If you are a girl and you dont know someone yet or you know their faces or even their name but not too much, maybe a foriegner, will you allow yourself together with the guys/boys to drink in the bar?If you respect yourself because you are the only girl drinking together with the boys what would you do?
2006-12-06 15:43:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not one to go out drinking alone with guys I don't know well or at all. I don't think it generally looks good and they may get the wrong message.
2006-12-06 15:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self respect is extremely important, buy going with a bunch of guys to a bar doesn't necessarily mean that you dont have any. I'm a girl and I hang out with pretty much all guys. I don't really think it matters that they're all men. The only thing that matters is that you feel comfortable with them.
2006-12-06 15:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by lyntrinh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and have a little fun. Just remember that you don't have a safety friend with you, so don't put yourself in a situation where something negative could occur. Don't get drunk. Don't go anywhere with the boys if they are drunk.
You can go out and have a good time and still have lots of self respect.
2006-12-06 16:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by MSA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have self respect then you would never be caught drinking with a bunch of guys by yourself , it degrades you. No matter how cute the guy is if he doesn't respect you then there is really no point in trying to pursue a relationship with him!!
2006-12-06 15:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by ginger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely go for drinks at the bar with guys I just met, what's the big deal with that... lol.. a girl has to have fun right...
2006-12-06 15:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree with you! it is very important, about whether you would join or not? well if you don't feel so cool and safe about it, better not go.......
2006-12-06 15:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure is
2006-12-06 15:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋