My husband passed away in May 06'......There was an age difference, but we loved eachother......Now Im having trouble with his daughter wanting our things from our home.........Ive been through 5 atty's , and they are NO help......They take my money, and go full force........Then BAM NOTHING ! Ive lost my home, my car, my insurance (through my husband)...EVERYTHING ! I was pregnant with twins, and due to stress (his daughter) I had a miscarriage...... She just wont stop ! Any suggestions ?
2006-12-13 18:08:37 · 7 answers · asked by Missy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
How long were you married? The things in the house is yours and his, even though he has passed away. She has no right coming into your home and taking things. Search the web for an attorney that specializes in this kind of case. You need to get in front of a judge and get this settled. I am so sorry that you lost your husband and your babies. Get her in court and fast. There has to be someone in that town you live in that can help with this problem. If her father knew what she has done I bet he would be ashamed of her. Such petty little people in this world. I relly do wish you luck and God bless.
2006-12-13 18:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by lynnie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You had twins invested in this marriage and you have allowed this insensitive, bottomless pit of a greedy girl to control you? She does not seem to be too concerned for her father as she would have shown a more caring side towards the children you and her father shared. Do you know that unless he specified any of the possessions he owned to be given to her in a will, she is basically stealing from you! All that you needed to do was to call the police! She would have to prove she was not stealing from your home. You should have been advised to protect your pregnancy, because now you do not even have that part of him to share. She broke the law, and you need to take her to court to recover some part of your estate. Do it! By the way, I am very sorry that you have suffered so horribly in your life. I wish you the very best happiness in your future. It will get better. Just recover anything you can from this person. She needs to learn a life lesson herself!
2006-12-14 02:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you lose this stuff for paying attny's.....or did SHE get it?
Something is very wrong here. Apparantly you do not live in a community property state. Is she an only child? Not that it has any bearing. Merely trying to make sense of her evilness.
Is there any way to sue her for harrassment.......pain and suffering? You need some damn good legal advise. Start with your local court house. Do NOT give up! You should NOT have lost your life when you lost him.
2006-12-14 02:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear about this. It's sad that she is so upset and also trying to torture you. But you have also played a part in this distance by hiring attorneys. You should attempt to communicate with her rather than being formal or hiring someone else to do it. Also you have to consider that she is the daughter of your deceased husband and she has these rights otherwise, he would have specified things more clearly in his will. Also I know that you are grieving the loss of your unborn children but it isn't right to place blame. Only God knows why this happened and the best thing you can do for yourself is to move forward and not get tangled in the past and heartaches.
I have had a tragic young adult life but I learned to overcome it. I set new goals for myself and decided to turn those negatives into positives. It was extremely hard and sometimes it takes what seems like forever to finally reach a single goal. But if you are strong and have faith, you can do anything. So my point is that your step-daughter even though she is making problems for you, you have to find some solution as well as you can't dwell on it and allow it to control your happiness and life. Be strong and you will get through it. But in the meantime try to keep yourself busy with a plan of how to explore something new or do something that will be good for you. God bless.
Something about my story: I suffered from severe depression because my mother was abusive to me from my adolesence into my ealry adulthood. I was hospitalized for depression and at one point due to my mother and family abuse I had to stay in the hospital for half a year. (I was hospitalized for this off and on until I was 22.) I had always dreamed of going to university but my family didn't support it and were also unwilling to help me find some sort of working field that I could pursue. At the worst point I had no place to live. I could have easily given up on my life. But I didn't. Finally I had courage to cut off those people who were abusing me (my family). I finally was able to get my own little apartment. I lived there for a while but felt lonely and detached and still wanted to explore the world around me. I moved half way around the world and lived for two years in Pakistan. You can't imagine how living abroad changes your life and percepion of who you are. I met an extra-ordinary man and we were married. I lived there for two years. Learned a different language, culture and totally different way of life. Even then I suffered a lot because I had to heal from the pain of my youth. But now I have found peace with myself. And I also learned that I am capable of being loved and also deserve to be happy and to reach new goals.
2006-12-14 02:33:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mom_of_two 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually only on cold days.. will you only see a lawyer ..with his
hands in his own pockets..!!mmm
sounds like you did not have a will made up when your husband passed away.. and am sure ,,he would be turning over in his grave ..knowing what you say has happened to you..
sounds like all you can do liquadate everything..and start life anew.. at best..
the daughter ..that wants everything on the silver platter..
apparently is a gold digger ..with no respect for her father..mmm
good luck in your future...Smile.. Today is the first day ..of the rest of you life...make the most of what you have ..and enjoy..
2006-12-14 02:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the house etc.. was his before you married him, most states would declare it is not yours. If all was obtained after you married, then you should get your half, half of his half and his daughter get a forth. All depends on his estate, has it been probated. Now, if you do not have the house, car etc.. she has not right to keep bothering you, if she does, file on her for harassment. If you can just move, do not leave a forwarding address. Sure there is not more to this?
2006-12-14 02:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lock the door ! And don't answer it!
2006-12-14 02:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by TRUSTME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋