Are the people i want to be with the least? I think i'm afraid to let people get to close. Idk.
2006-12-06 14:03:32 · 9 answers · asked by Seduce A Stranger :] 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This makes sense in a way. Relationships are about mystery and getting to know one another therefore if you are already with someone who knows every detail already it may get boring and predictable. I wouldn't say you're afraid to let people get close maybe you just haven't met the right person. I find that if you're not with the right guy/girl you don't really want to share things with them but once you're with the right person you'll know it because you'll want to share everything. Mystery isn't a bad thing and neither is getting close but having a little of both keeps things fun and exciting. You may also just be the type of person who needs a lot of space and independance. That's okay too! Find friends and relationships with people who need the same. I guarantee there are others out there like you... they'll be your friends but they won't pry into every detail of your life.
2006-12-06 14:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by copper_eos 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you need to define,what you mean by or think of as, too close. Then you need to make youself be more friendly, to the people who know you. You could take a little more time with the people who don't know you, yet. But be more friendly with those who do. The only way to overcome a fear to do something, is to do it, anyway. And judging by the unspoken thought, behind your question, I think you want to, but need a push, so to speak.
2006-12-06 22:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey you need friends and is there something that makes you feel this way then you need to fix that and learn to love your friends that are the ones who hold you up when you fall they are the ones that love you even if you fall face First in front of your crush... i know it is hard cuz i have the same problem but i over come it and have learned to be happy and keep my chin up.
talk to your doctor you may have a medical problem...the one i have is depression and anxiety. they can ruin your life if you let them, but you can fight it and your FRIENDS are the ones you need the most...
try tellin your friends how you feel and maybe that might help..
2006-12-06 22:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont be afraid to. If the person that you get to close to move or something, you still have many more opportunities.
2006-12-06 22:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by R. S. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe because anything that you try to pull you know like different moods they will know. And that makes you feel uncomfortable. So you just have to be yourself. Think about it.
2006-12-06 22:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by thmsnbrgll 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'd rather be a closed book rather than an open one.
2006-12-06 22:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by ßαßε 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its easier to be around ppl who dont know all your stuff...then you can pretend you dont have any stuff...but in reality we ALL have stuff. soooooooooo if those ppl who know you best and know all of your stuff and they still wanna be around you despite all of your stuff you should feel VERY blessed!
2006-12-06 22:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by never2pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then maybe u should find new friends
2006-12-06 22:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I n s e c u r i t y.
2006-12-06 22:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by Singletary 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋