for all you women part two?

Question

here's a little more detail......she's cheated.....i forgave her.....she's cheated a total of four times. said she's done for good because i don't change the way that i am and some of the things that i do. so what's your advice? i've already been told i'm stupid and stuff like that. so please don't go there. i need SERIOUS advice

Answer 1

if she is done, she is done.
no point wasting your time going around in circles, fine someone that doesn't carry their pussy in their hand and give it to anyone with a penis.
she has issues, and you do not deserve to be thrown around for her insecurities. if she does not respect her body enough to keep to one man why bother with her. a woman that does not respect herself does not deserve love, throw her to the curb and find a decent respectable girl.
good luck, let prostitutes go do their job. don't waste your time.

Answer 2

You said in your 1st question that it wasn't about cheating. Now you say it is, so which is it? I can't believe you forgave her 4 times. You either are way too accepting or just plain stupid. I lived 15 years in a disaster like this. Only I didn't know of the cheating till the end, and then I found out it had pretty much been going on since the day we got married. I am now divorced and never been happier.

Make up your mind what you want.

Answer 3

Your friends, and spouses, will reflect your opinion of yourself. If you respect yourself, others will respect you. If you feel others are not respecting you, ask first if you respect yourself. You can't control how another person acts. If you spouse decides to cheat, you can't stop her...short of locking her in a room. But she obviously finds something in the act [of cheating] and the question really is, what does she seek by cheating? If both of you want to explore the potential of keeping the marriage, go to a good marriage counselor. If you get a good counselor he/she won't insist that the marriage be saved at all costs. There are prices too high to pay. You both have to make that decision.

Answer 4

Here is some serious advice. Go back through your questions and figure out your story and where you are going with this. Your catching yourself up. NOT GOOD.

Answer 5

It's not you. It's her. People like to use excuses of why they cheat so they feel better about themselves, especially women because they don't want to look bad when it comes to sleeping around. You just need to find someone else.

Answer 6

well u must like something bout her way too much bc she isnt showin u the respect that u deserve. i mean really..she has u thinkin all messed up.. take a look at what she has done to u and ask urself if u really want to go thru what she might do again to u. is she really worth it, are u worth more than that.?

Answer 7

You need to learn how to tell the truth...first of all you said seperating from your wife had nothing to do with cheating or anything that serious...now which is it she cheating or not....

Answer 8

It is alarming that your story is contradicting. Just four days ago you wrote about being single in, "Can I get some advice please?" Two days ago you wrote, "What should I do for my 10 year wedding anniversary?" Have you tried counseling, or guidance by a medical professional?

Answer 9

Ask her what was she looking for with those other men. That way you will know what she wants. Don's change though, she will realize that she is just getting used and will come back to you. I know you must love her, but leave her so she realizes what she lost.

Answer 10

She could be using that excuse as exactly that.....OR she could be serious. Perhaps consider counseling if you both feel your marriage is worth saving. If not, seek the service of a good divorce attny.