i have a male friend ( bestfriend of mine) which is dating a gal, that i never knew before.he never intro her to me either.wel, the probs is, i just can't get close to him anymore :( so sad about this.he used to closed with me, hang out together when he's out of shift,and this is my probs. now, he always keep distance from me.y?when i msg him, i'll b lucky if he replied me and when i'm calling him, either he pick up or not.If he answered da phone, he says that he's in his gal place and bye.lately, he whinning to me that he wants to broke up to his gal, coz of her over heat jealousy and queen control over him.very convincing that he'd decide it but now, he tell me that he's with da gal again??? Answer me.......WHATS WRONG WITH HIM?
2006-12-06 15:44:12 · 9 answers · asked by n 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hi dear
Dont worry God make good persons like u to teach another who never care for their loving ones. i know it is difficult to forget lover but everything is not done according to us. so, choose any another who impress u.
my G/F also forget me for another one . but i never mind bcoz my love is true for her. i wait 4 her for 3 years but she never came back and make friends more but i m alone
just try for another like me
2006-12-06 16:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If his girlfriend is jealous, she probably doesn't want him to have any contact with you. It is probably more that she doesn't want him to speak to you rather than the other way round!
If that is the case he probably finds it difficult to speak to you while she is around and if she isn't around is probably thinking he still can't talk or text in case she found out and read more into it!
For me, I think taking a back seat is what he wants you to do so that is what i would do. Just be there when he is ready or falls out with her. Deeply upsetting as this may be. If you keep pushing to be mates - he may totally reject your friendship and I am sure you don't want that.
2006-12-06 19:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by peachy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you really can do is sent,write or what ever you want to do and tell him.."Hi i just want you to know that i am always here for you,That's whether you want to talk or just have a hug.I will not interfer in your life, but when you have made up your mind what you are intending to do with it, just remember that you do have friends that care, and they need to be cared for too"
2006-12-10 07:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by nessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the gal he is with is probably the kind tht can get anything she wants, is very pretty, and is a snob so there is nothing wrong with him its the gal. try to convince him to brake up with her.
hope it helps
2006-12-06 21:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by yara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just in a relationship if he is only ur friend and u dnt have feelings for him in that wae then u should be happy for him and understand but it sounds as if u do have feelings for him
2006-12-06 15:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by pauline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just not talk to him, that way he will see what he's lost. Nobody knows what they got, 'till you lose it!
2006-12-06 17:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by Issa A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is confused with this relationship.....u can either help him out or give him some space to figure things out.......n' also, remind him that u're aleays there for him......good luck!!
2006-12-06 15:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like gary and minty of eastenders
2006-12-06 15:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by hey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not gay
2006-12-06 15:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋