I have a boyfriend.. The problem is I don't like his attitude.. So I want to break up with him but I don't know how..What should I say if he ask me why I wanna break up with him?? I don't want to hurt his feelings...Please help me....
2006-12-13 15:51:51 · 9 answers · asked by Lil' Mira 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be real to him and to yourself. but before that?--what attitudes about him that you dont like? or is it just you? what i mean is, you go into this relationship and when you get closer and you find something in him that you dont like, then you want to break up with him? is that how you handle relationships? because if it is, you will always end up breaking up with every boyfriend you will have. you see, love is not a feeling! it is not an emotion. love is a choice. it is a choice that whatever may come and whatever good or bad that you see in him, that you will still choose to love the person no matter what. that's what love is... it takes effort and it takes time. so it's clear that what you feel now isnt true love, or even close to it. its better that you end that relationship as soon as possible and stay single.. stay single because that's how God wants you to be. HE wants you to be pure until you get married to the man that HE has already set apart for you. HE wants to preserve you so you won't have regrets in the end. HE wants your best interest and is so committed to your pleasure and happiness. that's why HE wants you to wait for that moment because HE knows, in all HIS wisdom, that you will only experience true joy when you're under HIS will. pray for God to show you the right person and just patiently wait because HE will give that person when HE knows its the right time. but dont worry because when you find him, you will surely say that it's been worth all the waiting. so just wait...because you, too, are worth waiting for.
2006-12-13 16:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people cant handle the truth but the truth must be told.Its a difficult situation but u r justified by breaking up with him becus of his attitude.Most people will stick around and take the abuse or whatever the stinking attitude is doing to them.Gather courage and tell him.Maybe u already gave him the chance to work on himself and he didnt so go ahead and tell him.Its going to hurt,but like i said,the truth must be told.All the best
2006-12-13 17:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by Ben S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get this straight to everyone who reads this...
When you break up with someone, YOU DO hurt someone! There is no nice way of doing it.
You dont like his attitude, okay! Did you talk to him about it first, or are you just giving up on him? You need to tell him that you like the way he is, and that if he really wants to see this relationship go somewhere in the future, that he needs to change some of his ways . And that you dont want to be dragged down by his negative, and cocky attitude.
be honest.
2006-12-13 15:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that if he asks you why you are breaking up with him .... perhaps, you should tell him why? Truth hurts....but if he's got attitude...maybe he needs to work on changing it.
2006-12-13 15:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by Tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you don't like his attitude, give him a reason why, and then tell him he either has to change or its over.
2006-12-13 16:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth-plain and simple. If you cant do it....think if you really want to spend the rest of your life with this person.
2006-12-13 15:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by JM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you tell him the truth now or he finds out later and might hold a grudge... which do you prefer?
2006-12-13 15:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by IHateTrolls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest , it may help him change
2006-12-13 15:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by J.B.1972 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth. maybe he will change for you. else, he will change for his future girlfriends.
2006-12-13 16:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by romeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋