It's a strange world, after all there is a lot of thrill in it! I am not saying that you should cheat, ideally you should not, but it happens...so
2006-12-06 15:11:52 · 18 answers · asked by 40andgoing 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For records I have not, but I know people who have and are mighty cool about it. As for me I dont judge..
2006-12-06 15:16:34 · update #1
I can neither confirm not deny those allegations; however, for your spouses sake, you shouldn't be running the streets. If you want to stick it in everything you come across, then do that, but don't risk bringing her home diseases. Uncool.
2006-12-06 15:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by wendy_the_pyro 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After 12 years of marriage to a husband who was never home and who would fight me like cats and dogs when he was, I met a man on the internet whom I cyberdated for a year (and visited each other twice during that time) until we decided after we met that we did have far more in common and wanted to be with each other.
Did I feel guilty? Yes and no. Yes, because I was brought up not to do that, but no, because you can't ignore your spouse and not pay the price sooner or later. Some may disagree, but I don't consider what I did cheating on my husband. We may have been legally married and living under the same roof, but we didn't even share a bed for the last 3 years we were together.
When I finally told my husband the truth about my relationship, he was hurt, no doubt, but he was also understanding and took responsibility for what was bound to happen. We had an amicable divorce and we both went our separate ways.
Today, looking back, I'm happily married and it turned out to be the best decision I made, even if our relationship started out in an adulterous footing.
2006-12-06 15:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by llexpat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I was young, I could not truly commit, and have been divorced many times because of my actions..... Young people, please take heed and profit from my stupid mistakes... Cheating on your spouse is the highest form of disrespect and dishonor on the vows you accepted in marraige... Strange pussy is not worth risking your family and everything you have worked so hard to achieve... I am certainly not a bible thumper, no lectures here for sure... I am just telling you it is the most wrong kind of wrong, and should be avoided at all costs... Heed my advice, or write me off as a crackpot, but if you cheat, you will suffer... No body may find out, but YOU know, and that is all that really counts...How many thrills is worth watching your children being raised by another man ???Who may or may not care like you do ??? Please just consider the free advice......
2006-12-06 15:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by mobileminiatures 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on my first husband because because he was gone all the time and I was bored and just wanted attention. Our sex life was awesome when he was ariund so it wasn't for the sex it was just attention. A few days later O told him about it and who it was with. He hunted the guy the guy down and "made" him apologize. Then I was just ticked off. So I did it again and he did the same thing. We have been divorced for 5 years now after a 9 year mariage and 3 kids and yes they all belong to my ex husband. I just wanted him to be jealous and fight for me, but I was only property to him.
2006-12-06 15:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by twysty 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I never have, even going back to Jr. High with my ex's(I'm 28). And for the reasons you stated, I've never been and never going to get married. My ex cheated, my friend's wife cheated, and my other friend's fiancee cheated around the same time, and they all weren't friends. I started getting hit on strongly by married women, who I turned down(sometimes they were upfront about sex). People will make up excuses to make themselves feel better about themselves, but they are just cheaters.
Of course women cheat. We reward them for it. They get kids, house, and sometimes money, and get to sleep around.
2006-12-06 15:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have and never gave it a second thought. in my case i wanted more from our sexual relations than just screwing, and after numerous times of asking for things like oral, more foreplay, and in the but i just got tired and found someone who would say yes and not no. for the women out there would it not be easier to give into your husbands requests, than to have him cheat or to argure with him for hours for a 15 min act. sounds stupid i know but that is how women think
2006-12-06 15:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by keithy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband cheated first so when I found a new relationship, I felt no guilt. We divorced soon after.
2006-12-06 15:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first started dating my last b/f it was new year's eve and i pashed another guy and didn't feel guilty but i have never slept with another man whilst dating one ;)
2006-12-06 15:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by kel s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am single, and I didn't cheat on my spouse.
2006-12-06 15:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and no. I need to like and respect that person I view daily in the mirror......
2006-12-06 15:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋