2006-12-06 05:43:22 · 7 answers · asked by krystal m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You don't say why you have asked this. If your mother has died, there is little you can do but try to hold on to those good memories. My mother was a distant alcoholic. I think wistfully of what 'might have been' but, for some of us, there is no mothering to miss.
2006-12-06 05:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ross 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Krystal,
Your question does not say whether you WANT to live life without your mother or because of circumstance you HAVE to live without your mother. Either way, who your mother was, the part she played in your life, and your response to her will always be a part of who you are as a person.
If she was a bad influence, you can be grateful she didn't abort you, and now you have the opportunity to build a life implementing lessons learned. If you love your mother and she is gone from your daily life because of location or other circumstance, embrace who she is and the impact she has had on your life.
I'm not sure if this helps?!?!? Your question was very vague.
2006-12-06 05:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by Tj aka Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people can. If someone is born without a mother, they have no choice but to live without her. Or if someone's mother abandons them and left to someone else, they will often find another adult to look up to. If your mother dies, we just deal and morn with pain, and life goes on.
2006-12-06 06:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm thankful to have one, first of all. Although she can be a pain sometimes, I still love her dearly. I do have a friend who, until today, never knew her mum. His father was a player and still is (he had since fathered many kids from different women). It's sad to watch her, because she has no one to guide her, telling her what's right and what's wrong. Her life is a wreck. I tried to be the person to help her, but she never wanted any. I just hope that she can find the right person someday to guide her.
2006-12-06 05:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 31 and I have not had my mom really all my life yes I lived with her but she was never there and when she was she beat me. So most of my life I lived on the streets. Don't get me wrong it is hard. but you learn how. I don't know if you have had your mom and lost her or if you have never had her but it all feel the same. You go through feeling all by yourself then you think no one cares. THen you wish she was their come the holadays. But soon you just talk to her in your head like she their just to make yourself feel better and you learn to move on in your life but it's a long time.
2006-12-06 06:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by lostsoul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am fortunate not to had to experience this so far but, my mother had lung cancer early this year.She got rid of it and it hasn't came back,Thank God.I can say I thought about what if I lose her.I know what she would want.She would want me to carry on with my life as,hard as the loss would be.You probaly have other people who love and depend on you.So as hard as it may seem .We have to go on.I will say one thing.I am alot closer to her now and hope to have her for many more years.So if you have had loss,Bless you.
2006-12-06 06:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by star_utsf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want too???
2006-12-06 05:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by Angelbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋