Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

Me and this guy were getting kinda close and i really started to like him a lot. we even went on a date but now he is totally blowing me off and he is hanging out with another girl and i dont know what to do. I really want to tell him how i feel about him but i dont want to ruin things between us. what should i do?

2006-12-06 16:30:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the cuties or funnies thing or dum thing you spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend ever said to u or sang to u?

2006-12-06 16:29:44 · 8 answers · asked by hclover21 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 13, and I am sure I love this guy. He is smart, nice, hot in my opinion, and so much more. I think he hates me b/c my most trustworthy friend told me he did, and I thought he did before he said that. I've done everything I could think of, and I can't get over him. I've liked him since March of this year. I asked him out like in May, and we were dating for like 3 weeks, but then we (me, my mom, and sis) were gonna move too far away for us to keep going so I broke up w/ him. Guess what? We didn't move, we decided at last minute. Now he seems to hate me, and various peple have verified that. I need help, I have no idea what to do. I can't get over him... Oh yeah, I asked him out again this year and he said no, I was sooo sad, but that was like 2 months ago. I'm considered hot to most guys from what they've told me, I'm smart, and nice, trustworthy, reliable, a shoulder to cry on, I'm there for people... I'm not full of myself though, I'm goin' by friends opinions. WHAT DO I DO???!!!

2006-12-06 16:28:53 · 11 answers · asked by Luvley 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't look my age and he thinks I am just 45. I know he likes me although he has a girlfriend. He couldn't stop seeing me too and he always wonder why. Why?

2006-12-06 16:28:50 · 10 answers · asked by MICKMOY 1 in Singles & Dating

when being approached by a guy around your same age- that you've never met before. What would be your first opinion if he just came up to you and said You're a brat? or any other tease- but in a joking matter. Me and my friend are debating this... I think its a good way to get a conversation started lol and he thinks its horrible. Opinions

2006-12-06 16:28:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you think he'd respond? He already knows that I like him.

2006-12-06 16:28:08 · 6 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 43 year old married lady looking to meet friends to hang out with from time to time. I'm honest, reliable, open minded and I have a heart of gold. I like going for lunch, dinners, the odd beer at a pub, Karaoke, concerts & movies. I'm can hold a conversation and I'm also a great listener.

I enjoy all the above but I hate to do it alone. My husband loves me but he has his own friends to hang with. If you are like me and just want to get out of the house once in a while I'd like to hear from you. Don't be shy and send me an email.

2006-12-06 16:26:17 · 3 answers · asked by Pamela 2 in Friends

i'm visiting my mother but i don't know what to buy her. i haven't seen her in months. help???

2006-12-06 16:25:52 · 6 answers · asked by Muffin Girl on Dreary Lane 4 in Family

I am 21 years old guy who came to the U.S. to study. I worked as a tutor for a year. I tutored a girl who was very nice to me and used to care a lot about me. As I came here, I faced lots of problems in this entirely new place. But somehow she became my great emotional support and I was able to handle everything. She used to like me a lot and I could feel that her love for me was intense.. I used to like her too but being in a new place, new culture I was very confused. On top of that, my parents would never accept her because I have a culture of arranged marriage. This made me very confused and I couldn't say her anything. After a year, she passed her class.
As she departed from me, I could feel her broken heart. After a week she went, I couldn't hold anymore and wrote her an email that I loved her. She replied me saying that she had no feeling for me and never replied again. It has been six months and I have no contact with her.

2006-12-06 16:25:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife ( 19 yrs old ) is carrying and doctors advised a lot of precautions including avoiding the physical contact. To attend her, my mother-in-law ( 40 yrs old) voluntarily joined us. I was keeping lot of patience but one night I really became mad and entered in the bed of my m-i-l, who after some resistance yielded and since then we are having a routine programme.
Please suggest me that how far it is ethically and morally good and now what should I do?

2006-12-06 16:25:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you found out that your spouse slept with one of your close cousins?
would you:
(A) forgive and forget and try to move on with your marriage, keeping in mind the fact that you've done terrible terrible things to your significant other also (like cheating even though it wasn't their cousin)
or...
(B) leave them and never ever look back

2006-12-06 16:24:57 · 16 answers · asked by mamacita 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband wants custody of his Son. His son isn't happy living with his mother. She has had child protective services make her and her kids move in with an adult. We live in California, I am his step mom, we are married and have a nice place to live, at what age in Calif can a child choose to which parent they would prefer to live with? Also would my husband still provide his ex the child support for the son? He also has a daughter with this woman and he pays child support for both children. His son Steven will be 12 in January 07.

2006-12-06 16:24:56 · 13 answers · asked by beach5 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel very guilty about not being with my child. She is 14 and lives with her Dad in another state. She is alone a lot because my ex gets home around 7 p.m. or so each day.

She is not having a normal life because she does not have both parents with her. I was thinking of moving to the other state where she lives, but my ex is very pushy and usually convinces me to come back and live with him.

I am not able to be strong and stand up to him so I end up giving in to him. I was thinking of going over Christmas for a few days and staying in a hotel. I can then see if I can stay on my own without interference from him.

I want to be there for my child. I feel very sad about the state of my life and that I could not be there for my child. She is hurting and I am helpless to take care of her. He does not give her rides to places or involve her in afterschool activities.

2006-12-06 16:23:28 · 9 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 16:23:24 · 9 answers · asked by gretchenanddaniel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 16:23:20 · 14 answers · asked by LadyBug 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

the guy i like said "thnx luv ya" on msn. does that mean he likes me?

2006-12-06 16:23:14 · 7 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Singles & Dating

i go to his class for sign language, he's singing to me in class. he's always trying to hold my hand.i want to tell him he's not my type without hurting his feelings. the teacher said just to understand him and stuff. but i cant take it anymore!!!

2006-12-06 16:23:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We have 3 small children so our wedding is on a budget of $2000. We both have big families and many friends who will be hurt if we don't invite them. We don't care if we have a big wedding with all the trimmings and bells, but we need help on how to plan one for under $2000. We live in lancaster, pennsylvania if that helps anyone.

2006-12-06 16:21:46 · 13 answers · asked by Cassie A 1 in Weddings

2006-12-06 16:20:14 · 17 answers · asked by parijatkaul 2 in Singles & Dating

do we even have a chance?

2006-12-06 16:18:53 · 5 answers · asked by metalstefl 3 in Singles & Dating

There wasn't anything concrete, but he asked her what they're doing this weekend and all she said was she had to work...WE'RE GETTING MARRIED FRIDAY!!! When I asked her about it she said we're allowed to have friends right? I'm trying to trust my baby, but at the same time I'm trying not to be a fool. She'll be home from work in the morning, what should I do or say? Should I call off the wedding? By the way we've been dating for 6 weeks, I know it's too soon to be getting married, but focus on the question at hand. HELP!!

2006-12-06 16:15:11 · 22 answers · asked by Willie P 2 in Singles & Dating

my gf (not mother) said a few things that really bother me
1. when itold here my daughters name she said " thats an ni@ger name!.
2. she also blurted "I don't want to meet your daughter anyway!"
3. "your daughter's mom is white trash"

i really like her but am ready to split bc I cant forgive her for these rude few remarks that piss me off, she has never met my daughters mom.

i think im going to tell her to FU%K off, is this approprate?

2006-12-06 16:14:16 · 25 answers · asked by storminnormin 2 in Family

Alright, so, I really like this girl from my school. Before, it was just "hello" in the hallway, until last week I told her I liked her and wanted to get to know her better. She responded by saying she was a bit suprised, but said she wanted to get to know me better as well. She gave me her cell number and we've been texting and talking for a few days now. We've been talking about random topics, not really anything related to a relationship. I asked her out yesterday and she said yes, but I don't really know if she considers it a "date" or not. We're going out on Friday. I'm not sure if she wants to be in a relationship or if she's just looking for another friend out of me.

How can I figure out of she likes me?
What should I ask her?
Should I ask if she wants to be in a relationship with me?

2006-12-06 16:14:06 · 11 answers · asked by Andrew 2 in Singles & Dating

this si not a personal dating add, though it sounds liek it, just need opinions from a female perspective. would you date a guy with a good personality, adn sense of humor, but he had a crappy retail job, no car, adn a cramped apartment?

2006-12-06 16:13:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 25....

2006-12-06 16:12:31 · 12 answers · asked by Karuma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need opinion from all of u out there....man or women..(but really loved to hear from the man side)...will u accept the women u love as a wife and yet she told u that she cant give u childrens due to some problems which she never ask for it...will u still marry her in that case & not going to give that as an excuse in future to find other women just because u dont have heir..

2006-12-06 16:12:10 · 11 answers · asked by meemee8403 1 in Singles & Dating

today when i want church this girl she start looking at me and when i look back she starts smileing like crasy at me. after she want to talk to her firend and was looking at me and talking to her firend. everytime i look at her she is so happy.

2006-12-06 16:11:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok guys, I'm married, but theres a gal that i like and she likes me but neither of our marrigaes are worth a crap. she wants to get together and have a little fun, would it be worth it, or would i be just getting myself into another problem that wouldn't be worth it? I'm confused and need help...

2006-12-06 16:10:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is quite a bit older than I am. He is 37 and I am 23......yeah yeah yeah I know "he's to old for you", I'm not buying it. We have been together for 2 yrs now and he just doesn't like to have sex as much as I do. Is this normal for his age? He is a once every two weeks kinda guy and I'm a twice a week kinda girl. (cheating is not an option)

2006-12-06 16:10:20 · 18 answers · asked by krazy_kiss1469 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i asked my guy friend what he thought of me when he first saw meet me and he emailed me back and said dont ask me thoes questions please why did he say that does he not like me or thinks im ugly

2006-12-06 16:09:25 · 13 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating