when you love a girl, or fall in love with one, the fact is, you do think they are really pretty or beautiful. you just automatically think it. yes, beauty is important to everyone to a certain point, but you shouldnt base love on beauty or looks. but dont let others influence you. what you think should only matter. if you are in love wit someone and others say she is not pretty or whatever, then forget them. they dont have the same feelings you do. love comes in all varieties sweetie. it is true that love gets better over time.a girl may not be the most beautiful, prettiest, or most attractive, but hey, love is love. if that's what you love then so be it.the more you become in love with the girl..it seems the more attractive they become to the guy. like wit ma bf...he thought i was pretty. as time went by it seemed like...i was gettier prettier to him. cuz i send him pics of me lol. my relationship wit him is long distance so maybe its a lil different but still. i asked him one day, what comes to mind when you think of me? he said some other stuff...but one of the other things he said....he thinks of "absolute beauty" when it comes to me. i was surprised. but that's just his way of expressing my "beauty". but that's him. every guy has their own opinions. to him i'm the most beautiful girl ever. but i know i'm not to everyone else. so what i'm tryin to say is what matters should only be between the couple. if its really love, then beauty is already there. hope this helps a lil. :)
2006-12-06 16:31:51
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answered by Trinity A 2
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First comes respect. If you dont respect each other then there is no point.
Second comes compatibility. You have to get along otherwise it is a failure.
Thirdly comes attraction. You need mutual attraction otherwise the eyes start wandering.
But what in a girl attracts a guy? Initially it may be structural, fashion or skin beauty, but that is only form - not substance -.
Substance beauty is as they say "what's inside", but what does that mean?
Inside means --HOW the girl responds emotionally to the guy when she is around him--.
When a guy sees a girl respond to him and get turned on and in love with him, then he WILL see her as the most beautiful and irresistable.
I met Aish once, and was not moved by her beauty because it wasn't happening in her, whereas another girl I met who couldn't compare to Ms. World was so much more attractive and beautiful to me.
So there you have it. A girl doesn't really need to obsess about beauty as much as she needs to be obsessed about the guy!
If she is then she can be wearing a potato sack for a dress over her black-as-night skin and he will be all after her. If not then she will go unnoticed even if she is Ms. World.
2006-12-06 16:28:21
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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To Whom It May Concern; There is 1 thing about falling in love that i've learned in my life time thus far and that is...Beauty is and will always be in the eyes of the beholder!!! It's not always about the beauty of the skin because when it's all said and done it's what's in the heart that truly matters the most. So, always remember that what I may consider to be junk will always turn out to be someone else's prize treasure. I hope I've been able to shed some positive light on your situation with the matters of the heart...Hollar!
Peace,
I'm outta here...1
2006-12-06 15:59:52
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answer #3
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answered by raymond_donnie 1
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Well, it is certainly a major part of it. I have a crush on this girl right now who I think is fairly attractive but certainly not the hottest girl in the school at a first glance. But as I got to know her, I enjoy hangin out with her and to me, there is no other girl in the school who I think compares. Personality is a much more important part because think of it like this: would you rather have a really mean bombshell or a really kind, and fairly attractive girl.
2006-12-06 15:50:52
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answered by Ratchet 3
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elegance: a million) Describe what you appear to be on a wintry climate day in a nutshell.i'm oftentimes wearing skinny denims tucked into boots, a comparatively unfastened blouse, sweatshirt, my hair down and wavy, and a sprint makeup 2) Describe what you appear to be on a lazy weekend in a nutshell. wearing flannel pants and a saggy blouse, no makeup, do no longer oftentimes brush hair 3) what's your prevalent makeup ordinary? a sprint lip gloss, blue-tinted mascara 4) what's your well known physique cream/lotion/butter? i do no longer use any 5) For all of you blessed with captivating, sparkling epidermis, what's your secret? no longer wearing makeup, actual. lol 6) the place did you purchase your maximum coveted merchandise of clothing (blouse, footwear, rings, etc)? : ) i believe stupid yet i don't know what which skill. :S 7) Does what you place on mirror who you're? yeah i might say so college/teachers: a million) Are you an overachiever? each so often i could be 2) once you're in HS or graduated, what extracurricular activities are you/have you ever doing/achieved? Glee club 3) what's the suited form of student a college needs? huh? lol sorry 4) For all you stable-doers, how are you able to stand as much as procrastination and absence of concentration (on college or artwork), and attempt against it? MISCELLANEOUS/YOU! : ) a million) What makes you quirky? : ) hmmm loads of issues 2) what's certain to make you smile? my acquaintances :D 3) Describe your character employing 3 words. relaxing, random, happy :] 4) What are you obsessed with? All Time Low 5) Do you talk diverse languages fluently (i.e. bilingual)? nope 6) what's your surprising capability / weak point? gahh uncertain 7) who's the main severe individual that's formed you to be who you're? i do no longer likely have one 8) what's one trait you get excitement from in somebody else? humorousness. :$ 9) Are you a insurrection? : ) yeah 10) what's your all time well known quote? previously you ask which thank you to bypass remember the place you have been 11) Which Y!A person might you opt for to fulfill in genuine life? Lily and Kristina 12) A genie provides you 3 needs. What do you like for? Jack Barakat, eternal happiness, and thats approximately it
2016-10-14 04:38:37
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answered by Anonymous
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Well my dear, Whenever at first time man sees a girl or vice versa, first impression is made which mainly made by looks.
Also there is a Sanskrit Subhashit as Kanya varayate rupam.
But friend as the time goes & you know eachother better many things take over the beauty. Wisdom, Attitude, Nature of a person, communication skills & so on.
Many of my friends are good looking girls. My best friend whom I may marry (inshallah) is not so great looking. But if one meets her once, he is completely charmed by her personality.
My advice to you my brother, is you can look for a girl who have sweet smile, spark in her eyes, kindness in her heart & talks in good tone.
Allah hafij
2006-12-06 16:18:43
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answered by Anonymous
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True beauty is that which is inside. Obviously, outward beauty is nice, but it's only a plus. It doesn't last. True beauty remains no matter what happens to the outside. Aging does not change it. The person just gets more and more beautiful.
2006-12-06 15:48:56
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answered by Trizzle 1
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when falling in love we dont see the beauty its like a magic we get stuck in one person. never mind he or she is not so beautiful to others but for u he or she is most in the whole wide world.yep i think inner beauty is important
2006-12-06 16:40:31
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answered by anu 2
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I dont think so but many of u guys think in same way. According to me inner beauty of a girl is very important. If she is very pretty but she dont have good heart to understand others feeling then what is the use of that beauty.
So believe me look for girls inner beauty i.e her behaviour.
2006-12-06 15:52:29
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answered by pearly 2
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I think the beauty of ones soul is more important than physical appearance.
2006-12-07 00:36:00
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answered by Ms. G. 5
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