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I finally ask this girl I like out. We were suppose to meet yesterday for lunch, but i wasn't able to get a hold of her. I called her phone, left messages and still no call back. I seen her today at work and I just ignored her. Should I just leave her a lone for good, or just ignore her, or call her, or what. I really feel bad for getting stood up, because I really like her and really wanted to have lunch with her.. so I dont know.

2006-12-13 17:50:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Now be honest, do you like her for her looks, or for her personality? I'm going to take a guess and say looks, because it doesn't sound like her personality is all that great, if she's this inconsiderate. Forget about her, and forget what happened, because it's only going to bring you down. Instead, keep your options open, and wait for a girl who deserves your time and attention. Don't mess with this girl anymore - she's already shown you she's not worth it.

2006-12-13 17:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by doodlebugg 3 · 1 0

You know, I have had it happen to me several times where the girl thought I stood her up and I thought she stood me up and she ended up calling me and asking me where I am or what happened.

People do get dates, times and places confused (I've done it). In my cases it always ended up being something we laughed about through the course of the relationship. I remember this one girl at work gave me her number and wanted me to call her (we had a thing for each other and hung out at work but she wanted more) so when I went to call her it was the wrong number.

A week went by and she asked why I hadn't called her, and I told her. She told me to check the number and TRY AGAIN!! Sure enough, I was dialing two of the numbers backwards!!!

Stranger things have happened.


Now having said that, if she doesn't make it up to you and is just flaky, move on, you don't want to waste your time with someone who is flaky. Flaky people are one of my biggest pet peeves!

2006-12-14 02:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Quit worrying about this person. Such a rude action does not deserve anything from you but dismissal. I would continue to smile and seem unscathed by her cruel insensitivity to you. Make her realize that she is no longer the person you thought she was. No need to inform her unless she asks. She is the one who should approach you. You did no wrong, SHE did. Now go find a girl worthy of taking out on a date. She isn't!

2006-12-14 01:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by PZ 3 · 2 0

Whoever's fault it was should apologize to the other. Maybe she thinks you stood her up and you think she stood you up? Mention to her that you tried to get in touch with her but were unable to. If she definitely stood you up, then she just changed her mind and is not interested.

2006-12-14 01:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by J89434 2 · 0 0

Forget her /-\$$. You deserve better than that. If she can't even call to make different arrangements or give you a REALLY good excuse, she doesn't like you enough. Good night!

2006-12-14 01:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1 0

She's just playing games and that isn't fun, you can do better forget about her and find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated.

2006-12-14 01:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by The_Game 3 · 0 0

If she didn't return your phone calls or even have the respect to explain herself, she is obviously not interested, go find another girl :) :) :)

2006-12-14 01:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by sexton 6 · 1 0

silence always means concern. If she didnt pitch for a date & didnt even try to make up for it, she is probably not interested & this should be your que to leave.

2006-12-14 01:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by stiletto 3 · 1 0

you sound like a real insecure desperate wussbag! girls can smell it a mile away.

be a freakin man, geez

find someone else, she isn't into you dude, dont be a fool

2006-12-14 01:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by willcurrent 1 · 1 2

Don't waste your time on her.

2006-12-14 01:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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