Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

here's a little more detail......she's cheated.....i forgave her.....she's cheated a total of four times. said she's done for good because i don't change the way that i am and some of the things that i do. so what's your advice? i've already been told i'm stupid and stuff like that. so please don't go there. i need SERIOUS advice

2006-12-06 14:54:42 · 15 answers · asked by just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was always really picky about guys so it's no surprise that I waited til this year at age of 20 to have my first boyfriend. I always got hit on my but I always put school and family, & friends first. My was was 25 and we only dated for a month but it felt longer cuz we saw each othre a lot. It never went past kissing cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He ended it after a mon the saying he was 'busy'. But he would still say hi to me on msn even after he ended it. A month ago, I bumped into him at the university that we both attend. He seemed REALLY happy to see me. He yelled out my name came towards me &seemed REALLY happy to see me. he kept asking all these questions, smiling & looking in my eyes. I acted kinda annoyed and couldn't really look at him. After 5 or 10 minutes,he said he had to go, then he said "give me a shoutout and we can do something", & I just looked at him, and he said "yeah we can see a movie together or anything you want", I just said bye & walked away.

2006-12-06 14:54:19 · 9 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy and I just can't be together and I never knew clearly what he wanted he knew I love him really much but I went with another guy..before he would let me know he cared but now he won't come on line and turned his cellphone off. I told him I did love him but it was impossible I am trying to still be just a friend but he seems he is really acting like I don't exisit...why? He is a 9th grader.

2006-12-06 14:54:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

since elementary i have a big crush to this guy...until now that i'm in college...last november 18,i txted his friend but suddenly i never notice in the first place that it was him who reads and texting me..in that unexpected thing happened,he knows that i really like him.but then now,even though he knows it..we became close...but at the back of my mind,there is a big question,"is this guy like me too?"he tries to hold my hand and talks with me if we have time
well,i know that some of you could not get what i mean..because actually my experience to this guy is very long...i can't give you all the details but for those who can give answers to my question on how can i know if he likes me or not
thank you in advance!

2006-12-06 14:52:14 · 8 answers · asked by cyndi a 1 in Singles & Dating

wat would u do if ur moms ex bf called u and told u that he was gonna kill ur 2 daughters so she better be carful??
this didnt happen to me but to a friend of mine. and now she is afraid to travel anywhere alone....i wouldnt blame her.....shes always in groups and so i was just wonderin wat u guys would do or if u had any helpful hints
i really love her, and she doesnt have a bf right now all she has is her friends to protect her

2006-12-06 14:51:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There's this guy who works at a bakery and i think he's super hot. I go to the bakery to buy stuff just to catch a glimpse of him. I went a week ago and just stared at him. When i left i caught him looking at me. then i passed again and he just looked at me. So im gonna go on sunday and kiss him at work. I also am gonna tell him to do me a favor and buy me some alcohol, should i do this? is this a bad idea, cause hes like 24 and im 19? what can happen?

2006-12-06 14:51:00 · 8 answers · asked by lizx002 3 in Singles & Dating

with at least 2 other women (after vowing that you were exclusive) and you had a list of all his e-mail and chat friends from on line would you send them all a generic e-mail telling them what a low life cheating scum he was? Isn't it their right to know that he is lying to them too and could be spreading STD's? Would you want to know if your boyfriend was having sex with other women so you could protect yourself or dump the jerk?

2006-12-06 14:50:40 · 18 answers · asked by Sally B 3 in Singles & Dating

I got married in June and my sister in law was my bridesmaid. We were supposed to have pictures taken before the wedding and she drove right by where we were waiting on her at telling us on our cell phone that she didn't want to be late (the bride and groom are still at the photographer after 3 1/2 hours with 4 kids waiting on her). We all ended up in a big fight but everyone went to the wedding. I feel like she ruined my wedding day. Am I out of line? I have not spoke to her since then. My husband (it is his sister) refuses to address the problem and only says he knows why I don't talk to her, but he wont talk to her to tell her how bad it still buggs me that she didn't explain/apologize. My daughter tells me I should get over it because we have known each other like 17 years. How do you get over what to me seems like someone purposely wrecking your wedding? We were an hour late and did not have time for a reception because of the time we spent arguing with her. Tell me your thoughts.

2006-12-06 14:50:20 · 18 answers · asked by Just curious 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well this girl that i like is my x she still lives with me she left me for a random and dated him for two munths but was telling me that she still likes me bla bla bla well she cant make up her mind and she ses im the one that she loves but she whont date me right now but shell date others and that she needs time to get use to some one that cares for as much as i do but she ses that she can not stand me and has moved out three time and keeps coming back every day is a diferent story we sleep in the same bed she flerts with me all the time but she wont date me she wont have sex with me but shell flert with me so much and like play with my pistol...lol... she ses that shell date me again in like a year or somthing but not right now... she dus have trust ishus and dus not relly beleve that i love her so is this a test or shud i just say **** it and move on if you e-mail me i can explain mor but i cant fit it all in this box so what shud i do

2006-12-06 14:49:51 · 5 answers · asked by moses 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a good friend that I think likes me. She did things like tell some little kids that I am her boyfriend as a joke. She also touches me a WHOLE lot in conversation. She always makes some contact, but tonight she asked why I did not invite more girls to a group that I lead. She goes to the group. When I said there are not many girls in our area but I knew a lot in college, she said "Good, that means less competition for me." Why the heck did she blurt that out? Is that a hint or just her saying something?

2006-12-06 14:49:07 · 14 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy like me and he is trying 2 break me and my boyfriend up so he can ask me out

2006-12-06 14:48:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this boy, and I've liked him for a while.
we recently went to a convention at my church, and he went along.
here are some things he did to me when we were there...
he ran up to me and wrapped his arms around me and held me like that while we walked. and i had put my hands on his hands.
then on another occasion, i had asked him to carry my bag becasue it was 'too heavy' lol. well, he did, and he put it in the van for me, and i didnt even ask him too! and, when we had arrived back to the church(his van had arrived about an hour eariler than the others) he had carried my bag in for me.

but about two weeks earlier, i had brought one of my friends to church and he was totally flirting with her. he stood by her and he let her wear his jacket. and he basically ditched me for her.
and here's what happens
he usually flirts with me, then all of a sudden ignores me. and it's so frustrating because i cant figure our if he really likes me or he's a big player..
can you help me?

2006-12-06 14:48:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If ur friend was always like"I don't like when people touch me" and you always assumed somwthing had made her that way, and today you found out she had been raped by ur friend what would you do?? Would you stay friends with ur other friend?? Would you ask her lots of questions??Would you spread it around and make sure her b/f knows??What if ur friend still molested her when you were not around??

2006-12-06 14:48:20 · 18 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 14:48:12 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

I have 4 boys, I'm over weight and almost 40.

2006-12-06 14:48:11 · 10 answers · asked by Sheila 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 14:47:21 · 25 answers · asked by stormy 1 in Singles & Dating

is smoking weed and drinking a turn on?

2006-12-06 14:47:09 · 14 answers · asked by jared l 4 in Singles & Dating

we've been dating for 3 months. I was thinking a 200 dollar necklace? For a combinational gift...is that TOOOO much? Im 19

2006-12-06 14:47:03 · 8 answers · asked by eric j 1 in Singles & Dating

I enjoy wearing a Jar Jar Binks costume/mask around in my everyday life. I basically walk around town and entertain the people with great humor. I go into stores and toss potato chips and other snacks around while screaming, I stand in the middle of the road and dance in front of the cars, and I run up to people and scream in their face. Everyone loves it. But today I went into a hospital cause I thought the people there really needed some cheering up. I ran in and down the hall but some security jerk chased me. I ran into a room with two people laying in beds. I screamed so loud and starting messing up the room, knocking tables over, pulling tubes out of the patients and wires out of the wall. The guard tackled me but I dived onto one of the patients and eventually broke free. I ran out pushed some nurse down before I was arrested. Why was I arrested?

2006-12-06 14:46:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and how do you deal with people like this?(acquiantances)Is it best just to distance yourself from them?I have acquiantances like this who are cool to me one second and ragging on me for something the next.They say that i take it too seriously and in general i think they are trying to lighten things up and mean no harm. When they do that i give them a taste of their own medicine and tease them back.Is there some tension her,or is it all in good fun?These same people at times have stuck up for me by the way .

2006-12-06 14:46:41 · 2 answers · asked by george k 1 in Friends

ok i was studying for a religous education wexam i have 2marro and i went to the part about the jews and circumcision the baby when its 8 days old. i was wondering if it better begin circumcisioned or not. does it give you more pleasure or is it a numb-stick when having sex. and gilrs what do you like natural or cuted

2006-12-06 14:46:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I Like this girl a lot, but I am not sure if she likes me. A couple times our eyes have met for a couple seconds and she smiled a little. I have one class with her though, she is in a grade lower than me. What should i do to make her notice me....I am sorta short with orange blonde hair, maybe not good enough for her .... and she is beautiful tall and slim with dark brown hair and green eyes and soooooooooooooooooooo nice!....Help me i need her to notice me!

2006-12-06 14:45:39 · 6 answers · asked by Sky 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi i like this boy and so my frnd wrote a note to him saying'' yo my fnrd likes u'' so he was like who then my frnd pointed at me and said her and then the boy was like heel no she look like my grndmothers *** So wat should i do plz help?????????????

2006-12-06 14:45:27 · 8 answers · asked by Halimaaaa 2 in Singles & Dating

..everytime a decent , pretty girl is hitting on a decent guy that an ugly trashy woman with her *its hanging out starts to flash in front of them?....just curious to know...

2006-12-06 14:45:00 · 2 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Singles & Dating

I KNOW HE LIKES ME...HIS FRIEND TOLD ME BUT WAT NOW!! HELPp!!?
OK I AM PRETTY SURE HE LIKES ME CAUSE EVERYTIME I LOOK AT HIM AND OUR EYES MEET, HE LOOKS AWAY, AND HIS FRIEND TOLD ME HE DOES, BUT WAT NOW, I ONLY HAVE ONE CLASS WHIT HIM MON.-THUR. AND ITS ONLY 25 MIN LONG, and it isnt like a do work kinda class, we just sit there the whole time... BUT I DONT REALLY TALK TO HIM, BUT I WANT TO, SO WAT DO I SAY, I MEAN PEOPLE HAVE GIVEN ME ANSWERS, BUT THEY JUST SAY GO UP & TALK TO HIM, BUT HE KNOWS I LIKE HIM SO ITS KINDA HARD TO JUST GO UP TO HIM SINCE WE BOTH NO WE LIKE EACH OTHER. SO PLEASE HELP!!!

2006-12-06 14:44:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she always talks to this other girl emily

2006-12-06 14:43:59 · 7 answers · asked by Hollister fanatic 1 in Friends

not intended to be offensive, my question is:
for some divorced women(age between 30~45), do they still have the conception of fidelity? i mean, not a tart? how do they think about sex?

2006-12-06 14:43:51 · 8 answers · asked by eureka 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you had an awesome sex life, but the respect wasn't there in a realationship, would you stay or move on?

2006-12-06 14:43:26 · 22 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, here's the deal.
(its very complicated, so please be patient)
im totally in love with this guy named brian. well he started ignoring me after he found out. so then I got interested in my best friend paul(who i've had a crush on for years) but i realized i liked him AFTER he started dating my VERY BEST friend since kindergarten, but i love him. so who should i keep going after, brian(the guy that started ignoring me) or paul(who likes me, but neither of us want to hurt my friend)

PLEASE HELP ME!!!

2006-12-06 14:43:16 · 4 answers · asked by once_upon_a_dream 2 in Singles & Dating

my roommate's weird,man.everything's ok,then,one day,she decided to switch to 'tudung labuh' and she resembles a very young 'ustazah'.i'm fine with that.then all of the sudden,she decides to move on with life and leave the little people in her life,a.k.a me,behind.when i talked to her,she gave the yes-no answer only.then when it was lunchtime,me n my classmate sits at her table,she puts on a face and muttered 'what are YOU doing here?'i asked my other roommates to ask her what i did to her,but don't tell her it's me,she said 'nothing,i'm just bored of seeing her face everyday'.so,she's bored with seeing my face,but not bored with seeing my other roommates faces????man,i'm steamed.she's a very picky sort of person.i don't think i want to be friends with her anymore, but it can't go on like this forever,i mean,her bed's opposite to mine,i'm gonna see her face everyday. i hate her,but i wanna settle this.any ideas,anyone??please

2006-12-06 14:42:25 · 12 answers · asked by silverwater92 2 in Friends