Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

I was having this discussion with one of my friends the other day and would like to get some input from the women readers?

Sexually speaking, which type of guy would you rather have in the sack?

a.) a man who has good sexual control and can last 30 minutes easily, but once he has come he loses his erection. In other words, he has a long refractory period and cannot get another erection for at least an hour.

b.) a man who does not have as good sexual control and lasts for for about 10 minutes, but has little to no refractory period. He will come but he either does not lose his erection or can get one in a couple minutes and is ready to go again. He is capable of this at about 3 times.

2006-12-06 14:10:45 · 11 answers · asked by Achaholic 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-06 14:09:56 · 29 answers · asked by icy 3 in Singles & Dating

meaning by conversation, the way you act...or whatever?

2006-12-06 14:07:21 · 9 answers · asked by hotpinkchica 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 14:07:11 · 10 answers · asked by David G 1 in Singles & Dating

We are getting married this saturday, and I need to know--how much do you 'gift' the preacher?

He said it wasn't necessary, but if I wanted to give him a gift, I could. How much do I give him? The janitor is getting $75, the organist is getting $125. (These are pre-set rates, the rates that they normally charge.)

2006-12-06 14:06:39 · 14 answers · asked by Bachman-ette 4 in Weddings

i love to laugh, love going out but at the same time i;m so shy laid back but at the same time i think my boyfriend likes it because i'm not a flirt, but they do say i'm the one to watch out for

2006-12-06 14:06:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend is 14, a freshman in high school...im 17 , a senior in highschool. i really like him alot...hes mature and we grew up together so we are really close....the bad thing is im leaving for college soon and he still has 3 yrz of HS...do u think he is to young for me???

2006-12-06 14:05:54 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley H 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 14:04:24 · 28 answers · asked by ♥ms.peREz?♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

My cousin and I have basically grown up together and are best friends. I have always thought of her as another sister. She recently said that when she gets married she would want only her two sisters as bridesmaids and not me because i am not her sister. I feel so hurt. She has always told me she confides in me more than in her sisters and loves me as much or more. I would have thought that I would be her bridesmaid as well as her sisters. I would never exclude her like this. She is in a long-term relationship which is probably about to go to the next level and I find myself dreading the day that she announces they are going to marry, because I am going to be so hurt when she excludes me from it. Am i right to feel hurt or am i over-reacting?

2006-12-06 14:04:16 · 20 answers · asked by martina_ie 3 in Weddings

ok i need serious help with my boyfriend he says i dont pay attention to him and dont show affection ( i wont kiss him in school guess its a part of that) i really dont know what to do i dont want to lose him but i dont know how to change and show affection any suggestions?.. plzz help

2006-12-06 14:03:53 · 10 answers · asked by lavendernlily 1 in Singles & Dating

Are the people i want to be with the least? I think i'm afraid to let people get to close. Idk.

2006-12-06 14:03:32 · 9 answers · asked by Seduce A Stranger :] 6 in Friends

2006-12-06 14:03:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This hot girl was sitting beside me and i wanted to start talking to her so i asked her for a pen LOL. and it took her an hour because she kept asking me what kind of pen or if i wanted a pencil.. i just wanted something to write with. I was pretty shy and didnt want to seem desperate so i didnt give her much attention even when she asked me questions about the work and stuff. When she was leaving the class I noticed she was sort of looking at me and i looked at her. Is this all in my head or does she like me?

2006-12-06 14:01:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 14:01:57 · 24 answers · asked by Natasha 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I know I probably sound like a geek and im most likely not going to get a strait answer on this question, how do i appeal to the opposite sex? Im fourteen years old male and definitely not looking for anthing serious, but id like to know what its like to have a girlfriend. I don't know why, but all the girls in my school seem to be drawn to the same stuck up *** holes and i really dont know why. I feel I am charasimatic and funny, though i don't know if i am too much. Im pretty much a geek but you probably wouldn't be able to tell by my appearence. I think that girls have flirted with me but I really don't know, and I don't want to ask. Some insight PLEASE!!! (Go ahead laugh, im a nerd)

2006-12-06 14:01:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Also, what does it mean when a guy uses your name a lot in a conversation? Like, you're talking to him, and he'll be like "Yes, I agree (name), instead of just like "Yes, I agree." and that sort of thing.

2006-12-06 14:01:23 · 8 answers · asked by NYC Girl! 2 in Singles & Dating

She keeps wanting to have sex (all kinds) with me, how can I loose her or turn her butt off.

PS I am 61 years young and don't need this problem!!!

2006-12-06 14:01:00 · 9 answers · asked by hairie bear 1 in Singles & Dating

i am gonna ask this boy out named dustin i dont no how to say will you go out with me i am scared to ask him i am trying to ask him to be my boo bear but i am scared to ask him i need help please help if you know what to say please help me i really do need your help please pretty please.i am tiaschultz asking for help ok help is all i need

2006-12-06 14:00:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This one dude PROMISED to tell me something. I had to tell him who I liked. My crush JUST happened to be his friend, then he didn't tell me. (I'm telling you- I wouldn't have told him my crush for something stinky. It was really good.) I hate him now, how do I cope if he already told my crush that I like him and my crush doesn't like me?

2006-12-06 13:59:46 · 19 answers · asked by Ciao! 2 in Friends

What if she puts her homework, gift wrapping, and TV shows ahead of you? She never drives to you and you always have to drive to her. Would you say goodbye or would you take a softer approach?

2006-12-06 13:59:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay my mom and i got into a huge fight today. when we were walking downtown, we see this boy with long brown hair up to his butt and a baseball cap. my mom goes lily, never ever date a boy like that. and i go ummm mom, thats my boyfriend. apperantly i forgot 2 tell her that we were officially dating. whoopsies. well i still like him. hes wild and fun. do u like boys with long hair girls, and guys what do u think?

2006-12-06 13:59:28 · 12 answers · asked by GROOVY LILY 3 in Singles & Dating

What should I do if people are making fun of the girl I like behind her back? We are good friends. Like calling her names, and saying things about her because she is a tomboy. Like this one guy called her a stud a while back. Should I tell her or should I do something about these people?

2006-12-06 13:59:24 · 6 answers · asked by Red Baron 2 in Singles & Dating

What is it with all of you and your attraction to fat backward hat or greasy hair wearing Italian guys? Nice guys with good personalities and sincerity boring?

2006-12-06 13:59:07 · 3 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

I was talking to my crush yesterday
We are both seniors at high school
I have been secretly crushing on this girl and hinting her
we were talking about movies (i just got back from it at that time)
she suggested some other ones that i should see then she followed up with when am I going to go see it
cause she says "cuz i want to come too" (since she work there i think she can go in for free)

I said sure

Does she want to give me a shot (How does she know i like her)?

What should i do now? in the movie?

I do NOT want to screw this up...
Should i bring her a gift? (I have already bought her a gift that she told that she wanted it but since dont got any money at the moment cant get it... should i give it to her on that day or as
orginiall planned - as her xmas present?)

Today she was waving at me in class but i thought she was waving to her friend so i didnt wave back... I found out when she was told me and was so embarrassed....

2006-12-06 13:59:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been married 7 years next week. We have 2 kids--a daughter who is 6 and a son who is 3. We were drifting apart well before now. Effectively, neither of us felt loved by the other. She had the affair with a man she worked with. The affair lasted about a month. They went out to eat and such, and during that period, she had sex with him once.
I found out about it 4 weeks ago, and she broke it off with him. We have been going to counseling, and she and I have recommitted to each other. She has repeatedly and profusely apologized for the entire affair, and I sincerely believe she is regretful, and that she won't do it again. I love her dearly, and I know now that she loves me, but she made a mistake.

The problem is with me. I still feel very hurt and I can't bring myself to forgive her for it. I want to badly, because I see her cry about it from guilt. I can't ask her to apologize for it forever. How do I get past it? I love her and have no intentions of leaving her.

2006-12-06 13:58:47 · 57 answers · asked by benbobbins 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I lost to my wife in a bet and I have to dress as a girl around the house tommorw night for a few hours and wants ideas for things to dress me in. Any ideas?

2006-12-06 13:58:35 · 7 answers · asked by Mike P 1 in Singles & Dating

you know the symbol next to your username? how do i change that? please tell me haha.

2006-12-06 13:58:18 · 4 answers · asked by clare-louise 1 in Singles & Dating

Everything is finally comming together in my life, I've found the girl of my dreams. I am so happy about that. I am actually ready to take that next step, life is too short to wait around. So how about you, do you feel fufilled in life, has your dreams come true, are you happy? What say you?

2006-12-06 13:57:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together in a strong, deep and loving relationship for three years, but now we have split up because he kissed a girl. he says he wants me back?will he hurt me again? a lot of stuff has happened since we broke up, e.g hes slept with some1 else and kissed loads of girls.he says he loves me soo much and hel never hurt me again and that those girls meant ziltch. what would you do? i love him but i also want to protect myself.

2006-12-06 13:57:57 · 36 answers · asked by * *sUnShINe GiRl* * 1 in Singles & Dating

I am I think really pretty! I like this guy named Cruz he is so cute! He always stares at me and today he kept talking to me but when we were in P.E. He didn't pick me on his team does he like me?

2006-12-06 13:57:26 · 10 answers · asked by *á?¦eMo gAlá?¦* 1 in Singles & Dating