I think he is on drugs he sleeps all day, doesn't work and hasn't held a job longer than 2 months all year. Borrows money from her check from family members. Both of them lives with my dad, no bill but is always broke. When the family confronted him and her about these issues my Aunt received a phone call from his phone (that she pays for) with the sound of a gun shooting.This is completely out of her charter
2006-12-06 15:28:26 · 8 answers · asked by Smile 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her what you think is ALL you can do.
Let her make the choice, and if she doesnt listen to you. Then she will learn and find out the hard way!
2006-12-06 15:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a very touchy subject but no one knows another persons "perfect partner". people have basic needs but beyond that everyone has their preferences. as an example my older sister was dating a guy about 6 yrs ago and he was and still is very anti-authority. my parents did not get along w/ him at all and well my sister ended up marrying him. and they have two beautiful children now. "my niece and nephew." my parents and some of my siblings judged him right off the bat and my older sister and him are happily married now and every one gets along fine. hope that helps. he is respectful of my sister and would never let anything bad happen to her. good luck w/ your situation but don't close the door now. it makes things more difficult later on.
2006-12-06 15:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ben S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope nothing happens to your sister but she is going to have to learn for herself. you can tell her all you want about the guy she is seeing but maybe she likes him and if things are good then maybe what people have been telling you are all lies. you might just have to take a backseat to this and if your sis gets hurt make sure you are there for her and don't tell her you told her so.
2016-05-23 02:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, you are describing my sisters life almost exactly the only diference is when i or my family tries to talk to her about it she freaks out and slams the phone or tells us we are A**holes. its crazy! i actually don't know any magical cure the only thing i can recommend is be there to support her if she needs you and even if she doesnt. She needs to come to this conclusion in her own time trust me it won't work if you tell her, she won't listen she needs to see that this relationship is bad herself.
2006-12-06 15:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by So Happy!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's only so much you can do. she has to see that he is bad for her. until then...idk. you run the risk of pushing her away if you get her upset and whatnot.
2006-12-06 15:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he calls ask for your sister tell him she said she don't want to go out with you. and go tell your sister that he called and said that he said its over..
2006-12-06 15:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by muammers07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister is too i love carrots
2006-12-06 15:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by icy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should talk to her about it
2006-12-06 15:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋