I have been dating this girl for three years. I love her and she makes me happy. We have a long distance relationship, but untill now it has worked pretty well. She loves me and cares for me very deeply There are possibilities that we will be moving closer together within the year. My best friends are pressuring me to break up with her. I am trying to hold in my emotions but every time they say something I just want to scream. I respect and love my friends dearly and I dont want to loose them. They think I would have a good relationship with this other girl.. I like the other girl and I think that I could be happy with her as well. She lives close to me right now but there is a possibility that I could be moving away within the year. My girlfriend goals and aspirations in life are a lot closer to my own than the new girl's. I dont know what to do. I am in a lot of pain . She keeps telling me to do what makes me happy. I dont know what that is. email if you need more information
2006-12-13 16:36:33 · 5 answers · asked by spidersinthedressingroom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girls r not toys stop acting like this!!!!!
2006-12-13 16:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this were me, I would stick with my old girlfriend. If you TRULY love and care about her, then your friends wouldn't matter. You need to set your priorities. Do your friends mean more than her? Do you really have a chance with this new girl? Dropping your girlfriend for something better is just a jerky thing to do. You'll be breaking her heart as well as going into something with another girl whom maybe doesn't feel the same way about you. You decision also needs to depend on what you want out of the relationship. If you want marriage, then your goals and aspirations should be the same or similar. If all you want is a summer fling, then it can go either way. Don't lie to convince your girlfriend that you love her when you don't. Back to your friends. Have you told your friends how much your girlfriend means to you? How do you talk about her? If all they hear is bad stuff about her, then yeah, they're going to push you to get out the relationship. Consider the fact that they don't see things the same way you do. Is this new girl hot? Are they pushing it for looks? Examine your goals and priorities.
2006-12-14 00:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU HAVE BEEN WITH THIS GIRL FOR 3 YEARS AND YOU
DONT KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. THEN MAY YOU JUST NEED
TO LEAVE HER ALONG. IT WOULD BE UNFAIR TO HER TO
KEEP HANGING ON TO HER IF YOU ARE LOOKING AT
SOMEONE ELSE. AS FOR YOUR FRIENDS, THEY MAY SEE
THIS A LOT CLEARER THEN YOU DO. BECAUSE IF YOU LOVE HER SO MUCH AND SHE MAY YOU HAPPY, THEN WHY
ARE YOU LOOKING ESLE WERE. SOUND LIKE YOU NOT AS
IN LOVE AS YOU THINK AFTER ALL THIS TIME YOU SHOULD
NOW SOMETHING DONT YOU THINK. BE A MAN AND STEP
UP TO THE PLATE. HONESTLY IS THE BEST POLICY.
2006-12-14 00:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the grass is not allways green on the other side. your friends could want your girlfriend themself be careful. remember everything that looks good is not allways good'
2006-12-14 00:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend some serious time alone contemplating what you want, it may be that neither of these girls are suitable for you.
2006-12-14 00:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by desert_rose1274 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋