I'm losing the man i love,this is the lowest ive ever felt. He blows hot and cold but doesnt seem to have the balls to tell me it's over. I cant concentrate on anything but him,i try keeping busy but it doesnt work. I havent seen him in ages now and we even talked marriage. All i want to do is sleep,i slept about 12 hours the other day,the only time i'm not thinking of him is when i'm asleep.
2006-12-13 18:16:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel your pain. I've been there too.
If he wants to let go, let him go. He's not going to help you be un-depressed, and if he comes back you will have that fear of losing him.
Be alone for now until you can find your strength there.
2006-12-13 19:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by sincere12_26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I've felt that depressed many times. I've had so many relationships end that you would think that I would be numb to it by now. But, I am not. If i were to lose my husband this day i would slip into a horrible state of depression. The good news is that these feelings go away. If you're having a really hard time sleeping get an over the counter sleep aid, that'll help. For me the easiest way to get over someone is to find someone new. I feel better that way. However, I don't suggest that as it is not a solution but a crutch and only leads to rebound relationships.
2006-12-13 18:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by stop_staring_please 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't have to bring yourself to that if he really loved you. Don't you think? Hey would like to be dead and he brings his woman to your funeral. Seen it happened but guess what there isnt anything that you could do about it because you would be too dead to do anything. Look move on and find someone else who would be more involved with you and would actually love you. Try to focus on something else then can't tell you to do this either because everyone has their own ways of dealing with there break ups. Its over so face it and deal with it. Don't end your life because your failed in a relationship or you know what the truth is he failed at this relationship. Live life to the fullest because life has a lot to offer you might not see it now but it is true.
2006-12-13 18:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey Greeny hang in there, the posts you've gotten are helping, yes? I would add, go get a little book called "The Blue Day Journal / The Blue Day Directory." Its blue (big surprise), and spiral bound, one book starts one one side, you flip it over and the other one starts there. They meet somewhere in the middle. Anyways, it's just a little something you deserve, and it's kinda fun... It will gently pull you into a happier state, I think. Be well. Get the book girl.
2006-12-13 18:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by monk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ok, its your logic that is off. You see, youre life is a book and your going through one of the most intense chapters right now. But if you stop reading, you'll never know about the more pleasant chapters youll face in the future. Like after you find your true soulmat then email back and tell me then how you feel about this looser.
2006-12-13 18:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by pete_mishler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have felt so depressed I wanted to end my own life. The important thing to remember if you are feeling this way is that your brain is onlying focusing on the thing that makes you dressed and your mind is creating a big terrible situation that really does not exists. What you need to do is tell your self that things are going to get better with time, things will get better they always do!
2006-12-13 18:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by Bob W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why dont you dump him? you seem unhappy with him at the moment. so why not take charge and you dump him!. pick up your head. i have felt liek that before when my bf broke up with me. i just felt like dyings. i was depressed for days and didnt eat anythign cause i was so deoressed. i also slept alot. things will only get better with time trust me! do not end your life over anything. it is a precious thing to waste. especially over a guy who isnt treating you right it seems. please try more to find things to do. maybe hang otu with friend or family members more. start exercising. going on walks helps me. listen to some music. take up a new hobby. maybe train for a triathalon? there are many things to do! maybe take up a craft like beading or painting, ect
time heals all wounds.
good luck!
2006-12-13 18:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ending your life or putting yourself in this mess is a loser's work.
Why would you do that?
Think very well. Let your heart take a back seat.
The world is a big playground. He is not the only person you can find.
There are no quarantees in life, my dear, so stop surrendering yourself to someone who doesn't even deserve you.
Meet your friends and do other activities instead of sleeping it off.
2006-12-13 18:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by nomamalin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The hardest step to take is the first one! Once you do each one leads to a better day. I know it sounds cliche but you dont need to base your life around a man! I did that once. I loved him very much but one day i took a step and then i kept steppin iw as with him almost 4 years he was my first everything. Its been almost 5 years now i still think bout him but it stopped hurting a long time ago. And guess what the next relationship was easier and they keep gettin easier to deal with. Just take that first step gurl................
2006-12-13 18:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by fine_ass_fatty21 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, i've felt this way before. it happened for me after my dog died...i went to work and thought about him all day, then i came home and just slept...i barely ate...barely talked to anyone. but after a while i just kept praying that my dog was with god in heaven, and i prayed that i would find the strength to move on. and after a few weeks little by little i started to be able to accept it a little better i guess. my thinking started to change, and i realized that my dog wouldn't want me to die, and neither would my family and friends. i started to see all the things in the world that still needed me, and that made me feel better. i still get really sad and cry sometimes because i miss my dog, but i feel more positive about my life now.
so just hang on. i know it's really tough right now, but just keep praying and i really hope that you'll find the strength that i found.
2006-12-13 18:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋