Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

me and my friends are 16, and i'm the only one w/ a bf...anyways whenever we go to a concert on the lawn or something, or any kind of show, we all normally take turns sitting on my boyfriend's shoulders. we are small, so he doesn't have trouble having us up there, but should i not allow my friends to sit on his shoulders?

2006-12-06 05:43:41 · 14 answers · asked by The Number 23 1 in Singles & Dating

I have two children and recently found out that I'm pregnant again. It wasn't planned, and neither of us wanted anymore. It seemed logical that a termination was the best way to go, for many reasons, I don't need to justify them here. However, when attending the counselling session, I realised that I don't want a termination. My partner though, doesn't see it like that, he says he can't support my decision, as he's so anti having another child (his reasons are fair, I agree it's not ideal right now). He says that if I continue with the pregnancy, he might be forced to leave, or worse still, stay for the two children we already have, but not help me at all with the pregnancy, or the new baby, until something long term can be established.

I love him, we've been through alot, and I'm not ready to lose him. But I'm not able to go through something like that against my will. I'm torn, and really don't know what to do. Sensible answers only please, this is my life.

2006-12-06 05:43:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anon 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-06 05:43:22 · 7 answers · asked by krystal m 1 in Family

I broke up with my abusive exboyfriend about 3 months ago. throughout the relationship his friend whom he finally stoped associating with. kept harassing me and calling me names over the phone. I was on myspace and I have been missing my ex lately becuase I dont think guys find me attractive anymore...i think im fat and ugly. anyways, i came across his friend on myspace and i really want to kurse him. but i know it will only make matters worse. Please help me to fight this tempation and get over him. and his friends....oh if you want to see me my myspace is
www.myspace.com/madeinitaly86

2006-12-06 05:42:37 · 5 answers · asked by AnimalCrossing 1 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone found true love online, and eventually met...if so, how long did u both chat or speak on the phone before meeting?? 3 mos 4 mos???...how did the relationship end? Marriage? engagment?

2006-12-06 05:42:05 · 12 answers · asked by fairytale_chic 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has a serious computer gaming problem. I'm not one of those wives who thinks he should never play video games. I just ask it be done in moderation. It is not like he goes on for an hour or two, he stays on for hours on end. I haved tried explaining to him it bothers me and he still does it. It is like an obsession to the point that he neglects keeping up with chores. The bigger problem is that we just had our first baby a month ago and he even ignores her to play games. It hurts me that he doesn't take an intrest in spending QUAILITY time with her. I have asked him to feed her and he will hold her like a sack of potatoes in one arm and play with the other while barely holding the bottle. If she crys he won't walk with her he will plop her on his lap and let her scream so he can play. He works 4 nights a week so he sleeps all day on those days. The days he is off I want him to spend time with us. He doesn't understand that. What can I do to get him to stop this?

2006-12-06 05:41:58 · 32 answers · asked by prettykitty1025 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do i get him back. and one thing he still likes me. and i don't know wat to do?

2006-12-06 05:41:35 · 25 answers · asked by Dominique W 1 in Singles & Dating

I saw a question like that and it made me wonder. When my best friend calls, I don't always answer it. I just don't always want to talk to her, is that a bad thing? Do you always answer when your best friend calls?

2006-12-06 05:40:09 · 27 answers · asked by *Charmed* 1 in Friends

Well me and my girl have been togheter for a year and two months now. At times we have bad times, but mostly i say we have good times. The thing is that i kind of lost that feeling you get when you fall/are in love with someone.
Another problem is that at times it feels like we are just friends and not boyfriend or girlfriend.
There are times where we have almost cheated at eachother and because of this i can't trust her.

I do love her and well she tells me she loves me...

What should I do?

2006-12-06 05:39:28 · 21 answers · asked by sinofblood 1 in Singles & Dating

i wrote my boyfriend a note that told him how i feel -- and its really "intense" and deep.. would it be embarrsing to give him this note? or should i just keep it in my drawer?

2006-12-06 05:39:19 · 11 answers · asked by sillywilly 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin is good looking, innocent. But she lacks education. Her father is a drunkard, her mother is having some psychic problems. Her economic status is average. I am a software engineer, earning just 15000/- pm. Parents are the only dependants at present. I like her very much and i promised her four years back that i will marry u. Only for very few occassions we met. In the gap, i met many other gals, but i couldn't able change my focus from her. My parents say since we know the defects with her and their family, it is not so advisable to marry her.
They tell that i lack social pride or status if i marry that gal, as whole in our relatioinship-circle know the problems of her. I may have some problems later on in life, as i will be the only earning person. Staying in city like bangalore it will become difficult to get good education for children, getting them married with only single earning. But four years back i didn't think all these. Now what i have to do.

2006-12-06 05:39:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'd probably pound him to the ground, why don't some guys understand that you cannot be hitting Chicks, they are weak and defensless, though some seem to deserve it, but it's still not right. Kind of like a big guy kicking a puppy.

2006-12-06 05:39:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

.....feel guilty about simply ignoring texts and calls from the girl you were seeing so that she knows it's over, instead of being man enough to finish with her?

Imagine that she's done nothing wrong - you had a good time together but you were just on the rebound. Would you contact her again if nothing better came along?

All responses welcome but please no abuse.

2006-12-06 05:38:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other day he called me concerning something she had asked me to do that phone call was innocent but after I hung up the phone he called right back saying he was going to buy me something for Christmas and I asked him why and he said because he has a crush on me. This is not the first time this has happened so I told him don't start this sh** again and hung up he called right back but I had one of my children answer the phone.
About 13 years ago when they were only dating he made a pass at me and I told her and we didn't talk for a long time after that I guess she blamed me but this time I told my husband and he wants to bash his head in but I don't want any friction between my cousin and I and the bad thing is we are suppose to be eating Christmas dinner and exchanging gifts at their house this year should my family go and if if not what reason will I give my cousin?We live right next door to each other I see her husband everyday in the yard I'm just really uncomfortable.

2006-12-06 05:37:51 · 12 answers · asked by depressedinsc2341 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 05:37:48 · 16 answers · asked by renold 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 05:36:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i have lost count of numbers i have phoned to get help with my special needs child. i am just passed from pillar to post by people who have their ears shut.

2006-12-06 05:36:19 · 11 answers · asked by wits end 1 in Family

When a guy says he would love you if he was single what does it mean?
When a guy says he would love you if he was single what does it mean?
i was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to one another and things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out and the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met and that initially he was intimidated by my job ( i have quite a high powered job and earn good money) he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving and he kept on grabbing me and said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous and said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink as friends, i think he could of beena potential one

2006-12-06 05:35:10 · 7 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

her dad is really protective and she's not allowed to go in my house cuz I'm a guy but her dad does'nt know we're going out but I don't know what to do and shes not allowed to go otideof our naegborhood with anyone but her parents and her mom is really protective to

2006-12-06 05:34:18 · 8 answers · asked by mickeymousedude 2 in Singles & Dating

I started working for a surgery center at the age of 17. After 3 months working there a co-worker asked me out to the company christmas party. I didnt accept right away because my aunt who also was my co-worker had said about him having a wife but was going trough divorce. after having several encouragements from everyone telling me that hes a fun guy and would be a good chance to get to know everyone much better, i finally accepted. now... months passed and we started to hang out more, he brought me around his band members, fam, ect. everyone knew me .. it went on for 2 years now. having a full time job and going full time to school he was very encouraging, over time i fell deeply in love with him. . so... one night before leaving see him i decide to check my myspace,when i recieve a message from his wife, telling me how i ruined the marrige.. i dint know. he tried to apolagize several times and to give him time to clear his mind. do you think he deserves my wait?

2006-12-06 05:33:39 · 29 answers · asked by *EVELYN* 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the other day i ask a question if there was a way to find out if you slept with someone without asking the girl i thought i slept with cuz we were both drunk and i couldnt remember a thing from the nite before but did woke up in her bed with just a boxer on..but anyways the recap to this story is that i found out today that we did, and i ask her if she was sure about it and she said yes. and whats messed up about it is that im dating one of her friends, not girlfriends or anything just seeing her.so then im just sitting there this morning while were having breakfast and the only thing this girl said was that how i feel about it and to be honest i dont even know exactly what happen.. i know we went to party got wasted to fast, left to go to a bar and drank a little more, but then after that cant really remember what happen, all i know is that i woke up with just a boxer and her with a t-shirt n an underwear. SO MY QUESTION IS HOW DO YOU HANDLE SOMETHING LIKE THIS. is she lying or what

2006-12-06 05:33:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has just split up with me and I want to know if he has told me the truth why. We were together for four months, but have been great friends for 5 years. I was 4 months pregnant when we got together, and he knew this. We planned to take things as they come, and see where the relationship goes. Then 2 weeks ago he splits up with me, saying he doesn't want to get attatched to the baby incase we split up further down the line, and he doesnt know where that will leave him. He has 2 other kids, and has had problems getting to see them with the childrens mothers, but I want to know if hes telling me the truth or does he not find me attractive as Ive got bigger, or if he doesnt want the resposibility or whatever. He's 3 years older than me and we were living together and had plans. Now I dont know whats gonna happen? Any comments?

2006-12-06 05:32:04 · 9 answers · asked by jojobass86 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked one time if there is a chance we might be more than friends and all she could say was she don't know what the future holds. What does that mean?

2006-12-06 05:32:00 · 13 answers · asked by Jason M 1 in Friends

I've been hinting for 8 years, did you stop dating when you got married? Is this common?

2006-12-06 05:31:18 · 43 answers · asked by elfkin, attention whore 4 in Marriage & Divorce

this past weekend a coworker and i sort of got it on and then she decided not to come to work on monday and then on tuesday she quit over the phone. and she hasn't talked to me or any other coworker since then. the reason i'm wondering is because she told me she was going to quit sometime soon. but this is a bit odd isn't it? does this mean that i'm repulsive?

2006-12-06 05:31:10 · 11 answers · asked by raul b 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, so for the holidays we decided that the 10yr old could stay with us from xmas day through the following weekend, since it is our weekend to have her. well now the mother says that the 10yr old is now babysitting for the neighbors and that she has scheduled her family christmas over our weekend. she said that when she told me about keeping the girl for the week that it was what was working for her then and that she didn't ask what the 10yr old wanted to do. she has done this to us before. saying one thing and then changing at the last minute to benifit her (the mother) she is now complaining because she has to switch her christmas which is only fair because we are supposed to have half of the kids christmas break and now aren't getting any of it. in my opinion it isn't up to the 10yr old if she wants to babysit or spend time with her family. if it was already decided then that is what we should stick with. any advice on how to deal with such a evil woman

2006-12-06 05:31:03 · 9 answers · asked by SARAH B 2 in Family

OK..... my sister's boyfriends brother is gorgeous.... i really love him.... i told him how a felt a while ago, he told me he liked me a lot too, but it would be wired if and when we broke up... which i understand, but i need to know should try and persuede him to change his mind or should i just get over it?

2006-12-06 05:30:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

long hair or short hair?
skinny or curvy (not overweight)?
Blond or brunett ?
big eyes big lips tell me what floats your boat?:)

2006-12-06 05:29:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 05:29:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 05:28:59 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating