my ex just showed up in our driveway, my husband isnt home. I havent seen him for 3 yrs. I go to see what he wants and tell him if my husband was here this wouldnt be a good place to be! He tried to get me to go with him but I said no and not to come back. After that he left. I called my husband right away and told him what had happened and He is interrregating me and not believing anything I say and even allowing his 19 yr old son to talk crap to me also. He says I knew that he was coming and have been talking to him for 2 months! Is he wrong for calling me liar and integgrating me and putting me down and allowing his son in our business? or do I deserve it?
2006-12-13 18:23:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your husband has major trusting issues... he sounds like the controlling type. The fact that he lets your son disrespect you sounds ridiculous and even emotionally/mentally abusive to me. You don't deserve it if honestly you rejected your ex- you did the right thing and you should be PRAISED for that and not ridiculed! You shouldn't put up with this treatment any longer!
2006-12-13 18:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex husband sounds alot like mine.Maybe he showed up in order to cause problems between your husband and you.So far the ex has managed to do exactly.What he set out to do?Cause problems between your husband and you.Your husband standing there calling you a liar/interrogating you is playing right into the hands of the ex.In other words your husband is doing exactly.What the ex wanted him to do? Shame on your husband.He should be standing by your side.His jealousy/insecurity of the ex is blinding him.He is acting that way because he is afraid you will leave him go back to the ex.He is angry at the wrong person.Not only does he owe you an apology so does his 19 year old son.His son had no business in this matter at all!!His father should have told him to stay out of it.
2006-12-14 03:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by noga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. A man should treat his wife with respect and love. No male should treat a female that way.
2. It is really none of your sons business and he should stay out of your affairs with your husband.
3. Your husband has no reason to treat you like that, especially if what you say is true.
2006-12-14 02:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you don't deserve it. There is nothing you could do about it, and you were right to tell your husband right away. Your husband is the one who has the problem, not trusting you and treating you like dirt.
Just let it ride and give it time. He should get over it. I hope. I hope you haven't married a jealous maniac-there are many out there!
2006-12-14 02:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by moondrop000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not any body's fault in fact. Couples are meant to be couples. If you love your your husband more, no need to feel guilty. you know u r true to him, that's all is needed. No need to discuss it with anybody. Maybe, since it has become into a serious issue, u must try to express your truthfulness to him, from time to time. u must make him understand that u and he are not rivals, in fact, u are meant to be life partners and friends. he'll definitely think abt it, at least think of letting ur son talk to u. but, i would suggest making up with him, explain the fact, avoid ur ex for time being. BE GOOD FRIENDS AND NOT MERELY COUPLES.!!!!!!!
LIFE WOULD SHINE BRIGHTER.!!!!!!!
2006-12-14 02:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by Yoga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him man im not stupid dont you think that if i called him and wanted him here dont you think i would have been a little more discreet and not told you
he looks like the *** here unless you have given him a good reason not to trust you
2006-12-14 09:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by aengel69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-14 02:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by Alexander R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey I don't believe that you should be treated like that, you didn't know he was going to show up. I hope for your sake he will let it go. God bless you.
2006-12-14 02:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he'll soon be your 2nd. ex-husband.
Talk to him about his 19 year old son.
2006-12-14 03:11:59 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first check your spelling, then never have conversations with your ex alone. just walk away. no you don't deserve it. he's a jerk!
2006-12-14 02:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by BIGDADDYBEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋