I got out of a really bad relationship a few months ago and since then have "latched" on to a friend of mine. We are best friends and spend soo much time together. I really have started to like him, and told him that as soon as I realized it. He acknowledged the fact, and said I have a lot of qualities who would look for but isn't interested in anything right now. He said the future is always an option for us. What should I do? It's so hard still being his best friend knowing he doesn't feel the same way and I hate feeling jealous about other girls! But at the same time I don't want to "nix" him as my best friend because I would miss him too much. I've tried dating other guys but I'm so picky nothing ever works out. I don't want to wait around for him, I mean if something happens in the future fine, but for the most part right now we'll be only friends and I need to just accept that. But how?
2006-12-06 16:59:08 · 9 answers · asked by AshleyH 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop looking to be in a relationship right now. Focus on what you like to do, go where you want and do things that you like. You never know you might just find someone new that is in to the same things as you. Someone that would like to be with you.
2006-12-06 17:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by djtedesco73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
got out of a really bad relationship a few months ago and since then have "latched" on to a friend of mine.
Questions: 1) did you get out because you were not being loved back? and you said you were "picky" so this bad relationship was probably someone you loved.
2) latching onto someone in the time of need is normal. don't mix up "your rock" friendship person with a boyfriend type relationship. 3) Picky is only a word you use for "a guy who you see as "your type" 4) you wont lose your friend, and if he ever had more than friendship feelings for you, you would have know that from the start and tried to fire up a relationship with him before. 4) Patience girl, its worth it.
2006-12-06 17:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by aj_annemarie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he doesn't want to be a rebound boyfriend... I was one, and it hurt me quite a bit because she completely latched on to me for a period of time, and I was convinced that I was in love with her... and then she disapeared pretty much and hurt my feelings by saying that we didn't have a relationship, however recently she calls me her ex-boyfriend when the topic comes up. Rejection is hard.... maybe that's something that he experienced.
2006-12-06 17:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey just saw your myspace and 360 page you're pretty cute. Contact me if it doesn't work out with you and your friend.
BTW: Love that Ciara song. I'm glad you have it on your myspace page bacause aol is acting up tonight.
2006-12-06 17:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made this friend into your boyfriend. he probably does like you but you are needy. how BAD was your relationship. maybe you have a lot of baggage and he dosent want to be the baggage handler. i was friends with a girl from kindergarten through h/s. after graduation she blossomed into a hot chick. i thought about asking her out but it was too wierd. best friends are like brother and sister, not humpers and lovers.
2006-12-06 17:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by heyman016032003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont spend as much time with him. Find another freind.
2006-12-06 17:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't control feelings.. you may fool yourself into think you are controlling them in some moments.. but really you arent...
its the crappy thing about them... :)
2006-12-06 17:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get with some one else
2006-12-06 17:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find this out email me ok
2006-12-06 17:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋