Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

Ok so I have an extreme amount of feelings for one of my best friends named Kyle. Kyle's best friend Mark is my ex boyfriend of 6 years. Kyle has sent me some signals that he feels the same way but cannot hurt his best friend Mark. Here are the signals.

We went out to our friends house and he went outside to look at the stars with his other friend and I went out with him and the other guy and said,"Come here, I want a hug." he hugged me for awhile and wouldnt let go and said ," If we see a shooting star then we are kissing." We look in the sky and there it was, a shooting star, and then Mark walked out so nothing could happen.

I went down to his college a couple weekends ago and I suggested that I sleep in his bed with him and he hesitated. He said he couldnt do that to his friend. I said, "Kyle nothing will happen." he said, " what if it did? I couldnt do that to Mark."

These types of things have been going on for a year now. Do those things say that he has feelings or what?

2006-12-06 15:45:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WE'VE BEEN dating for 5 months now.. I wanna get him an ipod for xmas... or something really special I dont know what.. can any one give me ideas.. on what guys would like there gfs to get for them

2006-12-06 15:45:42 · 9 answers · asked by beth 2 in Singles & Dating

My son is an excellent father! He pays child support every week, takes his visitation twice a week, and really tries to be the best father he can be while he is with her.The problem is that the baby's mom feels he doesn't do anything right. He lives at home (he's 19, baby is 1 1/2, mom is 18 & pregnant again by another man) so now she don't like one thing or other when she is at our house. What do I do? I lost my temper really bad once & have a restraining order against me, but I love my granddaughter & son dearly & can't stand seeing him treated like s**t all the time by her and her family. What can I do?

2006-12-06 15:45:20 · 8 answers · asked by stormy_one67 2 in Family

why do women ask this Do women not cheat on men when they are away? we cant stereotype women but its ok for women to do it?????

2006-12-06 15:44:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a male friend ( bestfriend of mine) which is dating a gal, that i never knew before.he never intro her to me either.wel, the probs is, i just can't get close to him anymore :( so sad about this.he used to closed with me, hang out together when he's out of shift,and this is my probs. now, he always keep distance from me.y?when i msg him, i'll b lucky if he replied me and when i'm calling him, either he pick up or not.If he answered da phone, he says that he's in his gal place and bye.lately, he whinning to me that he wants to broke up to his gal, coz of her over heat jealousy and queen control over him.very convincing that he'd decide it but now, he tell me that he's with da gal again??? Answer me.......WHATS WRONG WITH HIM?

2006-12-06 15:44:12 · 9 answers · asked by n 2 in Friends

He's 29 and I'm 30 - we met in a bar. We met three years ago, and we both drank rather a lot socially. Now, I know I've changed. I'm now into fitness, and my job, and want more than our Brooklyn neighborhood, which is centered around the bar where we met. He also has a new job, and at two work functions he's gotten so drunk he admitted he couldn't remember half of the evening. He drinks 4-6 beers each night normally. Every night of the week, and more on weekends. He has some shakes on the few mornings pre-coffee that I've paid attention.

I know this is a stupid question as it seems obvious, but I'm in the relationship and I am having problems saying this might be true. Am I engaged to an alcoholic? Or do guys just do this? Drink every night?

He's not abusive to me, never has been. But I'm scared. Is it only a matter of time?

2006-12-06 15:43:59 · 8 answers · asked by yupagirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-06 15:43:57 · 18 answers · asked by Almaas Ahmed 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are a girl and you dont know someone yet or you know their faces or even their name but not too much, maybe a foriegner, will you allow yourself together with the guys/boys to drink in the bar?If you respect yourself because you are the only girl drinking together with the boys what would you do?

2006-12-06 15:43:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have absolutely no clue why, but when guys speak spanish to me, i get soooo turned on by it.

2006-12-06 15:41:17 · 6 answers · asked by AshleyH 2 in Singles & Dating

she lived in cliffwood NJ but she got married oct 4/1969
and i have not talk to her after that can someone HELP me

2006-12-06 15:41:09 · 6 answers · asked by toehead1949@atlanticbb.net 2 in Friends

im 15 . there is a girl at my school that i am friends with and she is always saying im the best. but when i asked her out she said she liked me as a friend. why does she call me the best? and why does every girl i ask out say they like me as a friend??? its like they dont have another excuse.

2006-12-06 15:40:33 · 1 answers · asked by Chewie91 1 in Singles & Dating

Recently my husband and i were to get back together while he played games with my heart and emotions,he turns around and tells me he does not love me anymore and it was over with and get on with my life that he had someone else,i find out.

2006-12-06 15:40:21 · 10 answers · asked by k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 15:40:14 · 9 answers · asked by Almaas Ahmed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-06 15:38:36 · 8 answers · asked by icy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are thinking about basically eloping in hawaii while on an all expense paid vacation with my fiances company.. The only thing is i am not sure if i want to get married w/o my family there. Even though i plan on having a church wedding later anyways. It would cost us 5,000 dollars this includes round trip flight and hotel for the days we are there for 4 adults and one child to come. We are not paying for anything so would it be crazy for us to try to pay 5,000 dollars for our family just parents and daughter to be there???? I am torn.. Jeff kinda just wants it to be us. I really feel like i would want my family there.. What should i do??

2006-12-06 15:37:50 · 9 answers · asked by peachescl2000 2 in Weddings

ok here it goes...... i was with a girl for seven years,we have two kids. she has cheated on me four times through out our relationship. also, during our relationship...she has asked me to help out around the house and spend more time at home. i quit going out but, i didn't really help out that much around the house. so one day i went out with some friends and she got angry with me and said she was leaving me. i talked with her and every thing was fine. then i went out again but, she came with me but, got angry because i got pretty drunk. she was so angry at me and told me that i always say i'm gonna change and that i don't and told me to leave. i left the house. i found out a couple days later that the night that i left.....she slept with one of my so called friends. now what's your advice on this matter? i hope i made it more clear this time for those who read my previous posts.

2006-12-06 15:37:39 · 20 answers · asked by just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We're not dating or anything but i want to hang out w/ him at his house and at night because i get hyper at night and he says he does too, i just think it'd be fun. Of course if something more happened that'd be fine w/ me haha

2006-12-06 15:36:45 · 19 answers · asked by Diverse Insanity 3 in Singles & Dating

Just curious to find out if I have those good points compared to when I was single.

2006-12-06 15:35:46 · 15 answers · asked by Melissa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 15:34:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she was pregnet with tweens and we found her on the floor. I will never forget that moment any ideas on how i can can cope. she left me with my brother he is two and i am raising him how do i deal? help please...

2006-12-06 15:34:29 · 25 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Family

2006-12-06 15:33:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 15:32:37 · 4 answers · asked by Hil 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-06 15:31:39 · 12 answers · asked by elv 1 in Singles & Dating

i wanted to know what are some good starters in conversations with girls and how to get her to be more interested in me cause i really like her

im in high school

2006-12-06 15:30:48 · 12 answers · asked by JoE 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy ive been dating for 8 months told me he sees im the type who doenst take "no" for an answer, but he still flirts with me and everything. pays for everything when we go out, asks what my schedule is so we can spend time together & things like that. when we make out, it's always cus he comes on to me. what's going through his head?

2006-12-06 15:30:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 15:30:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it sure seems like deeeeep down inside EVERY guy... they're all disgusting and... corrupt?... and.. yeah.. is this true? are there any guys in the world that are actually... sweet anymore? all i want to know if there really is a guy out there that is guitar-playing-peotry-writing... haha well maybe not that perfect, but just sweet... ya know? im just sick of all the creeps out there...

2006-12-06 15:29:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 15:29:19 · 18 answers · asked by Rachel T. 2 in Friends

There is this girl I have a crush on in school so should I tell her that I like her? We are pretty good friends and I know her pretty well but I'm scared on how she'll react like if she'll go and tell her friends and if the news would spread or something. Plus I get really nervous when I talk about that sort of stuff with a girl.

2006-12-06 15:28:28 · 6 answers · asked by Ratchet 3 in Singles & Dating

I think he is on drugs he sleeps all day, doesn't work and hasn't held a job longer than 2 months all year. Borrows money from her check from family members. Both of them lives with my dad, no bill but is always broke. When the family confronted him and her about these issues my Aunt received a phone call from his phone (that she pays for) with the sound of a gun shooting.This is completely out of her charter

2006-12-06 15:28:26 · 8 answers · asked by Smile 2 in Other - Family & Relationships