with at least 2 other women (after vowing that you were exclusive) and you had a list of all his e-mail and chat friends from on line would you send them all a generic e-mail telling them what a low life cheating scum he was? Isn't it their right to know that he is lying to them too and could be spreading STD's? Would you want to know if your boyfriend was having sex with other women so you could protect yourself or dump the jerk?
2006-12-06 14:50:40 · 18 answers · asked by Sally B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not just dump the jerk? If you don't you're a fool.
2006-12-06 14:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by bellbottombleus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would break up with him and go my own way. I would NOT send e-mails to all his women and friends. That could get you in a lot of trouble with your ex-boyfriend. If one of the women asks you why you broke up with him, then you could tell that woman, but don't be vindictive and make him angry by writing anything in e-mails. It isn't worth it. Just be glad you found out before you were married or pregnant. Lesson learned.
2006-12-06 22:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anniesgran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that its not your responsiblity to tell anyone that this jerk is cheating and a scum. If these girls can't figure it out that he is a jerk then its their fault for being an asshole and not using protection if they get stds. you will lower your self to his level if you try and get revenge. Move on and thank god that you found out he was cheating on him before you got pregant married or wasn't a lot of your time on him.
2006-12-06 22:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sally, first I would go to the free clinic and get an STD checkup. If you caught something, give all the contact information for the other girls to the clinic, they will have to notify them that they could have been exposed. I pray you don't have aids!
2006-12-06 22:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by musemessmer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should protect yourself with condoms anyway, and yes, I'd want to know.
Go ahead and send the e-mails, the jerk deserves it.
2006-12-06 22:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by Phrosty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post him on http://dontdatehimgirl.com . My friend showed me that site awhile back.
And to answer some of your other questions, some women elect to be dumb and not want to know. It's sad but it happens. If you find him coming after a friend, then yes, tell her, but as for you, get on and don't take him back. He jeopardized your health, and for that, he doesn't deserve your attention anymore. Maybe after you post him, then you should send that generic email w/a link.
2006-12-06 22:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by HeavenlyBoheme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may send a friendly warning e-mail, but I wouldn't be a bit surprised if half of them didn't believe you. Woman can be so blind sometimes.
2006-12-06 22:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and get yourself tested for stds
2006-12-06 23:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by blue moon lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them & then set his vehicle on fire. He'll think twice. There is a Carrie Underwood song out right now"Maybe next time he'll think before he cheats" Listen to it , it will tell you exactly what to do! Just make sure he doesn't do it again!! Good Luck!
2006-12-06 22:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, but that doesn't mean that you should tell it to everyone he knows. Tell the girls that he was cheating on you with and your frineds, but you will sound foolish if you email it to his whole list of contacts (which will probably include his parents.) Who would want to date a girl who did that?
2006-12-06 22:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋