I am 21 years old guy who came to the U.S. to study. I worked as a tutor for a year. I tutored a girl who was very nice to me and used to care a lot about me. As I came here, I faced lots of problems in this entirely new place. But somehow she became my great emotional support and I was able to handle everything. She used to like me a lot and I could feel that her love for me was intense.. I used to like her too but being in a new place, new culture I was very confused. On top of that, my parents would never accept her because I have a culture of arranged marriage. This made me very confused and I couldn't say her anything. After a year, she passed her class.
As she departed from me, I could feel her broken heart. After a week she went, I couldn't hold anymore and wrote her an email that I loved her. She replied me saying that she had no feeling for me and never replied again. It has been six months and I have no contact with her.
2006-12-06 16:25:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 4.0 GPA student and till now I had never fallen in love with anybody, not even a crush. Right now, I have came to a stage that I can no longer study, I cry while I take my exam seeing my inability to answer questions, which I know very well. I have come to an stage where I may be out of status and have to return back. If I return back I know I would not be a normal person again. My parents gave all the money that they had saved for a decade. I love her very much but I don't know why she doesn't even talk to me. Cancelled her phone, email and I have no contact with her. She told me that I was inexperienced. I don't know what she meant, but I know she loved me very much, so that she had even imagined what her child's name would be. Over this six months there hasn't been any single time that I have forgotten her. I try to get past it but I can't, no matter how hard I try. Day by day I am fading out and loosing my enthusiasm for life. Please give me some suggestions.
2006-12-06 16:36:05 · update #1
I know that I have to take the decisions by myself. But when she was close to me I was new, couldn't even understand anything. I don't care if my parents would accept her or not, but I do. There is one guy whom she introduced to me and I think he is still in contact with me, but he says he in not in contact with her. I came to know that she even dropped her semester.
2006-12-06 16:41:05 · update #2
As you come from a culture that has arranged marriages, it is possible that your family would not accept her. It is better to let her go, and remember the time that you spent with her as a good thing in your life.
2006-12-06 16:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by mightymite1957 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably say that she might have had feelings for you, but didnt know what to say about it either. Or maybe she didnt ever have them, but gave the vibe that she did. Either way, its been to long since youve talked to her, and by the looks of her last email, she may not want to have contact with you. Id say you need to move on. Good Luck.
2006-12-07 00:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by Broken ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the help you need? Here's what I can tell you.
If you feel embarrassed by your letter, don't worry- NO ONE ELSE KNOWS!
Next time ease into it- I did that once too. So embarrassing. The girl now, however, is very fat and pale. Ha ha!
She sure was mean the way she put it though.
2006-12-07 00:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. find a new girl. why would you want a woman that does not Love you. by the way live your life. marry the woman you love not who your parent like. you have to live with her not your parents. you are 21 years old. you are not your parents possession. if you stay in the states, live the culture of the States
TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR OWN DESTINY
GOOD LUCK
2006-12-07 00:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just appreciate the time that you had with her, think of the good times. Remember that things were fun, dont dwell on what might have been.. Everything happens for a reason...
2006-12-07 00:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by Papa V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude put it these way she never like you to begin she only acted like that cause you were here tutor only reason she did that was to get you to go soft on her forget about her
2006-12-07 00:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by cesarbalance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up if she sends u a e-mail saying she aint got any feelings for u i would just let her go
2006-12-07 00:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by falawoods 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋