Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

i have a huge problem with guys. most of the time, the only people who like me are either creeps, disgusting freaks, jerks to my freinds, they smell bad, or i just dont like them the same way they like me. so as you can see, i probably wouldn't of had many boyfriends. i only had one. pretty sad..but oh well. alot of guys "like that" quote un quote, have asked me out but i just got away from it by etiher not answering them and waited for them to take the hint or i lied and said i already had a boyfriend (yea right). so what should i say without being mean and everyone thinking i am a jerk because i have never said no wtihout making an excuse.

2006-12-06 15:13:17 · 15 answers · asked by I'm alive 1 in Singles & Dating

It's a strange world, after all there is a lot of thrill in it! I am not saying that you should cheat, ideally you should not, but it happens...so

2006-12-06 15:11:52 · 18 answers · asked by 40andgoing 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been looking for her for awhille and i want to atleast talk to her not nesseserely to date her but we dated for 3 yrs and i do miss her any ideas on how to find her?

2006-12-06 15:10:04 · 4 answers · asked by angelgodz 2 in Singles & Dating

to the women... would you date a pre-op female to male transgender? but they are on the hormone injections so they look sound and act male....why and/or why not??

2006-12-06 15:09:45 · 22 answers · asked by kiwitboi 1 in Singles & Dating

He is an 8th grader and im in 7th. I don't know him that well but I really like him. He is in my P.E. and Orchestra class and in P.E. we have a lot of time to interact. He always seems to be looking at me but I am not sure if he likes me at all. It would be hard for me to be super outgoing with him, but I really like him and need help. This is an important question so I'd appreciate it if you didn't make fun of me.

2006-12-06 15:08:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a one night stand with a girl that I meet in a bar about 3 months ago. I recently bumped into her again while hanging out with a couple of the guys. One my friends knew her and heard she was HIV positive. The really bad part is my wife is 2 months pregnant. I am really scared for the baby. What should I do?

2006-12-06 15:08:02 · 21 answers · asked by R S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Been married for 3.5 yrs now. The money problems I've been having with her is this:
1) she hardly ever contributes to our household (we have no kids) for bills, food, entertainment etc....I've asked her for, just a little like maybe $300/month. Her monthly income = appx. 1300/mo.
Her excuse is: (a) she's got to fill gas in her car (b) she needed
to buy something etc..

2) + Mid-2005 I lent her family (wife's mom, brother, sister) $5000. My wife is paying me back and the inlaws are not helping. its been over 1.5 yrs and theres $2000 left to pay. Took my wife months to start paying even though she was working and not helping with bills.
+ my wife lends money to her brother, sister, and/or mother. she doesn't tell me when she does it..i just find out later. Probably why she doesn't have money to help me out with the bills.
+overspends on family..she won't help me with bills but buys her family stuff

Really getting tired of talking to her about this..

Any advice? divorce?

2006-12-06 15:07:59 · 7 answers · asked by OKBk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a mother of 3 yr old triplets and a 15 mo old now my grandma has asked me if she can HAVE one of them because i have more than i can handle, she has asked her friends daughter who can't have kids if she wanted her to talk me into giving that lady one of mine HOW FREAKING CRAZY IS SHE? she invites herself without asking , my boyfriend doesen't like her shes put him down time after time when other men would probley skip town but No he stayed and for the past 4 years hes taken great care of me and his kids . Her husband told their dad if he doesen't want or love them step aside so He can take care of them!
What do I do? She's even mentioned kid knapping one of my kids due to her missing them so much . I told her not to come this weekend after she invited herself to spend a couple nights without clearing it with US! Am I wrong?

2006-12-06 15:06:50 · 10 answers · asked by Danielle 2 in Family

2006-12-06 15:06:43 · 15 answers · asked by weslikes69 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 15:06:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was "talkin" to this guy and we would talk on the phone sometimes. He would always call me beautiful and he was always soo sweet and one night he invited me to go see a movie with him. Everything went great! The next day he got back with his ex. What was his deal?

2006-12-06 15:04:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a senior in HS and have this major crush on this girl who is a junior in HS. So much so that I want to marry her (seriously, she has every quality that you would look for). But the more I see her in school the more I see that she is well, too good. Everything I do, she does better than me. In academics, sports, and everything in between. And the one thing I thought she could not do, she passed me on that too. The more I think about it she's too good for a person like me. She probably grows up to be doctor. So even if I do marry her she'll still have a head over me in absolutly everything. Is she really out of my reach?

2006-12-06 15:04:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well iv had this class for almost a semster at my local high school. i sit behind this girl from a angle. this girl that iv liked since beg of school but we really never talked or anything. ok i know this is gunna sound corny but i got a hair cut and shaved and she started to notice me . well a few weeks ago she caught me giving her a glance at her and i turned around quicky. a little shy lol but almost everytime i go to class she starts talking to me but nothing personal i have caught her staring at me. does she find me cute or does she like me . or what im so lost lol

2006-12-06 15:04:32 · 3 answers · asked by hardcore pete 1 in Singles & Dating

i just want to know some good conversation starters and stuff like that, i just want to know some things to talk about with her

2006-12-06 15:04:27 · 9 answers · asked by JoE 1 in Singles & Dating

its either the hobby or me and they walked out and left you, what would you think?, and do.

2006-12-06 15:03:44 · 2 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm not talking about relatives or loved ones. I mean like childhood friends, or anybody who would/could date you if you chose, like a co worker or neighbor/friend.

2006-12-06 15:02:33 · 11 answers · asked by Meems 2 in Friends

He always says nothing when it comes to buying him presents. I have asked for new dishes this year. I don't know what a good present would be to get him, he's a brick mason, works outside.

2006-12-06 15:02:10 · 5 answers · asked by mason 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 15:01:55 · 14 answers · asked by icy 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl and built up the courage to talk to her. Things went well and we had some coffee together. She asked for my number and I got hers. When I called for a date she said that she would love to hang out with me...but she said she had a boyfriend. I figured that it was cool and that I liked her company anyways. We went out for some food and then I showed her my place, we had a great evening, and her boyfriend never really came up in any conversation. She seems pretty interested in me, but she is just an awsome girl and I may be misinterprating her actions. We both enjoy eachothers company, IS IT POSSIBLE that she doesn't have a boyfriend and she was just saying that to see if I just wanted some ***? It is driving insane please help :)

2006-12-06 15:01:50 · 4 answers · asked by nottoobad 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 15:00:22 · 15 answers · asked by ken_wang 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so at my school people get really into asking people to sadies and i have no ideas
like one of my friends is gonna put it on a fortune cookieso when he opens it hell see it
I NEED IDEAS PLEASE!

2006-12-06 14:59:46 · 3 answers · asked by cristina 2 in Singles & Dating

It is Lubbock Cooper Junior High. She needs a friend!!

2006-12-06 14:58:48 · 5 answers · asked by rollarcoasterfreak1001 1 in Friends

do you get mad when your ex does not return you phone calls or text msgs about things, how long do you wait before getting pissed
we have a 4mo old daughter want to keep thins cool but i expect a phone call back as soon as it's convientent. i mean we both parents, i dont want to talk about the weather, i want to know when I can come over and see our daughter!

2006-12-06 14:58:46 · 9 answers · asked by storminnormin 2 in Family

I had originally planned to donate $100 this month to a ministry that has given me teaching tapes when I couldn't afford the full price. In the meantime, I have learned that an employed family member (who does not manage money well) has had hard times after going without power for 4 days and losing all perishable food. Also, an employed friend is going through a divorce and is concerned that her child may not have much for Christmas. How would you handle this situation, and why would you handle it that way?

2006-12-06 14:58:36 · 3 answers · asked by Susan 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, last year (i know its a long time) there was a girl that im pretty sure liked me. I never talked to her because I was to shy and really didnt know what to say to her. Now I have a really big crush on her, and I cant even get her to look at me anymore. I know that she probably felt rejected when I didnt talk to her, but how can I fix this?

I know ive asked this before but im trying to get a wider spread of answers.

2006-12-06 14:57:57 · 14 answers · asked by charliebrown153213 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 14:56:09 · 11 answers · asked by lil' angel 6 in Singles & Dating

my friend found out that they guy she was talking to really wanted to be with her(thats wut he said). well a month ago,she kissed one of her guy friend and almost had sex wit him. so 2day, her and guy friend talkd about why he has not got with her yet and he told her that was a reason y and the fact that he wanted to respect her last boyfriend(her guy friend messd with her while they was dating).. i feel if he knew b4 y did he not say anything yet

2006-12-06 14:55:21 · 2 answers · asked by ace30815 1 in Singles & Dating

He seems just to have issues!He always like laughs at me when I ask Him "Would you kiss me under the misltoe?" It makes me wanna cry but I think the only reason he laughs is to not kiss me, because he is nervous.I want some opinions on this.

2006-12-06 14:55:17 · 9 answers · asked by foxzeroxzechic 1 in Singles & Dating

how far would you take it . how far would you take your lust for love

2006-12-06 14:55:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 14:54:55 · 14 answers · asked by Neil floyd II 1 in Singles & Dating