My fiancee and I came to an agreement that he would no longer look at porn on the internet. He is doing it again and I think it's an addiction but he doesn't. Do I have a right to be mad and hurt or am I just being insecure? This is the one thing I don't want to bring into a marrage and he knows it. Is it pointless to try to change him or should I just leave now?
2006-12-13 15:40:28 · 8 answers · asked by sincere_woman25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should become his personal porn star
2006-12-13 15:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by Tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has an addiction as it is accessible easily. those people were on a show in porn how long it takes for a perfect head shot and episodes of the whole ordeal sometimes 2 days to look perfect so it isn't all that so great when you see it it don't happen like that tell him .also he is in denial of being an addict. perhaps a sex addict is on the rise. if he wants porn tell him to rent a movie & watch it with you. in all reality what ya see in that smut is nto the 1st take. it is done and planned out it isnt real like it would be with you and him. it is a show.. and it is a job to those people.. visuals help a man they are visual they like u dressed sexy any girl cleavage skirts panties etc they like visuals provide some for him then try the things he so called watches adn gets turned onto he wants that give him that live if ot tell him to get lost ur better than a fake actor pretending ot moan your real and there.
2006-12-13 23:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be too much out of line, but maybe the problem is that you are not putting out as much as he would like. What I've found is that people who are not satisfying their sexual appetite look to porn as a way to meet their needs. If it bothers you he is looking at porn, I suggest either a. watch porn yourself and get over it, b. taking nude pictures of yourself to get him off, or c. having a lot more sex with him. Hey, at least he's not cheating on you.
2006-12-13 23:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by Auron Z 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
here you go!
You need to be mad, you need to protect Yourself and keep him accountable! You need to get some Christian Skyware or something on your computer to where it will block all Porn from your ciomputer. I have that on me and my mans computer!
You are not being insecure, You just want to feel loved! and you want to be treated like the only thing on this earth to him.
He isnt worth it, it IS a addiction, and if he doesnt prove himself to you, then maybe you should hold back the wedding or rethink who HE really is.
2006-12-13 23:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your fiancee the ultimatum and make sure he knows that you are serious that you will leave him, if his porn really is the deal-breaker.
2006-12-13 23:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by TarKettle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install NetDog Porn Filter : http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-12-14 10:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
porn is normal. he's a guy. try finding one who doesn't watch porn.
2006-12-13 23:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by romeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody needs porn, come on.
2006-12-13 23:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by DeadmanWalks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋