i trusted him and beleived. he told me not to date any other guys except him. he wants me to be loyal and i did. its been a month ago since we didnt go out but last week he asked me when we can be out again and answered anytime coz its the truth. he will look for his work schedule he said. and i beleived that he is really busy. but one night when i was in the taxi i saw him with a chick holding each others hands. it hurted me. i didnt speak to him. he makes me feel stupid. we might see on friday in a party. what will i do?
2006-12-13 18:21:33 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go to the party with someone else or a group of friends and when you run into him, just say hi and smile like he doesn't even matter. You don't owe him anything and you were lucky enough to catch him cheating now rather than later! no need to plot any type of revenge, just live your life with a big smile and a happy heart!
2006-12-13 18:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by ginap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what in a situation like this one be the bigger person pretend there's nothing wrong with you hold your head up high go to the party, but you don't have to say anything to him. Trust me he'll need you before you need him let it stay just like it is now see he's playing your game now the balls in your court. That was just a fling between him and that other chick he really didn't owe you that lie but it's done everybody plays the fool once. Be a lady about it don't go and show your *** pay him no mine at all. And see what kind of respond you get. DO LIKE I SAID AND I BET YOU'LL SEE RESULTS I really want to know how this went so tell me about it! hotgirlon_d_run200506@yahoo.com GOOD LUCK OK
2006-12-14 02:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by patricia j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't hurt him just because you got hurt seeing him with other girl. You know "karma"? What he did to you will bounce back to him, believe it. Now, if you'll see him in a party, try to be cool. Then ask this, "hey, what's up? i've seen you with this lady, who is she?" don't sound sarcastic while asking it. then maybe if you have time to talk longer then do it. be honest with him even if you feel (and saw) that he's cheating on you.
2006-12-14 02:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by BingQ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget about him. he is obviously no good. he will just keep on hurting you. and you really don't need to do anything to hurt him. two wrongs do not make a right. just totally ignore him, that will hurt his inflated ego without even trying! and it's what is best for you anyway. if he calls you, just tell him that you're busy, and don't have time for him, and hang up. you deserve better than this jerk! and there are still nice guys out there who will treat you right.
Best wishes with everything
2006-12-14 02:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously this guy is a cheating bastard and i personally would not waste my time on him. dress yourself up, so he will see what he's lost and be very distant from him all night like you are just not interested in him anymore. he will crawl back to you like a 40 year old virgin and that's when you tell him where to go. find a nice guy who is loyal and enjoy your life. hope everything works out for you :)
2006-12-14 02:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go to the party you may get hurt more,but also don't sink to that level,he's not worth you worrying about how to hurt him.distance yourself from that slob but don't show that you got hurt ,hook up with someone else and if he makes an effort to talk to you tell him you can't talk to him like that any more because you hooked up with this really hot guy even if the guy isn't hot because he'll start to think about what he lost that will kill him worse because he will regret it.good luck!!!!!
2006-12-14 02:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember...REVENGE IS BEST SERVED COLD.
What does this mean?
It means you don't even care enough to address him anymore. You're done with him, finished. End it now and move on. THis is how you get back at him....by not giving him the time of day. Don't go to this party where he's going to be at either. End IT!!!
2006-12-14 02:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother going after him to hurt him. In fact, don't bother with him at all. He obviously isn't holding himself to the same standards he's holding you to, so dump him. If you see him at the party, ignore him as much as possible, if he tries to get you to go on another date with him tell him no.
2006-12-14 02:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by triviatm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hold your head up high and forget the revenge part. It's not like you were married. You just learned an important life lesson... don't be too trusting.
2006-12-14 02:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by jwplaster 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will be polite and kind. You will be distant and busy. But you will not hurt him because hurting someone hurts you also. Turn this over to God where it belongs, and don't worry about hurting someone. There is already enough hurt in this world.
2006-12-14 02:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by moondrop000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋