to remain friends a while back, but she had gotten closer to me since. She touched me a TON!!! She calls other girls competition and joked once that I was her boyfriend. She also spends all her time with me now. But tonight she says that she is sorry for hugging me because she broke my comfort zone. She apologized profusely and said she hugs lots of guys and she does not mean anything by it. WHAT ABOUT HER OTHER ACTIONS??? What does she really want? She also constantly asks why I give her weird stares after she does something flirty. Why does she ask?
2006-12-13 16:29:47 · 14 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IT SOUND LIKE SHE PLAYING GAMES, AND YOU SHOULD LET
HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. BUT AS LONG AS YOU ALLOW
HER TO DO THIS SHE WILL. YOU SOUND LIKE A GOOD GUY
SOME OTHER GUYS WOULD NOT PUT UP WITH THIS FOR
TWO LONG. TRUST ME.
2006-12-13 16:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds ike she doesn't know what she wants - or is just testing the waters.... How old is she ?? teenagers get like that alot- raging hormones ??? to much cafiene?
Who knows just decide what you want if the flirting etc with you bugs you tell her - if shes truely your friend she'll understand -- if not you can ask her directly ?? hat do you want ??? daring yet brave move would clear things up definatlly if shes at least truthfull that is... then you'd truely know what she wants ... Or even better become a mind reader & life would be sooo much easier !
Good luck with enterin g the twisted mind of the woman - I am one & I don't even understand me LOL
2006-12-14 00:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by suprise me ! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good news is she is comfortable with you and trusts you totally. That accounts for her actions. They are apparently not meant to attract you, but are used for her security in your presence. She asks the questions because she questions her own self-esteem (is she worth being around?). If there is any bad news it is that sometimes she comes on a little too strong for your hormones to understand that she considers you a CLOSE personal friend. Remember, she trusts you completely.
2006-12-14 00:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like she is feeling you out to see how u feel about her...maybe she wants to take it to the next level but ...she values the friendship yall have greatly..and as bad as i hate to say it there have been numerous times that taking a platonic friends relationship to the dating level and have something go wrong and u wind up losing the close friendship they had...talk it over ask her point blank be like i said be careful make sure the friendship can last even if the two of u dating doesn't work out
2006-12-14 00:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by bigmiker2109 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a tease sweetheart. this is not the kind of girl who will be good to you, or be faithful. she totally knows what she is doing and is doing it for the attention. she is using you as a comfort blanket while she searches for a guy who really turns her on.
exit this friendship quickly and dont look back. there is so much thoughtfulness in your question, i know there is a girl out there for you!
2006-12-14 00:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by neonatheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're interested in her, I would just come right out and ask her if she's interested in you. Her actions seem pretty conflicting, so I think the only way to know for sure is ask her.
2006-12-14 00:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, take a hint, this girl is into you. she's totally comfortable b/c you were friends first, but its not too late to take that extra step. i say if you're attracted at all, go for it. it could quite possibly be the best relationship you've ever had. best friends are just that--the best....and even better when they put out!
2006-12-14 00:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by mike h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's insecure...and she really likes you...maybe your like her comfort zone kind of thing...she might feel that being with you makes her feel better...but she also questions why you seem interested in something she does because she wants you to be more interested in her
2006-12-14 00:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by Gordita de Oro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants a friend with benefits. She's using you.
2006-12-14 00:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by Bridget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and give her a kiss. This is what Jesus wants for you.
2006-12-14 00:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by colorlesschunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋