yeah the person who used to be soo sweet once upon a time is behaving weird... he was here in the same town n we used to be like soo close sharing stuff u knw all tht sweet stuff.. n when he left after he ws lik comepletely diff--- doesnt seem lik he remembers ne stuff wich happ here.... i felt soo bad when he left... its been 3 months hes gone.... i used to mail him i never got a reply for the 1st 2 n half months ..i saw him on orkut ..i left him a msg there .. n he mailed me sayin tht hes sorry for not gettin in touch cuz hes really busy n all n tht he misses me etc to forgive him n all... how could he do somehting like this??? im getting depressed ... i dont wanna lose him... i mean we were sooo close---------then y???how do i make him realize wht hes done? i cried n he doesnt even knw a thing!
2006-12-06 16:59:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave him and find me
2006-12-06 17:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl forget him and find you someone else because the way I look at it those months here he wasn't keeping in touch, there is a great possibility he was dating someone else and when they didn't work out, he started up with you again. And if you don't want to completely burn bridges with him, ask him where y'all stand, and if he doesn't give you a straight answer, then let him know that you are going to see other people til he realizes what he wants. Men like a chase so don't make yourself so available anymore plus long-distance relationships have a hard time working anyway even when both parties are on the same page. You're a women which means you are so much better than the run-around. Focus more on yourself than on him.
2006-12-06 17:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by latchargray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dear,
Please don't cry instead be strong and try and find out what exactly is the reason. Do you have his phone no just pick up the phone and call him. Tell him what is going on in your mind and how you are feeling because of his behaviour. Dear believe me it is better to speak to him and get the exact answer than being confused and chocking up yourself feeling bad and sad and making yourself miserable. You are building up all these feeling inside you and it will affect you health. I am saying this cause i have faced it. My problem was a different but the point i am trying to make here is that till i didn't put my thoughts across i died everyday with all the pain which was unbearable. You have to talk to him. And tell him everything. See what he has to say from his side atleast than you know what exactly is the problem and weather he is still with you or you have to move on in life. It will be difficult but you have to speak to him to know the truth instead of crying and making yourself miserable.
Hang in there girl....Be strong and wise in making your decision
Good Luck & God Bless
2006-12-06 17:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 04:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crying wouldn't take you anywhere. Thinking calmly would. Is he really too busy in his new place? I mean a great workload which doesn't give him any opportunity to keep in regular touch with you? If yes, then give him the time to settle and he will start talking on his own after some time. If no, forget him and find someone else.
2006-12-06 19:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,,,,,, frm your question i feel that how much you loved him, he is a one lucky guy, but that's the game of life when some one loves you very much you don't give much importantce that's what heppening with him, you stay calm instead of crying check out what was the reason that he never called you or even mailed you, if he is there in same town. , you may be knowing some of his friends call them and ask about him what's going on in his life, if he is having a other girl than you are wasting a time on him, live your life, forget him......or find some one else
2006-12-06 19:25:42 · answer #6 · answered by eddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm .... hey iam shenthil here ... seems like u are in a confused stage .... Wy cant u divert u r mind .. and make urself busy in some other activities .. so that missing him thoughts might reduce.. Alos when u r mind is clear u can come to a decision
2006-12-06 17:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by shen_here 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can see why you might be confused cuz like you dint mak no cents 2 me so idnt no wht 2 like tel yew lie i wish i cood lie hep .the way 2 sho him wat hez like dun is 2 like tel him like how yo fil n wen ya tel im how you fil like make sur hez pickin up wat yer puttin down. since hez missin you so much n he says hez like sorry.....look sweetie....he is obviously young and you are too. if he isn't getting back to you , chances are he isn't interested in you any longer. sweetie you're young !!! don't get hung up on some fella that treats you like you no longer exsist. have you ever heard the old adage.." out of sight out of mind ?" it sounds like he's busy making new friends. and i think that's what you should be doing too. if you're meant to be together it will happen. but no more tears sweet heart life is just too short to be wasting time nursing a broken heart . go out with your friends and have fun. as long as he knows you're still interested in him he figures he has you in the bag and doesn't have to work at keeping your relationship going. back off a bit and see what happens...he may start getting nervous if ya do. good luck sweetie....and i was only kidding at the begining...you kids crack me up with all of your little weird ways of talking in short talk. take care and good luck.
2006-12-06 17:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by anndee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just 4 get him there are other imp things in life too
2006-12-06 18:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by frandy4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's going through some changes & trying to adjust.Hang onto the friendship & try to talk with him more.I beleive him when he says he's been busy.Dont take it to heart.Let him know how much his friendship means to you.
2006-12-06 17:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to forget him and the stuff k because he will be i search of other girl sorry to say forget him and go for some relaxaions
2006-12-06 19:32:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋