Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

the last few serouious relationships ive had hve ended but ive stayed pretty close to most of the guys, but my best friend always ends up dateing them and i get relly hurt when ever she dose that... like i went out w/ this guy for a year and she went out w/ him... what shoud i do???

2006-12-06 17:04:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well he is not a serious stalker who is going to murder me but... The thing is, I have NEVER met him. NEVER had a conversation with him. NEVER had any interaction with him at all. And then suddenly not only does he know my 1st name, but my last name too. . .AND I found out that he tried to transfer into one of my classes. Everyone tells me how he talks about me, says I'm beautiful, wants to ask me out, wants to ask me to these dances, wants to talk to me.

I kind of just want to ignore it. After all, we've never met or spoken, etc. I am NOT interested AT ALL. Should I just wait it out? I was thinking about having a friend pass the message on for me casually. I DEFINETELY do not want to talk to him. Or meet him. Because if I do, I won't be able to avoid him anymore without being rude. Being strangers is safe in anonymity.

What should I do? The act of non-action? Take action?

2006-12-06 17:04:08 · 5 answers · asked by Traveler 3 in Singles & Dating

This tradition is in Japan or Korea and what is the connection in planting the tree when a person is deceased. Is it customary for this action to be done. Is it a reminder or spiritually connection in some way?

2006-12-06 17:03:27 · 1 answers · asked by JoJoBa 6 in Singles & Dating

their is one problem that i am married but not living with my wife because i am not accpeted her and we do not have any relationship not in past also now i want to have breakup but dont know how it will happen as in past i am not ready for this marriege but due to my parents i had to do that now now my parents also realise that they had done worng but the breakup is not easy as my wife parents have are very strong in society (their are in Police) so what shoul i do now i cant forgate my college girls i know where she is working and where she lives but due to this problem i cannot face to her i am VERY VERY DEPRESSED i dont no what will going to happen in my life and from i week i am not seen that girl in her work palce and even at her home i know two freinds of her but i cant ask about her as i dont know them what whould i do i am very confused noe i need suggestion form you freinds

2006-12-06 17:02:14 · 11 answers · asked by satyen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

last year we went on this trip to mexico and my best friend started going out with this guy ive known since 5th grade.he recently told me he liked me and i do not know what to do. my best friend hates him, and i dont hate him, but i dont like hi either.i like HIS 2 friends as more than friends too.i know this is silly but i dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-06 17:01:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-06 17:00:56 · 4 answers · asked by shen_here 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with bf for 2 1/2 yrs and hes been telling since 6 months into the relationship he's wanted to marry me. For 1 1/2yrs he said he would prob. propose to me when I graduated(this was mostly drunk talk). I'm about to grad. and hes changed his mind and said he wants to see how I do in the working world with my own job, so i can suppt myself. I asked him if he could give me an idea of when we would get engaged, and he said he can't be on a schedule. To give me a rough idea, he said "it won't be another five years, cause I know you would break up with me by then." Well he talks about us having kids together like its gonna happen soon. I've tried on rings. He told his mom he wanted to marry me. I feel like I was tricked, because he used to imply we would get engaged when I graduated. Should i even trust that he wants to get married? He broke up with his last gf because she wanted to get married, and he told her he did not want to marry her.

2006-12-06 17:00:43 · 7 answers · asked by Girlygurl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was reading an article about men setting up nest egg accounts. A nest egg account is an account a man sets up secretly incase his wife divorces him. He will then empty this account before she takes him to court, so she cant steal half his stuff. There are also some men buying houses in their friends or family members names so if the wife takes the house, he will at least have a place to live. If i ever get married, i will do both of these things. No American woman can be trusted. they are all golddiggers who only get married to rob us men of everything we have worked so hard for just so they can sit around on their fat lazy asses all day and do nothing. thank god i found that article so i can protect myself.

2006-12-06 17:00:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is a serious question and please don't be offended by it. On this show about relationships they were all talking about having '****' buddies. Now maybe cause I live in Canada and we chill out more, I really can't say I have seen or heard that being truth. I know there are loose people but to have a buddy just for sex , do you believe this is so? Have you or anyone you know been like this? I can't see how you could have sex many times with one person and not get emotionally attached. hmmm

2006-12-06 17:00:04 · 12 answers · asked by Zoey 5 in Singles & Dating

yeah the person who used to be soo sweet once upon a time is behaving weird... he was here in the same town n we used to be like soo close sharing stuff u knw all tht sweet stuff.. n when he left after he ws lik comepletely diff--- doesnt seem lik he remembers ne stuff wich happ here.... i felt soo bad when he left... its been 3 months hes gone.... i used to mail him i never got a reply for the 1st 2 n half months ..i saw him on orkut ..i left him a msg there .. n he mailed me sayin tht hes sorry for not gettin in touch cuz hes really busy n all n tht he misses me etc to forgive him n all... how could he do somehting like this??? im getting depressed ... i dont wanna lose him... i mean we were sooo close---------then y???how do i make him realize wht hes done? i cried n he doesnt even knw a thing!

2006-12-06 16:59:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got out of a really bad relationship a few months ago and since then have "latched" on to a friend of mine. We are best friends and spend soo much time together. I really have started to like him, and told him that as soon as I realized it. He acknowledged the fact, and said I have a lot of qualities who would look for but isn't interested in anything right now. He said the future is always an option for us. What should I do? It's so hard still being his best friend knowing he doesn't feel the same way and I hate feeling jealous about other girls! But at the same time I don't want to "nix" him as my best friend because I would miss him too much. I've tried dating other guys but I'm so picky nothing ever works out. I don't want to wait around for him, I mean if something happens in the future fine, but for the most part right now we'll be only friends and I need to just accept that. But how?

2006-12-06 16:59:08 · 9 answers · asked by AshleyH 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 16:59:02 · 7 answers · asked by Kevin C 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been with this guy for 2 years but hes been getting on my nurves lately i have been really wanting to break up with him but i cant let myself do it because i love him tooooooo much

2006-12-06 16:58:16 · 20 answers · asked by layla 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a well paid job in dubai. My wife and me were happy one year back living here. She has recently delivered a baby girl in india and unfortunately baby girl has fetal problem and would not survive. My wife cant come to Dubai since medication of baby is important. My younger bro has been passed away two years back and parents are alone in india. I cant concentrate on work. Shall I leave the job and go back to home to live in with them? Or continue working here and keep supporting them financially?

2006-12-06 16:57:53 · 8 answers · asked by advance ideas 1 in Friends

We are 4 members in our family, (my inlaws, my husband & myself) all are doing job and we are very much busy. software mnc companies won't leave us early in the evening. hardly we get 8 hrs to stay in home. We are so busy that we don't have enough time to talk to each other, to care, to spend time outside, to take rest. Is this the situation in all families? Is there any solution for this I don't want to leave my job & the same time I don't like this kind of routine life.

2006-12-06 16:56:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

head in her car ,it felt really good to,then i saw her camera phone open up she got all of me in the picture ,i am 2 and a half inches erect and a half inch thick now im worried about her showing her friends because my face was showing too i since have got a prank call about me being small ,should i move out of town?

2006-12-06 16:56:23 · 8 answers · asked by small b 1 in Singles & Dating

u c....in my passtime...my father was a CFO in a well-knowntelecommunication company in my country..his paid was so high that he can buy anything.....i was a princess back then..i get everything i want..but after 10 years..he decided to quit and now he is bulding up his own company....i hate to say this..but the bussiness was a disaster...he had no contracts for months now...and he has 0 money in his bank account....i m very sad....
luckily my mom has a job and she gets paid fine...but now....my mom seems to pay for all our expenses...and i dun like the thing happened to me now..i will be going to University in abt 3 years time....so if my parents had not enough money in the bank accounts how am I going to pay the fees and stuff....i m realyy need help 4 now

2006-12-06 16:55:26 · 8 answers · asked by mysterious girl this year!! 2 in Family

Still haven't got enough money to move out and get a decent home for my baby. And I need them to take care of my baby while I'm working. I'm beginning to hate them.

2006-12-06 16:54:49 · 14 answers · asked by Quixsla 1 in Family

y do men always call their girlfriends/wives and say to them where you at? is that so they don't run into them if their out doing wrong? what is it because it tends to irritate me when my fiance ask. mayb because to years ago when he first started asking i cught im coming out the mall with a girl he swore up and down they were just friends but he called to make sure i was home thats y it irritates me i just say now i'm at where i'm at y or i just make up someplace. but he swears he's not asking where i'm at so that he won't run into me cuz if he wants to do anything he will what do yiu say

2006-12-06 16:54:06 · 4 answers · asked by k2u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why after the first date, a woman assumes that its official and says "we're dating" but really means we are in a committed relationship? Can't we go back to the day when everyone respected the dating scene and acutally say to each other "ok..I only want to be with you"?

2006-12-06 16:53:37 · 14 answers · asked by symbol313 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you prefer a woman who is successful at her career, or someone who is avaerage and has a job?

2006-12-06 16:52:19 · 6 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if if this guy gave up/doesn't care anymore or is too hurt? I told this guy I love him and he seemed like he cared at a time he would let me know in his own way but we were impossible so i went back to another guy..he never said but the feeling was like he wanted me to go back to my other guy becuase we had to many problems...etc...anyway now I went back and he totally acts like I don't exsist leaves off his cellphone and won't come online and its driving me crazy...i really don't understand what his problem if he wanted me to go back to the other guy why is he acting like this he is 15.

2006-12-06 16:52:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 16:51:59 · 7 answers · asked by Stace 1 in Singles & Dating

LMAO! I thought this was awesome, a womans prenump agreement. men want them.. so why not us too? what ya think?

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2006-12-06 16:51:32 · 11 answers · asked by Yvette B yvetteb 6 in Marriage & Divorce

guys flirt?

2006-12-06 16:50:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Right now I'm going to this highschool thats freeking boring and we do the same **** every day. Some of the people there are gay too. And the girls arent that good lookin. I have friends there that I have known from middle school and elementary school. I wanna switch schools bu I if I switch theres no going back. I know 1 person that goes to this new school. It would be hard to make new friends. But should I go or not? How can I decide?

2006-12-06 16:50:27 · 6 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3 in Singles & Dating

i had this huge crush on this guy i used to got to school with and after 2 years of not talking he calls me up. we had been talking for 2 days and he asked me to his school dance. i am usually giving advice but now it's my turn to get it ...wat do i do ????

2006-12-06 16:50:18 · 15 answers · asked by Ta Ta 1 in Singles & Dating

i dated girls brother. My girls boyfrnd was b/f her brother. i ended relaionshp with her brther. after it ended i found out i was pregnant and miscarried. my girl and her man broke up. my girl completly shut me out her life. her man came to me with help to get them 2gthr again. 2 months ago i found out my girl was doing drugs that was the reason for shutting every1 out. Keep in mind i lost a baby,lost a friend-tore me up inside,depression was there. her man and myself were trying to hard to get these 2 people in our lives again. i was also trying to keep him from the drugs. trying to protect him. then her man started asking me to date him and all. he thought being with me wld brng her closer to him. unexpectedly we had sex. we both agreed not to tell anyone. last week my girl told me her said waht happend with us. I wish i was there to know what he said. he was beggin. i talk to her a few times, that subject never came up. do you think she will forgive me and do she understand why?

2006-12-06 16:50:15 · 2 answers · asked by Ms. Hollywood Diva 2 in Singles & Dating

please help

2006-12-06 16:49:54 · 4 answers · asked by aishu 1 in Singles & Dating

Her kids don't really like him either. Last night, there was an episode which led to me telling her to choose between him or me in her life which upset her. But hey, I don't need him calling me names and treating her and her kids the way he does, they just lost their dad six months ago. He told me that he can't stand her kids and can't stand to be around them or even in the same room as them. I have told my sister, he has to accept them all or none of them, why can't she see this? What do I do? He sure likes to spend her money when he is given the chance to but she don't see this either.

2006-12-06 16:48:53 · 8 answers · asked by dini 2 in Other - Family & Relationships