Still haven't got enough money to move out and get a decent home for my baby. And I need them to take care of my baby while I'm working. I'm beginning to hate them.
2006-12-06 16:54:49 · 14 answers · asked by Quixsla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Are you sure its them you are hating? maybe its the situation you are in especially since you say you will need them... try an attitude adjustment and see if that doesn't help. :o)
2006-12-06 16:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living with family can sure cause stress. But realize your living under there roof and they are just trying to help. That being said make sure you compromise on the small stuff but stick up for the things you strongly believe are right. Remember that respect for them is the key. And when you move out, think of it as an experience that you would not want to do again but ,be thankful that they opened up there home to you.
2006-12-07 01:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by dominoschick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being so ungrateful! You have in-laws that are willing to put a roof over your head and provide free daycare. I say suck it up, save some money and deal with it! There are worse things in life like not living near your in-laws (mine live about 2000 miles away) and having no living parents (my parents died eight years ago). Life may throw you some lemons, so, go and make some lemonade!
2006-12-07 01:41:56 · answer #3 · answered by lynnguys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, why are you living with your in laws in the first place and sorry about the sit that your in. first you shouldn't have to find a decent home right away. you could try an apartment just to start off.
2006-12-07 01:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ta Ta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you are lucky they are there to help you. You should really have tried to figure every thing out before having a child when apparently you are still not mature your self. Just suck it up and eventually you will be on your own where is the babies daddy?
2006-12-07 01:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by Diana S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't hate- that just hurts you and your baby- remember that this is temporary and make the best of it- they will be your inlaws and the grandparents to your baby forever- is your spouse helping?? I hope so- try to get out of house and go to something free- like walk in the park or something to get fresh air- and relax a little- take care-D
2006-12-07 00:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah.. u kinda gotta deal with what u have done.. it is kinda ur fault u had the choice .. u met some guy .. got close to him.. and ended up at his place.. thank god.. i mean thank myself i didnt get caught up in that.. im free and an ***... but it is true.. but be happy u got someone to watch ur baby when ur at work.. cuz daycare or a babysitter is expensive so u shouldnt take them for granted...
2006-12-07 00:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by burnin_inphx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think why do u hate them?
are they trying to be mean? or they're just acting weird to u?
if they're just acting weird maybe they want u to get out or they're just like that
maybe they're just nothing but nice to u but u cant see it
it also dosnt hurt to ask ur in laws to take care of ur baby
2006-12-07 01:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep telling yourself why you're doing what you're doing. And thank them for giving you the opportunity to accomplish your goal. You're obviously a very strong person, and you will succeed in whatever you put your mind to!
2006-12-07 00:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job..or two if you have to. Stop whining...move on!
2006-12-07 00:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋