do you get mad when your ex does not return you phone calls or text msgs about things, how long do you wait before getting pissed
we have a 4mo old daughter want to keep thins cool but i expect a phone call back as soon as it's convientent. i mean we both parents, i dont want to talk about the weather, i want to know when I can come over and see our daughter!
2006-12-06 14:58:46 · 9 answers · asked by storminnormin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You know what? You and the mother should talk. I really think there's something between the 2 of you that's not resolved. You have to fix first the problem between you and your baby's mother. Make the first move. Reconcile with the mother. Ask her what she's really feeling inside. Ask her the reason why she's acting that way. And learn to compromise. Understand each other. For your baby's sake. It doesn't matter if the 2 of you don't end up together. What matters is that you're creating a healthy and harmonious atmosphere for your baby. If you're the baby, would you like it if your parents are not in good terms with each other? I don't think so. Reach out to your baby's mother. Fix the problem between you two first. I tell you... You do that and you will have no problem getting in touch with your baby anytime. :-)
2006-12-09 00:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your trying to keep tabs on what the mother of your child is doing. Stop giving her a hard time about calling you back and start working on building a relationship that works for the both of you. Don't make your daughter a victim of immature parents! Focus on being the best Dad that you can be... Not trying to get back in the sack. If the relationship between the mother of this child and yourself, And there are no signs of it being repaired, Move on and stop hounding her over some BS! You can always take it to court if you feel like your rights as a father are being denied. But it sounds to me that you are controlling and that's probably what ended your relationship...
2006-12-06 15:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by egreen3rd 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am not a single dad, but I hope this helps...if Mom still wants to be with you or is having a hard time getting over you that may be why she acts that way. Also consider this, Mom may just really protective of the baby. Try talking to her calmly, getting upset doesnt fix anything, if that doesnt work take her a%s to court. I commend you on wanting to be a part of your childs life.
2006-12-06 15:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by Tx_Ladybird 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt need to ask. It should be spelled out in your divorce decree! Pull out your papers, READ the part about visitation. Then advise her when you'll be picking up your daughter. If she does NOT comply, she's in contempt of court. Contact your attny. I expect it will NOT happen again, once she realizes you're serious.
2006-12-06 15:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all....get a lawyer and get your rights. I think that dad's get the shaft. My husband's x-wife was a B@#*ch. She controlled how often he got to see his son and when. We faught and faught and thank goodness, now his son is 17 and they have a terrific relationship. It pays off. Get your rights back!!
2006-12-06 15:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sheila 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call a lawyer and have vists set up thru the court system.
2006-12-06 15:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by Kris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have the right to see her
ask people or anyone know ur ex to allow u
2006-12-06 15:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand your ground..... go to her work-place if you
have to....... stand up for your daughter... you seem like a
parent that really cares, don't stop.....if she ignores you then,
then go on forward... To what-ever it takes.........
you have the right to see your daughter.......
she cannot take it from you.....there laws for that....
2006-12-06 15:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't have your ex's side of the situation.
2006-12-06 15:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by TarKettle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋