Im looking for some advice from some women me and my fiance have had a rough time lately and ive been under alot of stress she was 16 when we got together and i was 17 and she had had no previous relationship experience. we were just 3 weeks away from moving in togethjer when we had a huge arguement and she told me she had to see if this was right for her. while ive been under stress ive been easily agitated and have been having many fights how do i prove to her that things will get better she still wants to go on a date once a week but still b able 2 see other guys 2 see if this is right. i know i love her i have had a few long term relationships that ive been hurt in and io dopnt want to lose the last goodthing i have in my life.
2006-12-13 18:21:17 · 6 answers · asked by Jon K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry to say this but i it sounds like a way out for her, a break usually means its over... & for her to be saying she wants to see other guys, than that is a dead giveaway that she isnt as much as in love with you as you are her.... im so sorry, but maybe you should face the truth and consider moving on.... what ever you do SMILE.... good luck.
2006-12-13 18:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear hurting, Getting together at a young age is not always the best thing in life. She has never been with anybody else.I have fiends like that the guy had girls and she had nobody a few years back she came on to me,its hard for her she wants to try something different everybody is different let her have her fun she wants to see whats out there.Getting into fights is not going to make things better, you can't control her. She wants some spice in her life. My fiends been together for 25 years know so maybe it will work out in the end.
2006-12-14 02:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by dogwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. If you truely love her and trust in your love then you need to be unselfish and let her see. Would you rather have her always wonder and potentially cheat or get it out of her system now and realize you are the one?
If it is meant to be, it will be and she will be back. Make sure you guys have boundries though, like no sex with the other men or whatever you guys decide.
2006-12-14 02:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by I carry your heart with me... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hardcore facts is that your girly still wanna have fun. She aren't that ready to settle down. What you can do is merely just set this lady love free and just be there for her. Treat this period as a break for yourself as well.
Eventually things will turn out well, you're done with your well deserved break and her, knowing you're still the best for her.
2006-12-14 02:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by PassionFruit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys never tested the water, and she wants to see if there is anyone better for her. I personally would let her do what she has to do and you should do the samething. See what happens after that
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2006-12-14 02:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by Alexander R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋