my roommate's weird,man.everything's ok,then,one day,she decided to switch to 'tudung labuh' and she resembles a very young 'ustazah'.i'm fine with that.then all of the sudden,she decides to move on with life and leave the little people in her life,a.k.a me,behind.when i talked to her,she gave the yes-no answer only.then when it was lunchtime,me n my classmate sits at her table,she puts on a face and muttered 'what are YOU doing here?'i asked my other roommates to ask her what i did to her,but don't tell her it's me,she said 'nothing,i'm just bored of seeing her face everyday'.so,she's bored with seeing my face,but not bored with seeing my other roommates faces????man,i'm steamed.she's a very picky sort of person.i don't think i want to be friends with her anymore, but it can't go on like this forever,i mean,her bed's opposite to mine,i'm gonna see her face everyday. i hate her,but i wanna settle this.any ideas,anyone??please
2006-12-06 14:42:25 · 12 answers · asked by silverwater92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
WOW! ARE YOU EVER LETTING THIS GIRL HAVE POWER OVER YOU. ASK TO SWITCH ROOMS.. A TRUE FRIEND IS NOT WISHY-WASHY. THEY ARE ALWAYS YOUR FRIEND. WHY WOULD YOU TRY SO HARD TO BE FRIENDS WITH AN IDIOT? AND BEING FRIENDS IS NOT SUPPOSE TO BE A HARD THING TO DO. SOUNDS ALSO LIKE YOU ARE A LITTLE JEALOUS OF YOUR OTHER FRIENDS STILL BEING FRIENDS WITH HER. YOU ASK HER WHAT IT IS THAT YOU HAVE DONE TO MAKE HER ACT LIKE THIS IF YOU WANT TO KNOW. DON'T PUT YOUR OTHER FRIENDS IN THE MIDDLE. AND DON'T MAKE THEM CHOOSE SIDES. LOL AND YOU ARE NOT BENEATH HER. YOU ARE ABOVE HER. DON'T ALLOW HER TO CONTROL YOUR FEELINGS AND BEHAVIOR CAUSE THAT IS WHAT YOU ARE DOING. I DON'T THINK YOU HATE HER, I THINK YOU HATE HER BEHAVIOR BECAUSE IT DOESN'T INCLUDE YOU. AND THAT IS A LONELY SPACE WHEN YOU'RE YOUNG. YOU THINK SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH YOU. BUT IT IS NOT...THAT'S HER STUFF. LET HER GO GET HER OUT OF YOUR HEAD AND SHE SOUNDS LIKE AN IDIOT TO ME TOO....
2006-12-06 14:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by deltabred 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new roommate, life is too short to have to deal with people like that. If that just cannot be done and you MUST remedy it (not that I think it is going to be easily remedied) and stay in that room with that roommate, either be honest and tell her you hope she grows up before getting out of school, or just ignore her, two can play the game.
What is your room for, sleep, maybe study. Go hang with those you are closer to, study with them. Go to your room and do what hasta be done, then leave again. You only hafta see her face if you look at it.
2006-12-06 14:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by gare 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..well, Firstly, I believe you're a Malay :).
Talk things out with her.Ask her did you do anything wrong to offend her. Tell her what's her problem. If she gives you the "yes-no" answer again, oh well, just tell her straight in the face " If you can't communicate with me, might as well move out".
If you intend to be the diplomatic type, just ignore her when she's around...even at home. :)
2006-12-06 14:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by Gigaburn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 friends which 3 of us share a dorm. One of my friend who is so pissed with the other (for some reason) did not talk to the latter for a year. So I would suggest, either you move or treat her as non existence.
2006-12-06 14:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ho S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her that you really need to talk and to give you a few minutes. Explain how you feel to her without getting angry or upset and then if she still acts like that you have to learn to not let her get to you. If she wants to be immature than you have no time for her! Good Luck!
2006-12-06 14:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by lustfulcalgal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront her yourself. Stop using go betweens. If your old enough to live away from your parents, you should be grown up enough to handle your own problems. If she continues to be a witch and you can't stand to be around her...move, or ask her to. Life is too short for petty crap like that.
2006-12-06 15:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by cammi1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Roomates are the devil.
At first everything's great but over time, seeing each other constantly is enough to drive you both crazy.
Sounds like you need a new roomate or you need to room by yourself.
2006-12-06 14:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has an fairly unique call. and he or she probably is on drugs (it relatively is all interior the eyes). My cat Alex have been given into drugs and now he basically ever calls in while he needs foodstuff or money for his next hit.
2016-10-04 23:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by dunkelberger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore this and give it time to blow over. Don't be overly nice to her, and don't be rude either. The next person she gets irritated at will come along soon.
2006-12-06 14:48:58 · answer #9 · answered by musemessmer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone she likes very much ( a guy) asked about you. With you women it's always jealousy. Ask her, see if I'm right.
2006-12-06 14:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by bamafannfl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋