Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

We would like to know if we can use the original marriage certificate, provided to us by the pastor at our ceremony with original signatures and a seal on it to get my wife's name changed, or if we have to wait to get the "certified" certificate from the recorder's office?

We appreciate if anyone who has gone through this process has any suggestions, and btw we are in CA. Thanks :)

2006-12-06 05:27:48 · 4 answers · asked by arbee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a boy is lookin @ u?

cuz if he is staring and then you look @ him n he quickly looks away asap.......how are you meant to tell?
:s

2006-12-06 05:26:28 · 8 answers · asked by SophieKayy 2 in Singles & Dating

done jewellery, clothes can't really risk. perfume maybe...
any suggestions?

2006-12-06 05:25:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not sure what this is, and I'm a nurse. Kinda panicky today.

Yesterday I broke out with two boils, one on the side of my stomach and one on my butt cheek.
I really never get blemishes at all.

It was bigger and harder than a mosquito bite and had a head. One had a blackish head or scab.
Today I have 3 more on my butt, one large one, the red area about the size of quarter, on my breast.
Two more near my hips in the back and on my butt.
No small lesions,no rash just these isolated boil type things. None near any genitals.

I'm 44, and haven't dated in a year.
I recently met someone, and we had sex for the first time Friday, and were together last Sunday.
I noticed the first one Monday night.

We used KY lubricant and another warming one, I think KY brand. Could I be allergic to that or his semen on my skin, or what?? Detergent on his sheets? Help.

Any connection to him or sex anyone?

2006-12-06 05:25:23 · 6 answers · asked by Marie123 3 in Singles & Dating

My baby daddyand I have been off and on for two years, he still hasn't seen our daughter(I live in CA & he's in Louisiana) now we're not together but he called me saying he's put all he badways(hitting me & cheating on me) behind him and he wants to marry me and settle down, I still love him but I don't want to be with him (he had a baby outside of our relationship when we were still together so that's why I don't want to be with him) But if I don't be with him he says he doesn't want anyhting to do with our daughter. What should I do?

2006-12-06 05:24:14 · 18 answers · asked by alexiakp 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How would you react if your bf or gf had one of those dreams and they ended up peeing on themselves? Would you be embarrassed or would you show compassion towards them? Just have to ask because my bf had one of those dreams and he is 26! I was mad because I was sleeping so good, and woke up to that!

2006-12-06 05:24:06 · 16 answers · asked by bicheeeened30 6 in Singles & Dating

My mother and father have passed on, and my sister Joyceann Cleary has helped all of her family time and time again unselfishly, asking for nothing in return except to be healthy and happy as mom would have wanted it for us. She has gave her money to us, her time when she didnt have to. Shes a nurse and is married and I know personally i can never repay the money shes given or her kindness to us all. Shes very ill as all my other sisters are too except me and im a recovering drug/alcohol addict with nothing but Joyce in my life, Can you help me thank her. She admires your strong woman spirit and it would mean the world to her. Thank you Oprah.

2006-12-06 05:23:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Are your parents divorced or seperated and one or both have them a new boyfriend or girlfriend that you are trying to ignore and you haven't even met them yet and given them a chance because you can't accept the fact that your parents weren't happy with one another but they are happy now?

2006-12-06 05:23:50 · 7 answers · asked by CryBaby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

IF A MAN WANTS YOU

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

2006-12-06 05:23:16 · 5 answers · asked by ConfusedK 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so all of a sudden i am dealing all over again with my husband cheating on me (when we were dating) any advice on how to cope with it? i forgave him, but every time i get mad at him or cry, i think of how he hurt me when he cheated on me and i get mad.. (which happened before we got married not long ago)... shouldnt i be over it? will it make him want to cheat again?? if i bring it up again?

2006-12-06 05:23:03 · 18 answers · asked by jessica c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When I am going to die? At 102 years of age,,, how could I survive?
Why should I survive at all?

2006-12-06 05:22:52 · 6 answers · asked by mokiesaykuang 2 in Friends

ok, like back in july I met this guy. He was really cool to be around and I liked him. But i wasn't over my ex (who I knew 3 days b-4 we went out for 10 months) so I kind of stopped talking to all guys (including him). Now, we started really talking and I really like him. He asked me out and then was like- wait, lets go on a date first. well I've never really gone on a real full-fledged date. I'm sooooo nervouse and emaressed and it hasn't even happened yet (no guy has ever really paid for anything 4 me, cuz i've never gone on a date, so I don't know how to accept anything). And the other thing is, I'm really pretty (not to be concited) and he's really not. But I really like him. I can't get him off my mind. It's driving me crazy! any advice?

2006-12-06 05:21:55 · 2 answers · asked by WHITE*GIRL 2 in Singles & Dating

Whenever I visit my mom in California (once a month) with my boyfriend he just drops me off at her house because he knows my mom hates him. (He is very courteous, polite, etc.). I stay there for maybe two or three days, but they are the most horrifying days of my life. My mom bad mouths my boyfriend and I do stick up for him, but she talks about him constantly and acts like she doesn't care. She is Vietnamese and my boyfriend is Filipino. She also doesn't like many Filipinos. She tells me he is lazy, fat, unmotivated, and ugly. When he picks me up to go home to Vegas, we end up fighting. I take everything she says about him personally because I love him a lot. She doesn't want me to marry him either. She also bad mouths my sister's boyfriend who is Vietnamese/Spanish. I can accept the fact that she has her own views, but I cannot accept the fact that she is insulting the one I love. I am wondering if I should visit her less or give her an ultimatum?

2006-12-06 05:21:53 · 2 answers · asked by Noneyabusiness 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i went out with him becuase i wanted shoes since he sell them.
i kinda liked him but now i don't i don't want to break his heart but theres no point because i **** around with other guys and i don't even see him should

how should i break up with him.

2006-12-06 05:21:49 · 5 answers · asked by dumb bitch 1 in Singles & Dating

i m 16 and a girl and i have a cousin who is also a girl and she is only 14 years old well the problem is that she has a boy friend and boyfriends arent allowed in our family till 18 now i dont know what i should do should i tell my family about t his cause alot of ppl think that i m jealous cause i dont have a bf but the truth is i m not jealous at all she is actually jealous of me a because i m from america and she said that the boys only like me cause i m from new york ............................................

2006-12-06 05:21:39 · 20 answers · asked by nYc g@L 4 in Singles & Dating

what excatly these mean ?
call me when you get this message
call me when you get a chance

2006-12-06 05:21:03 · 15 answers · asked by adf a 1 in Singles & Dating

Your girlfriends, sisters dirty underware?

2006-12-06 05:19:11 · 32 answers · asked by Giz Slngr 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't believe in hitting Broads, unless you mean in a sexual way. My father always told me to never hit a Chick because they are weak and hitting one would be like hitting a defensless animal.

2006-12-06 05:19:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know her boyfriend. He doesn't treat her very well. But is it a male obligation to stay away?

2006-12-06 05:17:55 · 14 answers · asked by kelapa b 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay...so, i was seeing this guy (who lives like 3 hours away from me) on the rebound from a guy i am in love with. The new guy says that he is in love with me, and wants to be with me, etc. He's also controlling, has alot of kinda sick (but accepted in some circles) desires, and has been in prison for murder (a long time ago). Well, now the guy i am in love with is back, and i want to be with him, because, you know, i am in love with him. So, i was talking to this rebound guy, testing the waters for a break up, and he was talking about if i said bye, he would probably kidnap me after work some night...
...and i kinda think he would. I asked if he was joking and he said no, that that should show me how much he loves me.

What should i do?

2006-12-06 05:17:54 · 15 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Singles & Dating

When my husband and I were first dating I moved in with him and his mother and he used to treat me like sh%t. I had most of my stuff at his place and when ever he would feel like it he would just tell me to leave. He broke alot of my stuff because of his anger. He used to treat me so bad that twice he called the cops on me but still I didn't leave. When I did leave he went back looking for me we ended up getting back together and things were still the same. I wouldn't leave because I loved him and because he was my first. At his house I used to do everything from cleaning, washing dishes, laundry etc... Since I was staying their I felt that I needed to just keep my mouth shut and clean. Now that we got married my husband has change his way towards me alot and I am the one that is pushing him away. I get mad very easily and I know that I wasn't like that. I have so much anger inside of me because of how he used to treat me. I need to change. I need some advice and some good one please.

2006-12-06 05:17:21 · 16 answers · asked by mysteryousmtz 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 05:15:39 · 6 answers · asked by Mr.Romantic 1 in Singles & Dating

does anybody know which product is the best? i've been researching this for quite some time, but i can't seem to find much reviews about the remote controlled vibrating panties or butterfiles. I also want to know how loud they get. i would obviously want to get the quietest one, and also one that performs the best. please let me know thanks~!

2006-12-06 05:15:20 · 7 answers · asked by iamnamja 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my friend both just graduated college, I am working in a low paying entry level job, and my friend does not work at all, she sits around, goes shopping, and gets manicures. She has a older sugar daddy that gives her 5-10 thousand dollars a month as allowance. What do you think about this?

2006-12-06 05:14:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ssome people think that love is a deadly virus and some people think that love is knowledge. some people think love is pointless and is a waste of time but i think love is perfect as long as it's with the right persosn and you go threw alot just to find that perfect love. What do you guys think?

2006-12-06 05:13:40 · 13 answers · asked by Mz.Tweety 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What's your new years resolution?

2006-12-06 05:13:20 · 10 answers · asked by jazz_lover_25 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my wife has small breasts, they are very perky and attractive, her mom just got implants, and now my wife wants them too, she wont let the subject rest. I actually prefer small breasts on a woman, how can I make this go away?

2006-12-06 05:13:09 · 10 answers · asked by hemi_beepbeep 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was a freshman there was this bi sophmore girl. one day as i was passing by her she stopped what she was saying and stared at me. i got this vibe because noone had ever looked at me like that especially another female. over the weeks she was constatnlt staring at me there was one day in the cafeteria that i was speakiing to someone and when i looked up she was leaning against the wall staring at me and when i looked at her she never looked away (she never looked away whenever i caught her staring) what really made me looka t her staring as being something more was this particula day when she came to my lunch table because she knew the ppl there. she was sitting next to me and having a conversation with this gay boy. i suddenly heard them tlking low and it sounded as if he said to her do u like her? and she said she cute a minute later all i could feel was her eyes on me when i looked at her she had a big smile and was waving in a cute girly way....i was taken back by this

2006-12-06 05:12:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband is a resturant manager, and our marriage rocky. He hired a female whom he used to work with at a diff. resturant 6 mnths
ago. He didn't tell me about it, I had to notice for myself. Do you think he should have told me?

2006-12-06 05:11:45 · 43 answers · asked by sky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriends ex hates me. Im 16 and when i was like 12 i was going out with him and she would call me a whore and try and get him to cheat on me with her. blah blah blah. He basically played us both. Well now at age 16 i started dating him again and this ex of his (Brittany) have not been dating for more then a year. She wouldnt even talk to him cause she finds herself as if shes better then him. the minute im going out with him tho she starts calling him, emailing him. Saying she hates the fact hes with me to him. And then she has the nerve to email me and say im starting this drama. I HAVE DONE NOTHING. i've come to the point where i was to kick her ***, i mean can she be mature? i dont know what to do. i need advice.

2006-12-06 05:11:16 · 13 answers · asked by Jessica Paige 1 in Singles & Dating