When a guy says he would love you if he was single what does it mean?
When a guy says he would love you if he was single what does it mean?
i was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to one another and things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out and the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met and that initially he was intimidated by my job ( i have quite a high powered job and earn good money) he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving and he kept on grabbing me and said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous and said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink as friends, i think he could of beena potential one
2006-12-06 05:35:10 · 7 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Racheal, This guy sounds like he is only out for himself.THE big green monsters is not a good thing at all.This guy is trouble,move on with your life,and find someone who will treat you right,and not find that your job is in your way of love. A Friend.
Clowmy
2006-12-06 05:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets think about this logically first. You both are infatuated with each other yet he is going out with someone else. Anyway getting out of the logical zone. You two should try to sort out your feelings for one another. Its no use simply beating around the bush. Or your relationship will not fly.
2006-12-06 05:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by Tetris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that he could be a potential because he still have feels for you
2006-12-06 06:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but it sounds like he's telling you what you want to hear, keeping you interested enough to keep you around in case the relationship he is in doesn't work out. just be friends, if you can handle it, if not break all ties to him
2006-12-06 05:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is stroking his own ego by keeping you close but not giving you much in return.
Go out for drinks and seduce him. But watch out for his girlfriend she may not like you much afterwards
2006-12-06 05:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by f1antasyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's looking to BBD (Bigger and Better Deal) his girlfriend with you. If you show that you are interested, he gets a free shot, if not, he's safe.
2006-12-06 05:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by jonnyexcel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means if he did not already have someone else,you could be that person,but he is a cheeter trust me on this one,once he is with you who will hear that line then?
2006-12-06 05:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by willbone3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋