i love to laugh, love going out but at the same time i;m so shy laid back but at the same time i think my boyfriend likes it because i'm not a flirt, but they do say i'm the one to watch out for
2006-12-06 14:06:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u just need to change ur mentality so that u can see the Positive things instead of the Negatives.
the more u work on urself, the better u will feel. *trust me*.
so having said that, work on:
1) your appearance: work out. exercise. take care of ur body. take care of ur skin. get new haircut. try on new clothes. buy Flattering, stylish clothes, make u feel good and look good.
2) your mind: study. read more. learn more about current events. find a hobby, and excel at it. the more u KNOW, the easier it will be for you to develop your own ways of thinking, as well as be able to TALK w/ others about it.
3) your relationships: as u build ur confidence in urself, and keep in mind to be Open Minded, Non Judgemental to others..... u will be able to speak out more, talk to ur friends, family members, practice talking about anything and everything u are learning, or find out what they are interested in. the more u practice, the easier it will be for u to do that with Strangers, or friends of friends, and not feel as shy...because remember, 1 & 2, u are already working on ur appearance and your brain, so u don't have as much to be "scared" about.
:) good luck...the more Positive attitude u have (remember, u can Always change something if u make a mistake, u can learn from it, u can always grow, and do something different tomorrow), the more opportunity u will have in ur life. confidence will lead to easier job interviews, class discussions, making friends, getting to know teachers, etc etc.... huge impact on ur life. but getting over ur shyness is the first step, and working on ur confidence will help u become less shy.
2006-12-07 10:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe u are, so just be u and dont worry bout what everyone else says or thinks ..thats what makes u special
2006-12-06 22:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you please watch a broken lizard film, then ask me.
2006-12-06 22:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by lot2talkabt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋