He is an 8th grader and im in 7th. I don't know him that well but I really like him. He is in my P.E. and Orchestra class and in P.E. we have a lot of time to interact. He always seems to be looking at me but I am not sure if he likes me at all. It would be hard for me to be super outgoing with him, but I really like him and need help. This is an important question so I'd appreciate it if you didn't make fun of me.
2006-12-06 15:08:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just talk to him try to find some common ground that will base some common area of conversation then you can atleast start to build a friendship and go from there.
2006-12-06 15:12:38 · answer #1 · answered by So Happy!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about the age difference, a year is hardly anything. I don't think that you have to be overly outgoing if that isn't normally your personality, but just try some small talk like asking how his weekend was or talking to him about something related to what you are doing in PE or Orchestra. The more you talk to him the more comfortable you will be around him, and if he is interested it will encourage him to make a move.
2006-12-06 23:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by vonbankrachel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i that problem with a junior! but anyways...when he looks ur way just act yourself and smile all the time..if he likes u he will come to u..if hes shy just find a time (not in the middle of a class but maybe when only u him and a few people are in the room and say hey whatsup and start convos. Friends'll help u b more outgoing
2006-12-06 23:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by kat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i remember those years. and relationships were quick week long things that normally did more harm than good. but if you really think this is a possible something, bring up something he does everyday that you think he may have enjoyment in. what instrument does he play? ask him how he likes it. men are all "me me me" so you need to bring up him to get him to pay attention to you. also, he probally doesn't quite know whats going on, so you can't smother him if you do get into a relationship. that will scare him off. let him make the moves. let him call you. let him decide if he should walk you to class or not. i wish you the best of luck, kiddo.
2006-12-06 23:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by KingLegolasG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow im went through the same thing in 7th grade.
but i didn't know how to act back then, so i lost him.
for me, i work best with older guys because they are more mature. it's just so compatible and here's why;
JUST be mature, but then just ask like yourself.
cause people who are intentionally acting older than their age seem to loose their personality. just balance that in a way.
-don't be obnoxiously loud, as if you are trying to get his attention
-don't stare at him if you aren't going to make a move
you don't know for sure if he likes you unless you talk to him.
ask him something during class.
or like, hey what was your mile time?
haha something simple like that.
and honestly you can't really like a person without getting to know them.
oh yeah; make him go out of of himself.
[as in; be the person to make him go crazy, but in a good way]
because that's pretty powerful to be that person to make him go a certain way.
to be outgoing, is just to go for it.
cause you might loose this chance.
just have fun. and don't worry about what happens next.
2006-12-06 23:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by CAT. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just try to talk to him a bit, see what hes into and if u have anything in common with him, pe would be a good time to do that since ur in the same class...take it easy... good luck
2006-12-06 23:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys mature 2 years younger than girls, so treat him like he's a sixth grader. when you talk to him, make the conversation casual, and talk about him and his interests. in my experience, if you make the conversation about THEM, people tend to like you a lot more.
2006-12-06 23:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by Vae 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem it worked out though cause I knew some of his friends and than got a chance to hang out with him, we kissed but later on I found out he wasnt my type so id just try and hang around the same people i guess and hope they envite him to come along.
2006-12-06 23:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by gem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
act more mature then how 7th graders act
try to be on his level
2006-12-06 23:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by IrishSweetHeart03 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Easy! Buy him an expensive gift, like a car or a house.
That will do.
2006-12-06 23:13:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋