I'm a senior in HS and have this major crush on this girl who is a junior in HS. So much so that I want to marry her (seriously, she has every quality that you would look for). But the more I see her in school the more I see that she is well, too good. Everything I do, she does better than me. In academics, sports, and everything in between. And the one thing I thought she could not do, she passed me on that too. The more I think about it she's too good for a person like me. She probably grows up to be doctor. So even if I do marry her she'll still have a head over me in absolutly everything. Is she really out of my reach?
2006-12-06 15:04:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS- she is also more religious than me too
2006-12-06 15:15:27 · update #1
why not ask you never know.. even though you have her on this pedestol she might not see herself that way and me really open to you. Get to know her personality better you might be more compatible than you thought.
2006-12-06 15:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by So Happy!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may not be Christian, but I feel I can contribute fairly to this. Regardless of whether or not porn/masturbation is a sin, it is something you are against, and that is the important thing. He's willing to sacrifice that for you. To you, this may not be a big deal, but if he's been using it for a while, then he's used to it. I'm not sure if it was the combo that bothered you, or each part. If he's ditching the porn, ok, but if you insist that he stops masturbating, too, you're going to have trouble. Without that release, his years-long habit of keeping his desires under control will be gone, and he'll be very lusty. Regardless of your view, I recommend letting him masturbate... if nothing else, till marriage, when you would then be able to satisfy him. Also, within Christian doctrine, there is none without sin, and Jesus forgives all sin. If he's willing to change... why would you consider dumping him for past sins? I assure you, you will never find any human on Earth who doesn't have a problem with sin in some way or another. Whether its lying, having too loose a tongue when angry (verbal abuse) etc, everyone has a problem. If you truly love the man, and feel that he loves you, then do as Jesus commanded: forgive him and move on. The fact he's willing to sacrifice it for you is a major sign of his devotion to you.
2016-05-23 02:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her that much, ask her out, man! If you date her you can get to know her better. She can't possibly be perfect. There are things that she'll find in you that she admires. You don't have to marry her, just give it a chance. If you don't, you'll regret it forever. And what does how religious she is have to do with it anyway?
2006-12-06 15:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by harmonardus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously just have fun. You are too young to be thinking about this like of thing. Im not much older than you and I have a family. I love them with all my heart but I wish I would have waited and done more before starting a family.
2006-12-06 15:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by missthang229 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys i know are exactly like you doesn't mean that a gal with such a strong sense of character is perfect doesn't mean you're not rite for her. If you respect her then nothing else matters!! Just having the gut to go up to her and ask her out would really impress her... she mite even feel flattered when a senior is asking her out!! Don't be such a wuss and just go for it, she will like you for it!! Goodluck
2006-12-06 15:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by ginger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody is ever truly "above" u. sounds like to me that Ur just having a Lil bit of a confidence problem. so what shes better then u in everything. is she a good person? do u like her 4 who she is? or what she can do? I'm sure that if u just get over this Lil confidence problem u will c that u do alot of things better. believe in urself always.
2006-12-06 15:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by lilmisspriss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never doubt yourself and never judge a book by it cover. Anyway someone likes an individual because of the comparsion each other has. If the two of you are comparable then it will happen. Let nature takes it course and donot be quick to judge because she does thinngs better, she will like you better if you are confident in yourself.
2006-12-06 15:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by mickey864 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am smarter and better looking than my other half. He treats me like a queen and that is why I am with him. I make him happy so he does everything he can to make me happy so I wont want anyone else. I am so spoiled and ruined! It doesnt matter if Im smarter. In fact, thats why Im with him instead of some gorgeous hunk of jerk!
2006-12-06 15:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When two people are in love (enough to get married), they share each other successes and failures. You love her, right? Then be happy for her successes. Be her biggest cheerleader. Women love to be cherished and crave approval. Even if she grows up to be a doctor, she will love you because you love, accept, and approve of her no matter what she does.
BTW, loving, accepting and approving of yourself will help you do the same for her.
2006-12-06 15:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you would marry her then you would end up breaking up beacuse you would bre in a constant fight to be the best. I t would be best to wait and play it by ear, so what if she is a doctor and you are not making quite as much money. I would be proud of her.
2006-12-06 15:10:35 · answer #10 · answered by lot2talkabt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ones out of your reach. Your feelings could be real, or just tension. You should go for it. You don't know what could/will happen. Why give up a chance to be happy?
2006-12-06 15:12:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋