I have 4 boys, I'm over weight and almost 40.
2006-12-06 14:48:11 · 10 answers · asked by Sheila 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
always have private time for you and your hubby. kids are great, we love them, but couples should have memories without them too. on most relationships that i've seen and watched fail, the problem was that the couples became too comfortable with each other they don't bother to impress their partners anymore. the fact that you have conscious interest to keep your love alive means you're on the right track... good luck!
2006-12-06 14:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well congradulations on your marriage. Never loose comunication that is the number 1 thing in a marriage. And it takes two to keep it alive. Always find time just you and your husband. put the kids to bed so you two have honey time. Good luck and Merry Christmas
2006-12-06 14:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by Babie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to learn from the mistakes that were made in the first marriage. You have to move forward in this marriage and try every day to improve something, communication, self, bedroom skills, family. If you get stuck in the same rut that caused the first failure then you are doomed again. Remember there is family time and then husband time. Don't be afraid to explore different techniques.
2006-12-06 15:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sheila, you probably already know what to do. At yleast you have some ideas. First, take care of yourself. Honor yourself. If you love yourself, you will attract love. Live your life to the fullest, enjoy everything, and spread your love and enjoymen with those around you...your husband, your children and all your frineds. You can't "make" someone love you...but you sure can attract love by being loveable. So do for yourself what you want others to do for you, and enjoy life and help those around you enjoy their lives. And, Merry Christmas.
2006-12-06 15:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two. Do your part, and hopefully he'd do his as well.
PLEASE keep the lines of communication OPEN! Dont let small issues become mountains! Enjoy each other....LAUGH A LOT together!
2006-12-06 15:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loose the weight, the phone ,the friends and pay attention to your mate,he needs attention to and its not always sexual,women tend to put all there time into the kids and this causes problems.
2006-12-06 15:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by lesuiremike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he married an overweight,old woman with 4 kids didnt he...so dont be so insecure and just respect one another and try to make the best of it.
2006-12-06 14:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR SIZE, AGE OR YOUR KIDS HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH IT. NO ONE CAN TELL YOU HOW TO LOVE YOUR HUSBAND
2006-12-06 16:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~ISABELLA~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
[.AMANDA]]. IN MY OPION I AGREE WITH ON THIS MATTER AS WELL . IN MY OPION EVERYONE HERE HAS GIVEN YOU VERY GOOD ANSWERS TO ON THIS MATTER GOOD LUCK HIS TIME . MY OPION?
2006-12-06 15:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do everything you didnt do the first time....
2006-12-06 14:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by can u ♥ moi? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋