life has become boring- no time?

Question

We are 4 members in our family, (my inlaws, my husband & myself) all are doing job and we are very much busy. software mnc companies won't leave us early in the evening. hardly we get 8 hrs to stay in home. We are so busy that we don't have enough time to talk to each other, to care, to spend time outside, to take rest. Is this the situation in all families? Is there any solution for this I don't want to leave my job & the same time I don't like this kind of routine life.

Answer 1

It is a common nowadays with people working in software field. But one thing you have to understand. Life is not only money making. Happiness is very important. You didn't tell anything about child. If you don't have any issues now you apply leave give birth to atleast one child and then you go back to work. Family is first. Job second. Good luck.

Answer 2

Though, not in your case but when people talk about marriage they are curious about everybody earning big bucks or working in MNCs or Corporates. But your question is a ray of light in the dark reality.

Noone cares for love, care or emotional availability/attachment of a person what maters is money / MNC Job Tag / Corporate Tag. etc etc.

Try to explore love and affection in your relationships. Take a break, go to some Hill Station for a weekend. Plan a Cruise Holiday or something like that !! Thanks

Best of Luck

Answer 3

Hi There,

Ya this is the problem with most of the families. In my case if have a infant son too. But we try and make it up on the weekend. We usually go out for a family dinner on saturday night. Sometimes we call for food at home and rent a DVD and watch some nice movies together. On sudays we try and go for shopping or to parks or sometimes even land up as some friends place. Its a nice way to refresh ones self from a busy working week.

Try it. its will be fun.

Good Luck and have a relaxing weekend ahead.

Answer 4

Usually MNC companies are 5 days a week u get 1 day and in that 1 day u can go out and spend ur time.

Answer 5

This happen in many families around the world.My family have the same situation,but we try to communicate one another using telephones,email.Also every weekend we try to be together,taking dinner,going to the cinema,watching a good movie at home,going out,etc.Making time in a busy family,is a tough challenge.You can do it too.Good luck.

Answer 6

struggle for existance.
This is the way of live for every family now a days. you have to create ur priorities 1st. lilke owning house, vehicle, bank balance, etc., etc, and then children.

Once u think u can live without trouble with what u have, then u can leave ur job and stay at home.

All of u can plan and take leave for 10 days go on holiday. As u donot have children...plan for them.

Answer 7

U and yr Husband should decide on this

either u quit yr job and take care of yr family, r ask yr husband to quit let him look after.

U want money u should sacrifice something.

Answer 8

Something has to change! look how your spending comes in and goes out, do you need everything your working for or could you do with less material stuff and more quality time together.
if you keep doing what you've been doing you ll keep getting what you have been getting. good luck

Answer 9

Sounds more like exhausting, rather than boring. It's called the rat race. And many carry on as such for the sake of success.
It's up to you what you want your life to be.

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