my gf (not mother) said a few things that really bother me
1. when itold here my daughters name she said " thats an ni@ger name!.
2. she also blurted "I don't want to meet your daughter anyway!"
3. "your daughter's mom is white trash"
i really like her but am ready to split bc I cant forgive her for these rude few remarks that piss me off, she has never met my daughters mom.
i think im going to tell her to FU%K off, is this approprate?
2006-12-06 16:14:16 · 25 answers · asked by storminnormin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Might not be tactful, but you are well within your bounds to tell her that.
2006-12-06 16:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well let's see here ...
1. She's racist.
2. She's narrow minded.
3. She inadvertantly, if not directly, insulted your child, and at the very least, slighted her.
4. She outright insulted the mother of your child with a racist remark.
The fact that you "really like her" should have you more worried than any other aspect of this situation.
Yes, the term f off would be entirely appropriate at this point.
2006-12-06 16:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jaded 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES you would be well within your rights to tell her whatever you feel. She has certainly made it very clear to you how she feels !! She sounds very immature, racist and extremely jealous to me. What gives her the right to call your ex " white trash " what sort of crap is that ??Also to say she doesn't even want to meet your new baby, what has your daughter ever done to her ?? It is obvious that this relationship is going nowhere. I would certainly split with her and good riddance, l say !! Find yourself a new girlfriend who has respect for you and your new daughter. I don't believe this one even has any respect for herself let alone anyone else. Best of luck to you and your new baby girl.
2006-12-06 16:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like someone you don't need around. I personally wouldn't put up with that from a significant other.
That said, I am sure it is very hard for her to deal with the fact that her new boyfriend has a child with another woman. Perhaps she is really hurt inside and this is triggering her inappropriate remarks.
2006-12-06 16:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by mlle-fantine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter is the most important person in your life. She should come 1st in your life. You wouldn't want a girlfriend who can't be respectful.What kind of example would that be for your daughter? You need someone to love you and your daughter.
2006-12-06 16:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Chloe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good lord, what an awful person! Why would you want to stay with her? She cant take those things back. She is jealous of your new daughter and that is pathetic.
Sure, say that...but if you do, have those be your last words to her. Those are perfect last words!! Dont make more drama, just end it!!
Have fun with your new baby!
2006-12-06 16:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by stephasoris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds such as you're jelous of that youngster. to no longer be a jerk or something yet fairly relax. Your lady chum is powerful he's 4 years previous. enable him be a baby. I do agree related to the bedtime element he could have one yet to no longer early. consistent with danger around 8 or 9. *in case you won't manage to stand teenagers then do no longer date single mothers.*
2016-10-04 23:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah, I don't know how long this woman has been in your life but why would you want to be with someone who says such negative things about your own flesh and blood...who cares about what she says about your baby's mama, she could be jealous that she's not the one with your baby, but to insult your child, an innocent baby what kind of woman is she and how much does she care about you that she would say these things?I think you would be smart to move on.
2006-12-06 16:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by Forever_Young 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you already know your answer ! DUMP HER! You need to hang around different kind of people if she's any example of the crowd you are running with.
But may I offer a few words of advice? Don't make any other babies, unless you are married. There are too many people in this world referring to their "baby's father". Things are getting out of hand, Dude!
2006-12-06 16:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by Maewest 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way :
If she doesn't accept your daughter why and how can she accept you
Tell her to F U C K off!
If your daughther is important to you then get rid of her
You don't need some one filling your daughter head with crap like that
2006-12-06 19:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't even hesitate! tell her to go F#@* herself. if she's like that to ur newborn. imagine as the child gets older. she'll start to be mean to her. don't put the baby through that. i've seen it happen before. if you don't want to break up with her because you "like" her, then your the one being selfish.
next time she says something. stand up for your daughter. she's just a baby and can't do it for herself.
tell her if she doesn't like the situation, then there's the door!
2006-12-06 16:37:03 · answer #11 · answered by nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋