i dye my hair blonde. my husband says he prefers brunettes.
2006-12-13 17:56:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am naturally a brunette and my husband met me as a brunette.
i do look pretty cute with blonde hair!
2006-12-13 17:56:51 · update #1
i think you should have your hair anyway you want it. im sure your husband married you based on more than the colour of your hair.
2006-12-13 17:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being attracted to ones partner has nothing to do with the colour of their hair. It's what's inside them that makes them attractive. If your husband prefers brunettes though and that is your natural colour Why do you dye it blonde ?? Oh sorry l forgot because it makes you look cute !! Personally l think that the peroxide has soaked into your brain. What do you think about that ??
2006-12-13 18:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, the attraction is and SHOULD be more than just hair color. It is in the smile, and the look, the tenderness, the playfulness, etc. Physical appearance disappears with age. Hair turns gray or falls out, gain weight, get wrinkled, etc. If this is the only thing that makes him attracted to you, then you have a problem. Changing your hair is your desire, and he should respect your desires, and be more attracted to the inner you. What's more is that maybe he does like the color more, but he should like the blond also. Do you tell him that you would like it if he were taller? Or skinnier? Or more muscular? etc. He may also consider your feelings as well! Hurting your feeling won't help either.
2006-12-13 18:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Curious Bill 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
thats just sillly i was a brunett when we met but i have been a million colors in the las 30 yrs and my husband love ever one of me he finds it fun to sleep with a woman who changes so much gee its your hair enjoy yourself after all he should get turned on by yu because of his love for yuo not the color of lyour hair
2006-12-13 18:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think that the color of a woman/wife/girlfriends hair is what is most important? If so, ask him.
2006-12-13 17:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's like asking if you still find your husband attractive if he wears clothes you don't like.
Probably yes, but not _quite_ as much.
2006-12-14 03:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she appears OK with the colour, then it alright but if it does not suit her, she must be told truthfully that it does not suit her. The husband must be honest with her and suggest something else.
Good Luck
2006-12-13 18:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most men don't worry to much about the color of their wife's hair.
So, do what makes you feel good.
2006-12-13 17:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its your hair it doesn't hurt to experiment besides like someone said in here its whats inside that counts
2006-12-13 18:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm my girlfriend is always attractive to me because its the inside that counts. Beauty has more ways then one.
2006-12-13 17:58:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋