i have been with this guy for 2 years but hes been getting on my nurves lately i have been really wanting to break up with him but i cant let myself do it because i love him tooooooo much
2006-12-06 16:58:16 · 20 answers · asked by layla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 years and you are already gettin bugged by him.. i dont think he is the one for you.. cuz think bout it even 20 yrs down the road is it gonna be.. im sick of u ill be back next month and u find him with some other woman.. so yeah u should move on...
2006-12-06 17:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by burnin_inphx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find out that the first little while that you've started going out with someone, it's all fun and getting to know one another. Sharing that time, more and more, however, will bring out the worst in your partner, and maybe you're just realizing that you're starting to see characteristics in him that maybe you're not quite fond of. Everyone goes through that. But if you love him, then you'll get over that 'wanting to break up with him', because you'll discover that you can accept him for who he is, just as he's accepted you for who you are. Together you may make a great pair, and maybe the things that get on your nerves underweigh what makes you love him, even more. Try to balance things out, and talk to him about this. Get to the bottom of it, now, while you're still early into the relationship. You can't change him, but you can help him understand how you feel about certain things that he does that get you angry or irritated. I think by being more communicative, you will resolve problems right away, rather than stuff them in, and continue on, while more things get on your nerves, down the road, and you find that they're piling up and when it finally comes out, you've spewed off everything, right there, and will overwhelm him. He may get defensive, and that may not be how you want to resolve this. So, keep talking to him, get him to see where you're coming from too. He may have some things to put on the table, that reflects some things that may have bothered him, too, and you can work together!!
2006-12-07 01:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by argamedius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you live together? If you do, find a way to talk without arguing. If you don't live together, the next time he does something to really give you validation to be upset, don't speak to him for a several days. Go out with some casual friends. (Go coed just in case ). Talk with some guys. Enjoy yourself. If you like your freedom for those couple of days, then you have your answer. When you talk with him, let him know you have been busy Christmas shopping and nonchalantly, tell him you'll talk when you get a chance. Usually within those several days, he would have left several messages and you will know whether you want to be with him or not.
2006-12-07 01:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by Vivian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem before to i love this guy so much but he kept on being inmature and i wanted to break up with him but i didn't want to break his heart. So want I said was we need to take a break from each other so then a month later we were back together and yes he did change.so now we are married and have 1 beautiful daugther and im the happiest women in the world
2006-12-07 01:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by jayjaywalkler 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will know when a guy is right for you can tell right away by the way he acts,and his willing to do anything for you. I'm going to tell you what to do you have to do what is in your heart. But I was with a guy for a year come to find out he was cheating on me once I found this out we were over. And he didn't love me like he said he did. I'm telling you this because I don't want to happen to me happen to you.
2006-12-07 01:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you need to realize when things are over, if you wait much longer it might get worse. Sometimes you need to count your losses and accept that it may be over. Remember the good times you had and the bad. Learn from each of your experiences and realize that everything happens for a reason.
2006-12-07 01:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by Papa V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG that has happened to me! in the end he broke up with me and that's when I got really mad at him,because like you I have thought about breaking up with him more then once,but I could never do it..it was really annoying because I think he know I couldn't. He would do things that really buged me! and I was the one who always would call him and stuff like that....your right though it's really confusing#!?in the end I think it won't work out...I'm soo sorry to say that because it boke my heart when I realized that it wouldn't work out for me.
2006-12-07 01:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by Bootsy* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends: how much manture does he act towards
you of course . Alot of times upon first realtionships couples
meet each other just by knowing personnly every day finding out
both ways trust & kindness respecting it !
great things do happend only
good luck
2006-12-07 01:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, with the guidance of your mind. If you are finding yourself thinking that you want to break up with him, then maybe you dont love him after all. Good luck.
2006-12-07 01:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by Broken ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont love him, stop fooling yourself and wasting your time and his. If you knew what love was, you wouldnt ask that question, so take a hint and listen to your instinct. You just havent found a good enough reason to get rid of him.
2006-12-07 01:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by ByeBuyamericanPi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋