My boyfriend and I habe been having problems lately and resently it seemed to me like things were getting alittle bit better gradually,but then....! I was walking to his house last night and I saw him closing the gate door to were he parks so I surprised him and as I was walking towards him he got kind of nervous and he tried closing the door as fast as he couldbut , I am pretty fast so I ran inside the parking lot to see who and why was inside his car...........It was an other man .......And the thing about it is that {no offence to any one please} He looked gay, he acted gay and my boyfriend was very very nervous ,I asked him to take his friend home and he told me to stop acting like a weirdo and to go home ,so then him and his gay ,I mean " guy friend took off and left .Well some thing told me to go around the corner {our favorite drinking and kicking back spot for the week ends}and guess wha!!!! there they were booth of them ,drnking and talking.What the hell is going on here??????
2006-12-13 16:34:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he plays both ways
2006-12-13 16:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfriend is having a homosexual affair. Why even ask about it my dear, all the signs are right in front of you. Pay attention to the signs. Good luck. Life is not as mysterious as it may seem, it's actually pretty clear cut. We are human and have a bad way of justifying things that we see instead of just telling ourselves the truth, or just facing the facts.
2006-12-13 16:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by tomcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay its one of those is ur boyfriend gay most likly, and if he's gay he's not gonna want u. i'd tell u to just ask him but he mgiht take offence to it but it time to dump him and move on, cuz y try to work it out with someone u think is gay.
2006-12-13 16:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by princess1panda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already know what's going on. Obviously, he doesn't want you involved about his affair. He told YOU to go home, and didn't bother to explain. That should tell you something, right there.
Do you think you can stay with a guy who has gay affairs?
Do you think he will stay with you, or choose the guy? My bet is, he has already chosen the guy.
2006-12-13 16:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether or not he's gay doesnt even matter here/
the fact is that he is keeping secrets from you and that means an untrustworthy boyfriend. count your blessings that you havent married him or have any kids with him, b/c you can easily walk away.
and i dont mean just walk, RUN away. he may have exposed you to an array of STD's.
2006-12-13 16:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by neonatheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend and you really have any hope of a relationship, you guys have to communicate with each other. Talk with him about it, but only if you can ask the question without judgement or inuendo.
Be open and honest with each other.
2006-12-13 16:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by Clear thinker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry hun but I agree with my fellow yahooligans. I suggest you have a talk and make your decision from there...I wouldn't suggest going for a roll in the hay till you figure out what is going on..and that goes for if you suspected him being with a woman as well..not just because it is a guy.
2006-12-13 16:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by darkorchid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be gay or bi....but I really would not continue the relationship until I get some straight answers..(no pun intended)Then decide what you want to do...But if he will not give you answers, then just leave him to his 'guy' friend.
2006-12-13 16:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUND LIKE YOUR BOY FRIEND MAY BE GAY, AND THAT
WHY HE WAS NERVOUS, YOU CAUGHT HIM WITH A MAN,
AND THE FACT THAT HE TELL YOU TO GO HOME AND HE
STAY WITH THE GUY,. TIME TO LEAVE BOYFRIEND ALONG,
THIS ONE HAVE SOME ISSUES TO REALLY WORK.
2006-12-13 16:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him first. Then come to a conclusion, but that is weird especially since you said your bf was acting nervous.
2006-12-13 16:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by NJ Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf likes butter on both sides of his bread.
hes a little light in the loafer.
hes gay. go get checked for AIDS.
2006-12-13 16:50:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋