This one dude PROMISED to tell me something. I had to tell him who I liked. My crush JUST happened to be his friend, then he didn't tell me. (I'm telling you- I wouldn't have told him my crush for something stinky. It was really good.) I hate him now, how do I cope if he already told my crush that I like him and my crush doesn't like me?
2006-12-06 13:59:46 · 19 answers · asked by Ciao! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You smile, and act like you own the world. No one ever melted from embarrassement. Then you learn, there is your private self and your public self. You don't need to be dishonest in life, you need to choose what information to disclose. It is your life, you don't need to tell the world. Probably one of them does have a crush on you, why would they take the time to ask. Beyond that. You smile, like you own the world, and you have a new puppy every day. That will really make you look attractive. It is the silly weepy, crying, upset girls that end up doing that shy dance and wondering why the home coming queen is so popular.
Dance like no one is watching
Laugh like no one is listening
Take care, and remember you DO own the world. Be a gracious landlord, no one likes a snob.
2006-12-06 14:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by batwanda 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Life lesson-do not reveal what you do not want known no matter whats being offered.. But if he told and your crush does not like you then theres nothing else to cope with and you move on with life. Maybe you thought that he was going to tell you that his friend,your crush liked you. Sounds all a bit kidstuff to me.
2006-12-06 14:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
First of all, Ci, you need to settle down. He might not have told you crush. But if he did, and you crush doesn't have one on you, he'll likely be offended. But if he does, then you and start being a couple with him. But if he doesn't, you will have to lose interest in the guy (your current crush) and move on to another one. Maybe the one who tricked you, and who might be jealous. There's not need to get all in a huff or hysterical stress about it.
2006-12-06 14:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I had something like that happen to me when i was younger over something stupid but i forget as it was a long time ago, but you better beware of all the 'he said', 'she said', whispering behind each other's backs as it's unhealthy and will lead to serious trouble. Anyway, play it cool with you 'friend' and ask him if he said anything to your 'crush'. You don't know how he feels about you yet, do you?
2006-12-06 14:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well, a lesson learned. I'm sorry, but some people just try to sucker you in. Hold your head up high and pretend it didn't happen. If anybody says something, say your were just kidding. We all do things like this. You'll feel better in about 3 days.
2006-12-06 14:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
He more than likely has a crush on you, and he got hurt when you told him you liked his friend.
2006-12-06 14:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by Aioria De Leo 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
wow i feel so bad for you...your life is soooo hard...why why why????
do you have a bed to sleep in tonight? how about a roof over your head? food on the table? friends? family?
take a look at your life and reevaluate things...seriously is this really the end of the world??
2006-12-06 14:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by never2pink 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if he likes you then good you scored and if he don't then who cares. i have a crush on someone and he does not even see me more then a friend but i still treat him the same and he treats me the same. so if he acts childish about it then you did not need him anyways. but i do hope it truns out great. Just don't lose your cool and life goes on if he doesn't.
2006-12-06 14:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Act like it doesn't bother you, whether he likes you or not. Don't let them see you squirm. That's more for them to talk about if you act like it's the end of the world. He was foul, and I would say not to talk to him anymore until he apologizes. And even after he does, I would watch what I say around him.
2006-12-06 14:02:42 · answer #9 · answered by HeavenlyBoheme 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
just forget it and move on. there are plenty of fish is the sea. If this guy is a jerk and tells your crush, hey, don't bother with him anymore.
2006-12-06 14:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by SolMan 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋