their is one problem that i am married but not living with my wife because i am not accpeted her and we do not have any relationship not in past also now i want to have breakup but dont know how it will happen as in past i am not ready for this marriege but due to my parents i had to do that now now my parents also realise that they had done worng but the breakup is not easy as my wife parents have are very strong in society (their are in Police) so what shoul i do now i cant forgate my college girls i know where she is working and where she lives but due to this problem i cannot face to her i am VERY VERY DEPRESSED i dont no what will going to happen in my life and from i week i am not seen that girl in her work palce and even at her home i know two freinds of her but i cant ask about her as i dont know them what whould i do i am very confused noe i need suggestion form you freinds
2006-12-06 17:02:14 · 11 answers · asked by satyen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My Dear Friend,
I read your question and i really feel that this a very serious problem in your life. Our parents dont realise when they force us to marry somebody whom we dont like. Now your problem is that you dont want to stay with your wife and you are really in love with you college friend.
According to me you should take your parents and go to their home when everyone of her family members are present. You should takl very straightly to them that the marriage decision was taken by your parents and you very from the very begining not ready for this marriage. Talk to your wife, tell her that there is no use in keeping the relation when you both are not happy with each other, talk very politely and see what happens.
And now about your dream girl - now you said that it a one sided love from your end. now the thing is does she also love you or if she have some other boy friend whom she loves what will you do then you will be like idhar ka bhi nahi aur udhar ka bhi nahi.
Just talk to her say whatever you want to say her if you cannot say write a letter to her ans ask her to reply you whatever is her decision, but say the truth dont lie anything to her.
See what happens and let us know.
2006-12-06 18:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by Mamta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just **** off that girl dear. She loves herself only. Dont go down to her. If you make her to realize everything means..... thats not a love. Love is a feel. No one cant to explain that. Because am also a girl. I feel my bf feeling and obey his words. But she is not loving you. So better you leave her. God may help you. Dont spoil your life for a selfish girl. All the best.
2016-05-23 02:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi...i can understand ur feeling , but dear its not so easy , if u dont like that girl then why did u marry her, u spoiled ur life, & her also...if u like some other girl u would have proposed her & would have known her opinion......now u dont know she likes u r not....so i suggest u , first u talk to her ....and abt ur marriage if both of u r not happy then no meaning in continuing...u talk to her tell her ur feelings , tell her by this way u cant give her all the happiness.....convince her to apart...I WISH U ALL THE BEST
2006-12-06 17:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by sonu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forming a sentence would be a suggestion. If you cant read the question how can you expect us to answer it. Sounds to me however from what I could understand youre in some kind of arranged marriage gone awry...well get to know her before you move on dude...if shes that bad then its understandable.
2006-12-06 17:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go ahead buddy!u desperately need a partener, it seems.but about this girl,make sure u have something in u she'll not b able to resist.still if it does not happen keep on the search,there's no sarcity of good girls!!!
2006-12-06 17:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by girija j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell would you marry this woman?? Who cares if her family is involved with the police department, get away from her. And nobody HAS to marry anybody
2006-12-06 17:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by pinkforyouonly21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you love her but they can't love, one side love is normal all over in world, you say, you are love her,
they can not accept, you not go in depressed many things not caught in over life, so you find those girl, she love you, that is roll for life, every thing not cot, life can not stop. you find other girl.
2006-12-06 17:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by HARJINDER S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Happy searching.
2006-12-06 18:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by Ashok 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please call a lawyer. He or she will help you proceed. You have to move on, don't hang in limbo any longer. Call a lawyer tomorrow.
2006-12-06 17:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST YOU ARRANGE YOUR DIVORCE YOU ARE SAYING THAT IT IS DIFFICULT JOB THEN WHY YOU WANT TO RECONCILE YOUR OLD RELATION FOR PASSING TIME.
2006-12-06 17:15:22 · answer #10 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋