My cousin is good looking, innocent. But she lacks education. Her father is a drunkard, her mother is having some psychic problems. Her economic status is average. I am a software engineer, earning just 15000/- pm. Parents are the only dependants at present. I like her very much and i promised her four years back that i will marry u. Only for very few occassions we met. In the gap, i met many other gals, but i couldn't able change my focus from her. My parents say since we know the defects with her and their family, it is not so advisable to marry her.
They tell that i lack social pride or status if i marry that gal, as whole in our relatioinship-circle know the problems of her. I may have some problems later on in life, as i will be the only earning person. Staying in city like bangalore it will become difficult to get good education for children, getting them married with only single earning. But four years back i didn't think all these. Now what i have to do.
2006-12-06 05:39:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have a feeling you are not american. if you make good money help her out with school
2006-12-06 05:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all forget all that other stuff you named such as you being city and she village. Man she is YOUR COUSIN. That means she is kin to you. It doesn't mean anything if she looks like a Victoria Secret Model, she is YOUR COUSIN. City boy there are many good looking ladies in the city as well as the village that you could date that are NOT kin to you. Oh yeah you will have problems when you have kids. You might have seriously ill children or severely retarded children that you will be responsible for. Move on to someone else that is more of your stature.
2006-12-06 13:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you do not marry your cousin. You do not have to keep a "promise" to marry that girl if in your heart you do not love her and want to make a life with her. Listen to your parents regarding this situation but become a man and marry someone that you will love and cherish for who they are not because they are a family member you promised to marry.
2006-12-06 13:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you love her it shouldn't matter what education status she has and for her family that is there problem your lives will be different I say go for it
2006-12-06 13:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by erk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont marry your cousin it will only make things worse as time passes by.
2006-12-06 13:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by Dolphin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can marry someone outside the family.
2006-12-06 13:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by crazzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
royalty marries in family. i say marry her and move away to somewhere no one knows who you are!
2006-12-06 13:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to jerry springer
2006-12-06 13:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by wofford1257 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree with u , u do have a problem
2006-12-06 13:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋