i need opinion from all of u out there....man or women..(but really loved to hear from the man side)...will u accept the women u love as a wife and yet she told u that she cant give u childrens due to some problems which she never ask for it...will u still marry her in that case & not going to give that as an excuse in future to find other women just because u dont have heir..
2006-12-06 16:12:10 · 11 answers · asked by meemee8403 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. im a women. but if says my future husband is in that situation, i will accept as he is. it is not his fault that he is not able to have kids. we cant blame out fate or god for all this things. this is a kind of test from him as a slave in this world. there is always a solution. adoption. sarrogacy. more importantly is to live happily with the person you love. thats all that matters.
2006-12-06 19:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by spanish guitar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you said you prefer a mans point of view but I just want to say, I have 2 friends that are in that same situation. In one, she is fine but her husband cant produce kids, and she knew b4 they got married and she excepted it and that's all she ever talked about was having kids and a family so they decided to do artificial insemination. Been married 4 years now. My other friend, she cant have kids and he knew b4 they were married, actually they found out when they were engaged and they still got married. Been married 3 years now and adopting a child next month. Both couples we so in love with each other and they accepted each other issues and are still in love. Good Luck
2006-12-06 16:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I got married I didn't want children. It took my wife 3 years to talk me into having children. It would have worked for me. My younger brother is in that position now and wished that he would have had children. It works out different for everyone.
2006-12-06 16:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting married to someone is all about love and wanting to be together.O.K not being to have children sad but you can adopt.
2006-12-06 16:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by jjinbkk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man....your point of view i understand but at the same time this guy that your with if he so called love you and your that person that he so called wont to merry he should respect that your unable to give hem that opportunity to have his child.far as you, you should let that man know before he make that decision to merry but if he know of your fault and decide to leave then your better off and its his lost not yours.and if he decide to ack stupid for what you cant give and HE KNEW THEN HE'S NO GOOD let hem go.trust
2006-12-06 16:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by when you THOUGHT shit matters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would find it difficult not because of a heir but would like a family of my OWN someday
2006-12-06 16:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by groovergabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would because I love her.
2006-12-06 16:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that can be a bonus to alot of guys, saves worrying about contraception.
2006-12-06 16:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would if I truly loved her.
2006-12-06 16:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by Wiseguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, would accept her.
2006-12-06 16:20:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋